dstern22 wrote: This has zero to do with what my wife wants. Zero.
This has to do with what I want. That's all that matters. It's my body, my Cock and my choice. In fact, I believe that so strongly that I managed to get Ellanse done w/o her knowing. I've posted the details in another thread. It's been about 6 months, and she loves it. (again, not my primary concern) her orgasm is her problem, and she's even admitted that. I know it sounds selfish, but you have to quit letting what others think about what you are doing. I always take my wife's opinion into consideration. (much like a co-pilot) but ultimately it's my call, especially when it's something like my Cock. So, I'm sure some will see this as an extreme view. But I'm not going to go crying to her and tell her all the emotional reasons that I want it done, hold her and cry about it. I'm going to come up with a cover story, book the flight and get it done. And I have zero regrets. In fact, going back for a touch up in a couple of weeks. Bigger and better!
Well put, man, well put. As I wrote in another thread, girls -- even wives -- come and go but your
Cock is yours for life. It's your body, do what you want with it but be ready to accept whatever reaction the wife / GF brings.
In my case, I did tell my wife up front about what I was doing and why. I thought it was best to be straight forward, honest, and build that connection ... and it totally backfired. She twisted things to make it about her and ... oh man. However, there would have been no way that I could have gone in for three rounds and end up with 6.3" in
Girth without her noticing. Also, doing the aftercare would have been much more challenging to attempt in secret. But, as it all played out, she now loves it. Which brings me to the main topic of this thread:
Vaginas have muscle memory. When they first start taking big cocks they can be a little uncomfortable but they do get used to them. This doesn't necessarily mean they're being stretched out per say, it's just that the muscles in the vagina become adapted to big things being inserted. After round 2 I was a little on the uncomfortable side for my wife and sex was hit or miss. After round 3 this was even more so -- sometimes she loved it, sometimes she didn't. But now, six or so months later she absolutely loves it. She adapted to it and can now take it with ease and we're having better sex than we've had in years.
So yes, saying that girls will "just get used to it" isn't as arrogant as it sounds ... it really happens.