Sure. I can see where you are coming from.
It could also be like / in the category of:
saying \'i have no body shame or anything, i am open minded to trying everything that makes you feel good\'
using a vibrator, buttplugs, wevibe...
taking time to lick her (\'Cause your miserable penis didn\'t make her cum alone\' - i don\'t mean that, but in the ultimate alpha fantasy it\'s like that)
holding it instead of cumming soon (\'Cause your miserable penis couldn\'t just magically make her cum in 10 seconds\')
doing roleplays
putting her enjoyment before my pride
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Am i too afraid of using a vibrator in sex? Many men are.
Yes, in the ultimate version i would be super-alpha and i fuck her and somehow penis fits so good inside her she immediately cums continously once i stick it in. I guess if that happens i am not motivated to use a vibrator.
But many/all women don\'t cum this good with me, i think many women never came vaginally in their entire life - yes, i use the vibrator in sex, and it helps them to cum while fucking. (there was one woman who came super-easy, she even came after dirty talk when i put my super-thin penis in, on the entry; in her case i still tried the vibrator as i remember)
I think the end result (when she comes over for sex with me she knows she will cum) is much better than not using the vibrator.
Now, the same thinking i apply to the sleeve. I just try it, how they like it. Do they need a superbig
Dick, does it make a difference on this girl?
If it does - i don\'t give much fuck, i will give it to them. They know when they come over they will also get the superbig
Dick.
I want to be a good lover.
Btw there was no question about the effectivity of the vibrator, while with the extender that makes
Dick like 8x6.5 or even the smaller one - reviews of girls were mixed.
I also invited a friend over and we both fucked a female lover of mine together. Pride would easily also get in the way there.
And after a few sessions with this mindset many are very eager to ask something like \'what do youuuu want!? you can do whatever you like!\'.
I have more than one female lover that said something like \'i have to tell you - i am *really really* thankful for having met you\'. Which then ironically is good for my ego again.