TOPIC: Does A Bigger Dick Change Things?

I don\'t have a problem with the \"Sarah Jessica Parkers\" of this world discussing intimacy and penis size if it wasn\'t so taboo for me to equally discuss cavernous vaginas over the same dinner.

Skeptical One wrote: Emasculation by media, culture, and/or society is a perspective, an opinion. Whether it is happening or not is hard to say, but there is nothing wrong with discussing/debating the matter.

EQ, you decry the notion bigger-is-better yet sought out penis enlargement. Instead, you should have gotten over it and grown a pair.

Are you implying that there is something wrong in disagreeing , discussing and debating a perspective that I find belittling to men?

As far as growing a pair. I have a pair, I did something about it. Just like I work out 6 days a week. I\'m not whining about women or afraid that someone has a bigger Dick than I have, please!

supa wrote: It is all right to disagree and express different viewpoints (as eqstudent offered nothing more -how could he? This ain\'t algebraic topology!) but, of course when eqstudent does it, he feels compelled to act and write condescendingly. It is in his nature and there is nothing he can do about it,

Actually your post is condescending and belittling to men which I clearly resent.

Most men are not as you describe. We are not afraid of who our SOs slept with before us. We are not longing to marry clueless virgins who have not slept with other men. We are not hiding in fear and afraid of the Sarah Jessica Parkers of the world. In fact we take them out to dinner, sit and listen to their concerns and opinions, smile and agree, and then take them home and tear up that ass! That is what real men have been doing since day 1. They adapt and succeed. Heck Sex in the City has helped me get laid and laid very well, more than anything else I can remember in a long time!

Whatever issues you have you will never overcome them until you man up and deal with it. The \'liberal\" media, social culture, liberated women are not an issue the only issue is the man in the mirror. Nobody can emasculate you, you are emasculating yourself and then whining about it.

Sex is an overrated pastime? Sheer nonsense!

@EQ

A perspective is just that. It isn\'t a very objective argument and therefore you will have varying opinions. I have never received a negative comment but that isn\'t to say there are people out there who have issued them. Emasculation by media, culture, and/or society is a perspective, an opinion. Whether it is happening or not is hard to say, but there is nothing wrong with discussing/debating the matter.

EQ, you decry the notion bigger-is-better yet sought out penis enlargement. Instead, you should have gotten over it and grown a pair.

Usual eqstudent\'s attitude, no problem, we are used to it. All is good guys.

When I talked about ruthless bitches I clearly emphasized that it was within my experience and personal understanding. I did not claim I was announcing a physical law of the universe. At any rate, I happily leave all the Sarah Jessica Parkers of the US to eqstudent and his dad; the kind of woman clearly all men want to see when they go back home after work.

It is all right to disagree and express different viewpoints (as eqstudent offered nothing more -how could he? This ain\'t algebraic topology!) but, of course when eqstudent does it, he feels compelled to act and write condescendingly. It is in his nature and there is nothing he can do about it, .

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supa wrote: Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion....

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe...

Dance With Dragons wrote: ...that America has turned into a culture where men are relocated to second class citizens unless they are abnormally blessed in the penis department...

Sorry guys but this is just pathetic nonsense. You are fantasizing about a time and environment that never existed. The media, popular culture, or women have not emasculated some men. Men with no Balls have done it to themselves and are such cowards they are looking for something else to blame.

The same guys who are whining, hiding in the dark, and cringing in fear that some other man might be bigger than them would have been doing the same thing 50, 100, or 1000 years ago. All the other men were going about their business not even giving it a second thought. Heck the ancient Greeks thought that a small penis was ideal. The ancient Romans had public sex and sometimes orgies as common practices.

As far as supposed \"ruthless bitches\", after 2 years on several PE boards I have yet to see a real account of single one. So a woman said that someone in her past was bigger than you. Guess what that is just a matter of fact and has no other real meaning. Get over it and grow a pair as my dad used to say.

\"Fap on it\", dear phalloboards brothers ( www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fap%20on%20it ) and you will without exception experience a priceless epiphany of the true value of women and sex.

I too am disgusted by the ongoing emasculation by culture & media over the years, but I do believe it can be reversed/stalled. I think men need to have an awakening or we\'ll truly succumb to a sort-of second class citizenry.

Quote: \"What I am trying to say is that until you put \"modern\" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock\"

Unfortunately that may never happen in the US. The men have lost there Balls and can\'t get them back. There are so many desperate men who will lower their standards to get \"any\" vagina, and this by itself will give the power to the woman. Add all the media that promotes women and demeans men, most men have no choice left but to add lots of PMMA to their penises and lots of Money to their wallets to be able to get a decent pussy!

A solid post Supa. I hate Sex in the City for the way it demeans men. I honestly believe (and have talked with my fiance about this who agrees) that America has turned into a culture where men are relocated to second class citizens unless they are abnormally blessed in the penis department, and even then are most often treated as giant oafs with no intellectual prowess. Imagine if we as men, on a regular basis, both in private conversation and through mass media, routinely ridiculed women with large vaginas as absolutely worthless human beings, completely unwomanly and people to be cast aside and shunned. Imagine affording a nearly godlike status to those rare women who could barely fit an average penis inside them, placing them on high above all others, singing songs of praise to them and dedicating countless hours of television and other media to the fact that any woman who can accomodate more than 3 inches of Dick is just not worth our time.

Frankly, it would be well deserved, although I as a compassionate human being with depth understand that creating that kind of complex in half of our population might do some real damage to our society, in fact might begin tearing away at social fabric in a way that might be extremely difficult to undo and shit.

* Adding \"and shit\" to any statement instantly gives you more street cred, so always add it when broaching an emotionally charged subject that exposes your own isecurities.

Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion. Mass media are largely responsible for the worship of sex: in this time and age if you don\'t ejaculate onto a woman\'s face, you have not engaged in a threesome with Pamela Anderson looking girls that happily do ass-to-mouth, you are really missing something. They say.

As for women worrying about penis size, we let them! The balance of power tipped decades ago. It was not always like this.

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe say.Obviously, US culture propagates to Europe; on the plus side, Europeans can, say, enjoy reading the masterpieces written by Cormac McCarthy (please, consider reading \"The Road\", if you have not already). However, they also have to put with the underrated consequences of the popularity in Europe of \"Sex and the City\", for instance. How can the Sex&the City woman prototype coexist with the dominant conservative religious views in the US baffles me, but I digress.

What I am trying to say is that until you put \"modern\" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock. We let women believe they are sitting on a gold mine instead of a vagina. In the end, it is just pussy, not the holy grail. We should know better.

So I have my surgery coming up, and I\'m scared but also excited. I wonder, for those of you who have gone through surgeries and injections, what did it feel like to wake up with a bigger Dick? Did it change your confidence? Did it put to rest some of
The insecurities? Aside from the woman\'s reaction during sex, did it change your state of mind during sex?

I ask this because I have been plagued for years of a sense that, unless I am performing oral and fingering or something, I\'m just boring the woman I\'m with and she\'s really just humoring me. I haven\'t been able to get
past that, and I\'m wondering if any of you can relate? More importantly, can any of you say whether your procedure helped some of that go away.

I have no desire to pretend I\'m completely ok and just want a bigger Dick for the opportunity to tear women up, sure that sounds fun and all, but I have been haunted by this since losing my virginity at 14 and having lots of sex with promiscuous girls my age who were slutty and used to sleeping with grown men ( I was in a
Band as a youngster, so girls came easy to me, unfortunately with lots of snide comments).

I\'ve heard people talk about just letting go of the idea of giving women pleasure and just concentrate on my own but frankly I hate that. That doesn\'t work for
Me at all, it feels like giving up and rolling over, and thats not who I am. I\'m a fighter and I want to do everything I can to fight against this inner suspicion that my outside doesn\'t match my insides.

Thoughts? I know we\'re men and we don\'t talk about this stuff, but what the hell.