TOPIC: Taking the PMMA plunge

So this is going to be my last post for a while, barring anything unexpected. I am going to get married, and I\'ve had a serious talk with my new fiance about PE, and she is absolutely satisfied with my current size, and is adamantly opposed to any more work being done on me. To quote her, \"imagine if I had a boob job done and then wanted to get more and more and more... you\'d get freaked out right? You\'d wonder what the hell is wrong with ne. You\'re big, you\'re great, but I need you to decide whether you want to be with me or have a huge Dick, because I don\'t want to get ripped up every time we have sex. I don\'t like huge dicks, if I wanted one I could be with someone who had one. You satisfy me completely. Now please stop and let\'s have a good life together.\"

Gotta say that outside of the insanity we go through on here, she makes a hell of a lot of sense. We are all so far outside of the norm with our expectations about size, and our perceptions of it\'s importance. I\'m not saying going from below average to a bit above average doesn\'t make a difference. You know my opinion on that. But the desire to be not above average, but just flat huge, has gotten way the hell out of hand.

So, In conclusion, I\'m done. I graduated. I\'m going to leave the table while I\'m winning. I have immense gratitude to all of you for the comradery and help that you all have provided. There\'s just nothing else left for me to gain here, just heartache and loss if I can\'t get over my obsession. Being that this site only makes me feel worse, not better, I have to leave. Barring something new occuring, I\'m out. Thanks for everything, and good luck to you all!

Congratulations and best of luck to you!

Both a touching and wise post DWD! All my best wishes for a merry future.

I still would ask you to post in case of any development with respect to your PMMA procedure.

Great news my friend. Enjoy life!

Catch ya on the flip side!


-Thehulk

good luck dude. I also tried to send you a link for your armidex question, dont know it it actually went through.

Anyway, godspeed.

Bon voyage. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Please drop in from time to time

Good luck my friend. Staying away from here can be the best thing for one\'s health at times. But please drop by every now and again to let us know all is well.

mate nice post & nicely written..all the best...yes most women dont really care about massive penis\'s and the majority like them MEDIUM!

..If only mine was MEDIUM..hahaha

Smart move.
Best of luck, MM

PE Retirement will be a huge relief, and having a caring, understanding wife will make this exit an easier one. All 200 of your posts were substantive and insightful, we\'re glad to have it a part of the content here in our forums.

Good luck, wish you and your fiancee the best!


-S.O.

Well, I gave retirement a serious go. Unfortunately, my dysmorphia is quite persistant. I would like to be able to swing with my lady in the future, and I\'m just not packing enough to feel comfortable with that. I am in the process of working on length now, using the ADS that came with the grip system. I had to make a few modifications in order to get it to work for me while I sit at my desk all day, but I\'ve got it mastered and can wear it all day long. I figure if I\'m going to be trapped in a cubicle, I might as well be working on my unit. I\'ve heard so many guys talk about gains with the ADS, and it\'s the only method that has stood up to clinical trials, so what the hell. It won\'t hurt me, and maybe it\'ll work. 7.5 BPEL is the dream, but if I get nothing, at least I\'ll know I tried, and it doesn\'t cost a thing and no one outside of this board needs to know. Wish me luck guys!

@Resoration/OP: Here\'s how I see some stuff...

\"I am honestly curious why she even cared / didn\'t take it well. \"

Well... from my experience most people are insecure, to varying degrees. One way some people offset their anxiety about their insecurities is to be with someone who is secure, or someone who they project to be secure. A woman in a heterosexual relationship in western culture at this time will typically be doing this to some degree. Women are put under immense scrutiny by media and culture, and thus tend to have deeper spectrums of common insecurities and social disorders stemming from them. Within this scale of behavior one can expect any event of a man modifying himself as an expression of insecurity. This explains the common image of the \"true man\" as the mountain man, or the \"Ron Swanson.\" Many men exhibit moderate insecurity-caused behavior which can most easily be summed up by the \"metrosexual\" idea. These are expressions of insecurity that are culturally accepted, and tap into another part of psychosexual behavior I\'m not prepared to discuss here. That said, altering the penis is obviously one of the most dramatic forms of expression of psychosexual insecurity a man can undergo. And that\'s the point, right? We are insecure about a thing thus we take physical action to remedy that. For many on here and elsewhere it seems to work but with physical risk. But there\'s also the risk of damaging or ruining an existing relationship because of these issues. Typically I\'d imagine most of the actors in any relationship where this plays out are not fully aware of the core reasons behind their actions, though I also suspect every player realizes at least some of the reasoning else they wouldn\'t take action.

So... to boil it down: you get PE surgery > she doubts your sense of security > she needs security > you\'re out.

A man knowing these things going in to the preceding discussions around PMMA etc could help manage a successful dialogue with a heterosexual female partner that allows for everyone to come out happy.

nohidingstyle wrote: @Resoration/OP: Here\'s how I see some stuff...

\"I am honestly curious why she even cared / didn\'t take it well. \"

Well... from my experience most people are insecure, to varying degrees. One way some people offset their anxiety about their insecurities is to be with someone who is secure, or someone who they project to be secure. A woman in a heterosexual relationship in western culture at this time will typically be doing this to some degree. Women are put under immense scrutiny by media and culture, and thus tend to have deeper spectrums of common insecurities and social disorders stemming from them. Within this scale of behavior one can expect any event of a man modifying himself as an expression of insecurity. This explains the common image of the \"true man\" as the mountain man, or the \"Ron Swanson.\" Many men exhibit moderate insecurity-caused behavior which can most easily be summed up by the \"metrosexual\" idea. These are expressions of insecurity that are culturally accepted, and tap into another part of psychosexual behavior I\'m not prepared to discuss here. That said, altering the penis is obviously one of the most dramatic forms of expression of psychosexual insecurity a man can undergo. And that\'s the point, right? We are insecure about a thing thus we take physical action to remedy that. For many on here and elsewhere it seems to work but with physical risk. But there\'s also the risk of damaging or ruining an existing relationship because of these issues. Typically I\'d imagine most of the actors in any relationship where this plays out are not fully aware of the core reasons behind their actions, though I also suspect every player realizes at least some of the reasoning else they wouldn\'t take action.

So... to boil it down: you get PE surgery > she doubts your sense of security > she needs security > you\'re out.

A man knowing these things going in to the preceding discussions around PMMA etc could help manage a successful dialogue with a heterosexual female partner that allows for everyone to come out happy.

I agree 100%, well said. I don\'t think women are fully cognoscent of these feeling/ emotions and how they affect their behavior even though their actions are mostly attributed from these factors. In business cash is king, in relationships / relations confidence is king.

DWD,
This is a bit off kilter, but this penis dysmorphia you speak of! I know that it matters very little, if any, coming from me but you have a nice unit. Hell you started off better than most. Anyway as said many times before..... no homo but I'd kill for your abs. Abs---(nice abs)--- that is make any Dick look better not to mention bigger. I don't have a six pack'not quite a keg either. Don\'t know how to say it without sounding wierd but you look sharp. Nice progress report, you've been my model'stats are close reference unit also to include height. I would read your post by the date to see if I was on track, Hell I still do. So thanks for all of your help and I hope that one day you find what you are truly looking for.

Hey, I\'ll take a free compliment any day. I just wanted to say that after Hanging, my eq got worse every time I did it,
and it was a pain in the ass
having to stand around for an hour a day with weights dangling. I\'ve been using the ads for a week now,
and my eq is actually improved. Also, my Flaccid is absolutely longer, no question
, and that is a really nice feeling. Lastly, there\'s something about wearing the stretcher all day that is comforting. I feel like no matter how bored I am or what repetitive analysis I\'m engaged in,
I\'m doing something to make my unit bigger. It\'s a really good feeling. The increase Flaccid size alone is worth it for me, but here\'s to 7 inches in the making!