TOPIC: Does A Bigger Dick Change Things?

Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion. Mass media are largely responsible for the worship of sex: in this time and age if you don\'t ejaculate onto a woman\'s face, you have not engaged in a threesome with Pamela Anderson looking girls that happily do ass-to-mouth, you are really missing something. They say.

As for women worrying about penis size, we let them! The balance of power tipped decades ago. It was not always like this.

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe say.Obviously, US culture propagates to Europe; on the plus side, Europeans can, say, enjoy reading the masterpieces written by Cormac McCarthy (please, consider reading \"The Road\", if you have not already). However, they also have to put with the underrated consequences of the popularity in Europe of \"Sex and the City\", for instance. How can the Sex&the City woman prototype coexist with the dominant conservative religious views in the US baffles me, but I digress.

What I am trying to say is that until you put \"modern\" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock. We let women believe they are sitting on a gold mine instead of a vagina. In the end, it is just pussy, not the holy grail. We should know better.

why couldn\'t we all men been born with the same size penis that way females wouldnt worry about penis sizes no more but about how we do it?

Dance withdrawing wrote: I ask this because I have been plagued for years of a sense that, unless I am performing oral and fingering or something, I\'m just boring the woman I\'m with and she\'s really just humoring me.

I guess you first have to say what is different for you between oral/fingering and penetration before answering if a bigger Dick will have the same effect.

Hey DanceWithdrawing....Thanks for your posts. Yes we are men, and YES, we are supposed to talk about anything we need to discuss on this wonderful forum!
Thanks again....Keep us posted on your exciting adventure....Best to you.

I was Dance Withdrawing, I changed my username to what it was orignally supposed to be, Dance With Dragons (an awesome book from George R R Martin of Game of Thrones).

So what is different for me during foreplay (oral, fingering, etc) is that I know I can make a woman cum her brains out doing those things. I don\'t get the same reactions when I\'m using my Dick, and it frustrates me. My SO will say she just wants me to fuck her, that she doesn\'t want foreplay, but I just feel so inadequate it prevents me from enjoying it. I feel like if I was bigger, truly in the average to above average range, it would make me feel like she wasn\'t faking, like I actually am giving her pleasure.

Has anyone else experienced this? Did getting bigger help it?






BPEL 6.25, MSEG 4.5, BSEG 5
Length/Width Surgery Soon!

I\'ve had 1 round of PMMA. I had similar starting Girth statistics to you, but you\'ve got some length on me. I had often felt that I wasn\'t thick enough to please women. It\'s made me focus on fingering and licking ss. Perhaps that\'s why I\'ve gravitated towards petite Asian girls, when I\'m a 6\'0\" caucasian.

I can\'t really comment on the sex part because I haven\'t had sex post-PMMA, but walking around shopping centres and feeling my \'new\' Flaccid rub against my inner leg, seeing my girlfriend wrestle her lips around my Cock, and just feeling the weight of the thing, it makes me feel better about myself. As I said on my thread, psychologically the PMMA feels like me, rather than what having an implant might feel (not me). It\'s subtle but I feel it\'s enhanced my day-to-day confidence because I\'m me, just a better version of me. Like achieving personal bests in the weight room or track feels. Perhaps women with boob jobs feel similarly?

I\'m beginning to understand the addictive quality of this game. Added Girth and volume feels good, and the ego is a difficult beast to satisfy.

I\'m not sure that answers your question exactly, but I hope it helps.

Dance With Dragons wrote: So what is different for me during foreplay (oral, fingering, etc) is that I know I can make a woman cum her brains out doing those things. I don\'t get the same reactions when I\'m using my Dick, and it frustrates me.

This is not unusual. Only 30% of women reliably orgasm from intercourse alone, the vast majority need some additional clitoral stimulation most of the time. If you have slept with all those women since you were 14 you should have noticed that they are all different.

Dance With Dragons wrote: My SO will say she just wants me to fuck her, that she doesn\'t want foreplay, but I just feel so inadequate it prevents me from enjoying it. I feel like if I was bigger, truly in the average to above average range, it would make me feel like she wasn\'t faking, like I actually am giving her pleasure.

The fact is that you are above average in length and within the average range for Girth. The recent condomania data of 27,000 penises showed that 50% of men were 5 to 6 in length and 4 to 5 in width with 25% smaller and 25% larger.

If your SO can\'t orgasm from just intercourse getting a bigger penis is not likely to change that fact! Your issue is in your mind and you need to deal with that in addition to getting PE or you will never be happy. There are men with your size and smaller who are making \"women cum their brains out\".

Try this simple exercise. Say you gained .75\" both length and Girth (certainly doable with procedures) to 7 x 5.25, will you be happy? Chances are if your SO can\'t have vaginal orgasms she still won\'t have one. FYI there are guys on here who have that size and are getting procedures.

Go again for another .75 so you are now 7.75 x 6.0 and much larger than most mainstream porn stars. Are you now happy?

Get the picture?

On the other side of the argument, hell yes it makes a difference. My starting stats back in the day were 5.75\" long and 4.5-4.7\" in Girth. I\'m now 7\" long and 6.5\" in Girth. With my latest wife of 13 years, the bigger size made her orgasm faster, harder, and more often than with my pre PE puny member. The two ladies I have been with since my third round just reinforce my belief on women and size. My bedroom confidence is maxed out and now I don\'t ever worry about if she can feel me or can enjoy it. Now I worry about going to fast or too hard because I don\'t want to hurt her. Big difference my friend. Pun intended.

Well, I agree with both EQ Student and BigJ. EQ makes a good and valid point on women and vaginal/clitoral orgasms. Most women enjoy a combination of simultaneous clitoral and penetrative sex. I\'ve found that in my particular case, my wife (who has never had a vaginal orgasm) now has them after enlargement. This may not ring true of all women and likely does not. She prefers missionary for the intimacy it provides and due to the larger Girth + the angle, I hit her clitoris while penetrating. Also, if you have your woman lie on her back with her ass at the edge of the bed and legs spread, you can stand upright and penetrate her while using your finger(s) or a vibrating bullet to stimulate her clitoris. This REALLY works well. I can flat wear her out using this method (so many orgasms that she has no energy left over... she\'s spent). A large penis size is also a strong psychological turn on for many women (even if they don\'t actually enjoy a huge penis). Women are complex creatures and the vagina can be stimulated in a number of ways that women find pleasurable. Don\'t stress yourself about it. Size will not fix everything. Use a combination of techniques and put in the effort and she\'ll be thanking you after sex every time. Don\'t forget to focus on your EQ either. A rock hard Erection (despite it\'s size) feels incredible to most women. Eat healthy, (follow my T protocol for maximum results) manage stress, sleep at least 8 - 9 hours a day and exercise (cardiovascular and resistance training) and your EQ will be at its peak. Don\'t think you are, know you are.

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Go again for another .75 so you are now 7.75 x 6.0 and much larger than most mainstream porn stars. Are you now happy?

That\'s where I\'m at and I\'m very happy. One touch up round and I\'m done.

wich doctor are u having ur surgery with dancing with dragons?

Going down to Dr. C and visiting the gas lamp district for a couple days.

Dr Casavantes told me he does not do length though. only width... He refered me to Dr Camacho for length. i thought u was interested in length too...

I was, but I\'ve been convinced that Hanging for length without surgery is the way to go.

Mine is still bitching about it being too big.........really starting to piss me off!!!! Is nothing ever good enough with women? If they didn\'t have pussy there would be bounties on their heads!!!

At least she\'s not complaining that it\'s too small!! I\'d lo\'ve to hear i was too big!!! And suspect I will be hearing that by late February haha!!