Reality Check
I have spent so much time on this site, that I am absolutely positive my point of view has become completely skewed. On this site, we routinely speak of 6
Inch Girth as barely adequate, and 7
Inch Girth is starting to become commonplace. Now, I don\'t think this is bad, and this is not a judgement by me or anything along those lines, but I think Sizemic said it best when he compared this process to bulking up on steroids, where you can quickly lose all sense of moderation and start making yourself into a characature.
I say this because I have been seeing a woman for a couple weeks now, and she is extremely attractive and has some experience with guys. She has a child and is in her 30s. She is above average height and though thin is not waify or frail, a genuine all American sexy woman. We were having sex last night and she said, \"oh my god you\'re so huge fuck me with that big
Dick.\"
She was quite intoxicated and was clearly not putting on a show. I thanked her for the compliment afterward and she looked at me funny, and I had to explain to her what I meant. She said, \"oh, well you have a big
Dick.\"
I countered with, \"I know but it\'s still nice to hear\" and then moved on. The truth is though, I don\'t know that. I forget. I\'m still the guy that carried around all that insecurity for all those years. I can\'t see the truth objectively.
The fact is, 6.5
BPEL and 5.5 MSEG is apparently pretty fucking big to normal women. I get this again and again now. The thing is, in my mind, I\'m still small. It doesn\'t change, it doesn\'t go away. I\'m like a 6\'1 guy walking around with a napoleon complex. I am way above average, and my brain refuses to accept that.
I\'m not pointing fingers, I don\'t give a crap about what anyone else does, I just wanted to let some guys out there who are already bigger than average know that you don\'t have to shoot for 6 or 7 in
Girth. It\'s ok. You don\'t have to split her in half. She likes it. She likes you. A lot. She\'s impressed. You probably don\'t need another round. Your brain still won\'t tell you you\'re big, not really, not on a deep level. Try broadening your interests, take up a new sport, write a book, take a class, etc.
I\'m writing this to myself as much as anyone else. This is a wake up call - you do not have to be shorty Mac to get a girl off. It\'s ok to stop at big. Seriously, you\'ve reached the mountaintop. You\'ve arrived. The ladies have spoken, and 5.5 MSEG is extremely good for most women.