TOPIC: My failed penis enlargement story

I\'ve noticed the small patite women out there are totally fine with a 5\" 6\" Dick... I think I just have a tendency to go for the Phat ass big tit women..

My Dick as about 7\" long more like 7.5\" with 100% eq.

and with women who are smaller framed and workout i almost always have an Inch or two Hanging out..

I find this super interesting. I have to say that I don\'t feel gay men are bitchy about Dick size, at least that has been my experience. I tend to be low key so maybe I attract low key people. There are probably a bunch of bitches out there I just have had the good luck of not meeting them.

I think there is a difference between what people want and what people think other people want. I feel always feel better having a bigger Dick than the person I am having sex with - and I think small dicks are super hot on a sexy guy. But, I feel my vocabulary of what I am bringing is bigger if my Dick is bigger, and that turns me on and makes me better in bed, I am not sure how important that is actually to the other person - although I do know guys like it. I am not sure they would care enough to call me back over that alone.

I also think it makes zero difference in terms of a relationship. I have had some really unbelievably hot bf\'s and sooner or later everyone looks the same, smells the same, and all you have left is their personality. By the time you buy groceries and toilet paper with someone a few times it is a different relationship and Dick size just isn\'t important. Just my experience. Dick size is really low on my list of things that I think about when I like someone and when I think of the people I want to have sex with. I am not at all sure if this translates to hetero relationships. I really don\'t know how important a Dick is in getting off a woman vaginally - I mean I literally don\'t know, but I suspect there are so many things that turn people on Dick size is not that important to the woman but will make the guy fucking her feel like a thousand bucks with what he is bringing.

I do agree that the average Dick size is much smaller than most guys think - but then this board is a mix of guys that do not want to be average or who feel they are small and would be grateful to be average. I just remembered Purple Donkey who was extremely insulted when I told him that his Dick was a good looking average sized Dick, lol. He said that was the worse thing you could tell someone - which I get. If you told someone they had average looks, or average intelligence, or an average personality they would probably take that as an insult. I am not sure if this added anything to the conversation but I have been drinking gin all night, lol.

Mustang2020 wrote: Stats and scientific studies and one\'s own experience with a few women can be miles apart in conclusions!

This says it best.

Bolkonsky, not all women are walking around with big tits and big asses. Women come in all shapes and sizes ethnicities, heights, Etc. Further, just because a woman has a big ass, or big tits, doesn\'t mean she has a loose vagina. I\'ve been with plenty of hot alpha chicks with big asses who\'ve had tight pussies. Regardless, your very specific pool of women is not a basis for making a statement like the one you\'re making. Science, and scientific facts, take vast precident over it. 5\"-5.5\" is a normal, average size for a male Erect penis. Not 7\".

Ah yes tomcat, purple donkey, bro-kong, all the rotting. He actually wasnt a bad looking guy with a probably larger than average Dick. Had a great sense of humor and creative as well. Too bad he was so insecure

Lakings, good to see you back on the board man. I remember last year we were trying to assure a member here that 8\" girth was not average. At least we\'re headed on a downward trend

chester
07/05/16
I gotta second lakingsfan. I saw this post from Fat Mike this morning and could only shake my head. Penis dysmorphia is real. FM and Bronx, and anyone else who thinks that 7+ girth is \"necessary,\" with all due respect, take a break from this board and spend some serious time to improving yourself (mind, body and spirit). Spend time with people who really love you and get to know why they think you\'re great. Then focus on doing more of that. Life gets better when you do more of the things that people love you for. Then you\'ll be able to attract someone who loves you for what you do, and who you are.

I find this super interesting. I have to say that I don\'t feel gay men are bitchy about Dick size, at least that has been my experience.

It depends on the context. If you\'re online - 80% will ask for a Dick pic before meeting. Many won\'t meet unless it\'s big enough (particularly bottoms). If you initially meet in person & not an app, there will be palpable disappointment if you aren\'t up to what they were expecting later on (and a lot of guys have grabbed my Dick through my pants and stuff before making the \"final\" decision if they should go home w/ me).

You had that giant Dick with the fat grafts, so maybe you didn\'t experience it as much. I had a normal sized Dick - but then got peyronies which made my Dick narrow and curved. Then, I got that fixed and had PMMA - and guys were much quicker to respond and get down to business with me. So, I experienced pretty much every reaction with every type of Dick. Many guys didn\'t appear to care about the small curved (like a shrimp) penis - but then I found out later one or two of them were talking about it behind my back. But that was 3.7\" Girth at the narrowest area and like 5\" length with a 60 degree curve.

I don\'t know if \"bitchy\" was the most precise way to put it - but they care. At least, that\'s been my experience. As one of my friends says quite often, \"my ruler starts at 8\" (meaning nobody under 8\").

Restoration wrote: It depends on the context. If you\'re online - 80% will ask for a Dick pic before meeting. Many won\'t meet unless it\'s big enough (particularly bottoms). If you initially meet in person & not an app, there will be palpable disappointment if you aren\'t up to what they were expecting later on (and a lot of guys have grabbed my Dick through my pants and stuff before making the \"final\" decision if they should go home w/ me).

You had that giant Dick with the fat grafts, so maybe you didn\'t experience it as much. I had a normal sized Dick - but then got peyronies which made my Dick narrow and curved. Then, I got that fixed and had PMMA - and guys were much quicker to respond and get down to business with me. So, I experienced pretty much every reaction with every type of Dick. Many guys didn\'t appear to care about the small curved (like a shrimp) penis - but then I found out later one or two of them were talking about it behind my back. But that was 3.7\" Girth at the narrowest area and like 5\" length with a 60 degree curve.

I don\'t know if \"bitchy\" was the most precise way to put it - but they care. At least, that\'s been my experience. As one of my friends says quite often, \"my ruler starts at 8\" (meaning nobody under 8\").

I don\'t understand this at all. Obviously I understand gay men are attracted to other men in the same way straight men are attracted to women. But pain is pain no matter what your sexual orientation. Why the fuck would anyone want to be penetrated up the ass by a big penis? I can\'t get my head around it.

I\'ve have painful poops before and looked down expecting to see something like a log in the bowl only for it be a something of roughly 4\" Girth. I had constipation after using pain killers and getting that out felt like child birth, but it couldn\'t have been much bigger than an above average penis.

I know they aren\'t, but just from a practical point of view, it makes sense to me that large cocks would be avoided like the plague among gay men. I love big tits, but if I got an electric shock every time I touched them, they\'d quickly lose their appeal.

Hoddle,

Im no expert in gay sex, being straight, I would imagine the muscles in the rear relax just like a vagina does and could, with practice, take huge things just like vaginal double fisting. Me personally want nothing going in the out door on a regular basis. I have had a finger up there once during an incredible blow job about 30 years ago, and lets say it was uncomfortable but incredibly erotic, it did hurt afterwards but during I wasnt complaining. It only happened once and my wife is so vanilla I can say with certainty it wont ever happen again.....

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hoddle10 wrote:
I don\'t understand this at all. Obviously I understand gay men are attracted to other men in the same way straight men are attracted to women. But pain is pain no matter what your sexual orientation. Why the fuck would anyone want to be penetrated up the ass by a big penis? I can\'t get my head around it.

I\'ve have painful poops before and looked down expecting to see something like a log in the bowl only for it be a something of roughly 4\" Girth. I had constipation after using pain killers and getting that out felt like child birth, but it couldn\'t have been much bigger than an above average penis.

I know they aren\'t, but just from a practical point of view, it makes sense to me that large cocks would be avoided like the plague among gay men. I love big tits, but if I got an electric shock every time I touched them, they\'d quickly lose their appeal.

At first for most every Dick hurts a lot but you can get use to it after a minute or so before it becomes pleasurable. Have to go VERY slow at the begining inching it in slowly or else will be painful. As said before it is crucial to be relaxed or else it will be painful. Also I think anal is painful in a good way if that makes any sense. You can also take poppers that relax muscles which makes it easier.

Also not every gay guy likes to take it. I meet \"top\" guys who just like sucking on a big Dick. In fact on another topic when I was younger I use to question did bisexuality really exist. I use to think it was gay guys who slipped into a hetro life but who could not \"come out\" but in the last few years I have met a few regular guys who have GF/wife\'s and some with young kids and all strangely have one thing in common. They just like to suck, nothing else not even kiss. Asked one of them why and said he wanted to do to a big Dick what his GF could do to him. He was imagining himself being his GF. He also said he could never have an emotional relationship with a guy and sucking a Dick was just a a kink. I don\'t understand it but I dont have to. He and his GF are ingaged ( I wonder will i get an invite?) and trying for a kid at the moment.Also a few of these guys also tend to be on coke when they text late at night. Sexuality very complex and sterotyping does not work IMO. Two guys can identify as straight or gay but yet have totally different tastes of partners and sexual turn ons. As I get older I cant help but become more open minded.

Are you gay southdub?

I hope you are, just to reduce the bloody competition.

Well that\'s a stupid question, I\'m more expressing surprise.

Southdub wrote: At first for most every Dick hurts a lot but you can get use to it after a minute or so before it becomes pleasurable. Have to go VERY slow at the begining inching it in slowly or else will be painful. As said before it is crucial to be relaxed or else it will be painful. Also I think anal is painful in a good way if that makes any sense. You can also take poppers that relax muscles which makes it easier. Also not every gay guy likes to take it. I meet \"top\" guys who just like sucking on a big Dick. In fact on another topic when I was younger I use to question did bisexuality really exist. I use to think it was gay guys who slipped into a hetro life but who could not \"come out\" but in the last few years I have met a few regular guys who have GF/wife\'s and some with young kids and all strangely have one thing in common. They just like to suck, nothing else not even kiss. Asked one of them why and said he wanted to do to a big Dick what his GF could do to him. He was imagining himself being his GF. He also said he could never have an emotional relationship with a guy and sucking a Dick was just a a kink. I don\'t understand it but I dont have to. He and his GF are ingaged ( I wonder will i get an invite?) and trying for a kid at the moment.Also a few of these guys also tend to be on coke when they text late at night. Sexuality very complex and sterotyping does not work IMO. Two guys can identify as straight or gay but yet have totally different tastes of partners and sexual turn ons. As I get older I cant help but become more open minded.

But that still doesn\'t really leave me any clearer as to why bottoms would want a big one. Surely the whole point of Restoration specifically mentioning bottoms is because they get penetrated anally. I understand that gay men might enjoy sucking big ones. I think that\'s true of women as well. But in terms of the actual anal penetration I\'m still really failing to see why they\'d seek out a big one.

lol I\'ve often thought this like I don\'t see how anal penetration is enjoyable, if I was gay id find a guy with micropenis cos I wouldn\'t want to get fucked by a big one. Imagine getting shafted by Sizemic it would probably kill you.