TOPIC: How big Penisses are + how big Women like them to be

Im thinking how to make a spreadsheet with this info.
Thinking about putting the info that you provided and somehow systematizing these in numbers or something like that

Answer from Dream: I would be pleasantly surprised if you put any amount of work in, and i don't think that will happen ever
(edited for conciseness of thread)

(relevant: 6:00-9:00, 12:30-15:00, 17:45-20:00)

Notes:
Study:
'Can you cum from intercourse (penetration with penis) ?' - 15% of women say yes
'What's your most reliable way to orgasm?' - 4% of women say penetration
(6:00 to 9:00)



Oral and hands are very good for women's orgasms.
Vibrators are great for clitorisses. Many women only ever had their first orgasms when they finally used a vibrator.
Knowing that, men can just enjoy their thrusting for their own pleasure, and incorporate hands and mouth and vibrators for her orgasm. (instead of worrying about the size of penis and being able to pump forever)
Just use vibrators in sex. Then you have the best of both worlds - the orgasm guarantee + the mental stimulation of being with a man. Imagine hanging out in a pool and you have fun, and you float around with those floaters. The floaters=vibrators in this analogy are just a tool, you wouldn't even mention them when you tell someone about the fun you had in the pool.
(1230-15:00)

"Does Penis size matter?" - 50% of women say yes
"Do you prefer a large or average penis" - Most women say average
"What is most important to you in intercourse?" - No woman mentions size, well, only the 4-15% of women mention size
(17:45h-20:00)

I wonder what the surveys would say about women being able to orgasm with an above average girthed penis. The thicker you are the more the g spot is stimulated so I wonder what the results would show given those variables…

Yea, i would think it would be very interesting for me to ask the 15% of women (about 1 in 7) who said they can cum through penetration in the study, to ask them 'Do you cum with every penis' / 'How must the penetration be to cum?' / 'What conditions must there be for you to be able to cum only with penetration'?

Currently i have 3 fuckbuddies, and all able to cum through fucking only:
- One needs some penis length to cum (i only have 6.1 inches, but that is enough), Girth is not important for her
- One says no penis was ever small enough to make her think 'this is boring', and the guy cumming is always a reliable trigger to make her cum herself just by that mental thing.
And she loves foreplay, sensual sex and licking and finger
- One told me her ex had small penis and that it was also no problem at all for her (and her pussy does not feel tight, she still cums by fucking)

All of them to cum by penetration they needed some speed and force

Out of 106 women i had sex with i only know of 7 (that's about 7%) where i *definately* knew they could cum with just penetration from me (most often they needed clit, and often i did not get to know them so well and or forgot it - i only have list of names; so it's a minimum of 6% for me).
I also had many years where i also tried an extension condom that made my Cock longer and very girthy (aound 6.1 to 6.3 inches i think) with every girl i had sex with, often in first time sex even - *Zero* women that i tried that with suddenly orgasmed with this 'bigger Cock'
(some enjoyed it and for some it was painful)
So it's the 3 above plus these 4 from the past:

- one told me she already often cums when i enter her with penis, the first push in (and i had only 3.9 inches Girth at that time!)
- one at like 50 years of age finally learned to cum with penetration, not with me but her partner that she had since 7 years and who i am pretty sure he was smaller than me
- one i am pretty sure didn't need any special penis for it to happen
- one said my current Girth hurts her (5.4 inches), she has another lover with smaller penis that also makes her cum, even makes her squirt, cause he has the upward bend

edit: remembered one more woman and added my Girth

Wow. That’s super interesting information and from first hand accounts. @Dream remind me your girth now?
I think for girls it’s such a mental game. Connecting with a guy and being turned on is so important to make her cum. I would argue that it the most important factor out of everything.

Hi there, i wanna post my experiences after the last round in eg 2 months, when i have more data. Unfortunately it was only a very very small girth gain (like 0.1 girth it seems), so the new data will not be very exciting cause it's the same anyway - anyone having questions about that please ask it in my journal phalloboards.info/forum/progress-reports...r-dr-n.html?start=75
The porn thing was only on my mind a short while and doesn't seem so appealing anymore anyway (eg the need to travel outside of my small city)

Perhaps i'll add some notes some time

psycnet.apa.org/record/1984-20399-001
Fisher, W. A., Branscombe, N. R., & Lemery, C. R. (1983). The bigger the better? Arousal and attributional responses to erotic stimuli that depict different size penises. Journal of Sex Research, 19(4), 377–396. doi.org/10.1080/00224498309551199

Abstract
67 male and 154 female undergraduates were asked to read erotic passages that differed only in the penis length that was ascribed to a male protagonist—3 in long (small), 5 in long (medium), 8 in long (large), or no mention made of penis size (control condition)—to examine psychologically mediated effects of differential penis size. Arousal and attributional responses to these portrayals, Ss erotophobia-erotophilia (their disposition to respond to erotic stimuli with negative to positive emotions), and their level of prior sexual experience were assessed. Results show that the erotic passages were significantly arousing and that the manipulation of perceptions of penis size was highly effective; however, Ss did not report differential arousal or attributional responses to depictions of small, medium, or large penises. Correlational analyses revealed that erotophilic Ss were more aroused by depictions of a large penis, and more sexually experienced males were more aroused by depictions of medium than by small or large penises; however, the observed correlations were modest. Overall findings suggest that penis size is as unimportant on a psychological level as it appears to be on a physical level.

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Interesting that the different lengths did make no difference.. one could have a more detailled look with the full version of the paper, but it's not free.
For me personally it would make night and day difference i think if the literature says 3 inches or 8 inches. I have to say when watching porn i am obsessed with big dicks.. and i am totally heterosexual.

Size did not matter: An evolutionary account of the variation in penis size and size anxiety
doi.org/10.1080/23311908.2016.1147933
The human penis exhibits considerable variation in size, while a substantial proportion of the adult male population experiences size anxiety. This paper employs an evolutionary framework in order to understand this variation, as well as the concern men exhibit about the adequacy of the size of their penis. It is argued that female choice has been one important sexual selection force, responsible for shaping the size of the penis. However, this force has been relatively weak, because women do not consider the size of their partners’ penis to be the most important determinant of their sexual satisfaction. Also, in ancestral human societies, sexual satisfaction was a secondary concern, while women had limited space to exercise mate choice. The mismatch between ancestral and modern conditions, with female choice being stronger in the present than in the past, causes anxiety in men about their ability to satisfy their partners, which is also manifested in their concerns about size.
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Interesting. I read somewhere that women don't give soo much value to penis size in partner choice. While men make the size of other men very important. Hm
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Size Matters: Penis Size and Sexual Position in Gay Porn Profiles
doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2017.1364568
This article combines qualitative and quantitative textual approaches to the representation of penis size and sexual position of performers in 10 of the most visited gay pornography Web sites currently in operation. Specifically, in excess of 6,900 performer profiles sourced from 10 commercial Web sites are analyzed. Textual analysis of the profile descriptions is combined with a quantitative representation of disclosed penis size and sexual position, which is presented visually by two figures. The figures confirm that these sites generally market themselves as featuring penises that are extraordinarily large and find a sample-wide correlation between smaller penis sizes (5–6.5 inches) and receptive sexual acts (bottoming), and larger (8.5–13 inches) with penetrative acts (topping). These observations are supported through the qualitative textual readings of how the performers are described on these popular sites, revealing the narratives and marketing strategies that shape the construction of popular porn brands, performers, and profitable fantasies.
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Having bigger penis = the one that fucks, the more powerful one. I guess my yearning for a bigger penis also has roots in wishing to be/feel more powerful somehow.
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www.researchgate.net/publication/2325956..._Across_the_Lifespan
85% of women were satisfied with their partner's penis size, only 55% of men were satisfied with their penis size, 45% wanted to be larger, and 0.2% wanted to be smaller. Satisfaction did not vary across age groups from 18 to 65. Men reporting a larger-than-average penis rated their appearance most favorably, suggesting a possible confidence effect of perceived large penis size.
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Many comments about penis size from reddit threads: thebiohacker.com/forums/threads/some-foo...t-off-reddit.133510/
Guy with big beautiful dick - women react positively on the picture but never meet him up, interesting to me cause i had this fantasy of women going cracy for big dick (and i guess for the very small percentage of sizequeens it's true but not for normal women) thebiohacker.com/forums/threads/being-bi...-me-at-least.134722/
Length: on one hand you have the 'hit my cervix does just hurt and is painful' while there is a minority of women that have cracy good orgasms with softly hitting cervix or going by it and there is a-spot, hm
--- two comments from biohacker
"being just slightly over 8 inches BPEL, I could only get all the way in at one occasion with my last girl (over around 50-60 sessions). And she only found it uncomfortable. Back when I was slightly over 7 inches, half the girls could only take around 3/4, and the rest seemed uncomfortable with taking the whole thing and actually called off the sex in the middle of the act (explaining that they were "sleepy").
When I'm not able to go all the way in, I miss the body contact between the pelvic regions, as well as the contact between my balls and her perineum. That's a really yummy sensation. And one that I believe both women and men get more pleasure and arousal out of than the thought of the penis being too long."
"My wife made it clear she prefered the girth I was when we first met (5.5) now she became actively displeased when I got over 6" REGARDLESS of warm up etc."

He organised 750 different experiences of bigger dicks in one file - he actually read some of the same threads as me, and color coded negative or neutral or positive.
His conclusion / looking at the data it's very simillar to mine: ideal penis size for most women around 6.8 inches length and 5.5-5.8inches girth
Definition was basically: Length right before men report length problems and girth right before men report girth problems.
thunders.place/penis-enlargement-basics/...zes-in-one-file.html


thunders.place/penis-enlargement/i-have-reached-my-goals-7.html
"Currently 8.4 BPEL x 6.2 EG and I wish I would have listened to my wife when she asked me to stop when I reached 7.5 BPEL x 5.5 EG which I think is the ideal size.
But like an ass, I continued and things went to shit. I hit her cervix several times and it pissed her off to the point of tears and then would blame me for gaining more for my ego and we were in it together but I decided to break away and gain more when she had asked me to stop.
Then the girth. The girth would make her vaginal walls bleed and she would be sore for a few days. We no longer were the best of friends we used to be. After finding out that she was pre-menopausal things started to become more clear. I had to re-learn how to have sex with her. I had to and still have to know when to slow down or when to finish. No more balls to the wall either. Sex was more enjoyable when I was 7.5 X 5.5. That is why I tell others here to be careful what they wish for.
Your unit can become to big for your own pleasure, and what I mean by that, no anal, or it may slow down. No more quality blow jobs, the feeling of a tooth can ruin the mood. No more deep throat. My new size almost ended our marriage. I wish I would have lost some gains, but I did not."

Not all women love big dicks, some posts from some forum:


Some gems from Thundersplace:

OMG I completely forgot this forum had a censor/hidden/spoiler function lmao.

I know plenty of hookups who would have never wanted to get sexed by a "monster Cock," and I'd know, they could hardly handle me and I'm no adult actor lol.