Sometimes i read something interesting about this Topic (which is an interest of mine), and i want to share that in this thread here.
4 trans-man (women who became men and had artificial penisses) with girthes from 6.4 to 7.4 inches went back in to make the penisses smaller (revision surgery) cause people they wanted sex with were unable to do it with that size
"Index patients had an average length of 16.3 ± 3.2 cm and an average girth of 17.6 ± 1.3 cm. Index patient girth was 4 to 5 SD wider than the average natal erect girth."
(ps wtf Trans-women can get as big cocks as they wish? How do they make them?)
Then scientists looked for information on what is a good size to get:
"The average insertive length of the compiled bestsellers (for the top 5 Alexa.com-rated online adult retailers in the United States and for Amazon.com) dildos (16.7 ± 1.6 cm) was 1 SD longer than natal functional erect penile length as reported in the literature (15.7 ± 2.6 cm); however, their average circumference (12.7 ± 0.8 cm) mirrored natal erect penile girth (12.3 ± 1.3)."
-> so the average bestselling Dildos in america had average girth of 5 inches (larger than the average girth of males with 4.65 inches)
Women always say girth is more important - but this means they only buy a little bit girthier - 11.8cm girth is supposed western average i think, the women buy 12.7cm girth average - which is above average but not supercracy pornstar level of eg girthiest pornstar manuel ferrora or something with 16.5cm.
"The average girth of vendors' top 3 largest-girth dildos was 15.1 ± 0.9 cm" -> this are not the bestsellers but the largest girth dildos these shops have in their shops it seems
"Based on our data, we suggest that a surgically created neophallus should have a girth no wider than 15.1 cm after implantation of an inflatable penile prosthesis. This corresponds to 2 SD wider than the average natal man's erect girth."
"A conservative recommendation for neophallus girth is 13 to 14 cm, or 0.5 to 1.5 SD wider than natal erect penile girth."
11.8cm = 4.65 inches
12.7cm = 5 inches
13cm = 5.1 inches
14cm = 5.5 inches
15cm = 5.9 inches
15.1cm = 5.94 inches
15.24cm = 6 inches
16.3cm = 6.4 inches
17.6cm = 6.9 inches
some pics: imgur.com/a/7AGLa
6 inches girth (=15.25 centimetres) is in the 98% percentile or more. ( calcsd.info/ western average)
Porn is extreme sport. It's like looking at the NBA to see how tall men are.
I did not find this out - but if there would be 10 000 male pornstars (my bad guess), then pornstars are 0.0000003% of the male population.
You don't see small dicks because small dicks are hardly shown in public, in porn, in amateur porn, saunas, hardly shown anywhere.
- Study 2001, 142 men from 18-68 age (no statistic difference really between old and young in size), measured not by themselves but from doctors (studies where people measure themselves show bigger penisses)
Penisses ranged length 10-19cm (4-7.5 inches); average of 14.5cm (5.7 inches)
Girth was 9.4cm (3.7inch) – 15.7cm (6.2inch), average 12.4cm (4.9inch)
( profamilia.sextra.de/pages/sextra/inform...d-mehr-/penisstudie/ )
Drawing upon the results of 12 relevant studies, the review, detailed in the British Journal of Urology (BJU) International, finds that the average erect penis is about 5.5 to 6.2 inches long and about 4.7 to 5.1 inches in circumference.( www.livescience.com/4489-penis-myths-debunked.html )
Greatest size thread on thundersplace: www.thundersplace.org/forum/showthread.php?t=33870 (overview of studies)
WHAT WOMEN WANT
- I guess it's clear Nobody likes 1cm or 40cm, so there is a range.
- Best study i found so far: They let 75 Women choose between 33 3d-printed penis models:
"Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners."
-> interestingly the 12.7cm preferred girth for one night stands is same 12.7cm average of girth of bestselling dildos above
The average of what women want in penis-bigness seems to be 'slightly over average' (see what average is above).
Great site also talking about this: calcsd.info/posts/preferences
Survey 970 women (50% usa, 25% great britain, 25% rest of europe; most under 45)
1100 men (same ratios)
"Women estimated the average penis length to be 13.8 cm, and for men, this was only 0.3 cm greater. Compare this to the results of a 2015 review of studies on penis size that included over 15,000 men from around the world: the average penis length when erect was found to be 13.12 cm – almost one whole centimeter less than the average estimate given by men in our study."
-> people slightly overestimate how big penisses are on average
- Study onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bju.13010/full
"An important observation also comes from Lever et al.  who found in a large internet survey of 52 031 heterosexual men and women, 85% of women were satisfied with their partner's penis size, but only 55% of the men were satisfied with their own penis size. Thus, only 15% of women say that erect penis size is important and erect girth is generally more important than length ."
My experiences with different sizes:
Great contribution @dream .
how does the whole trans penis thing work??
- Even if only a small fraction of women like very big dicks - if you have a very big dick you are in an even smaller fraction than women liking very big dicks, and therefore you are more in demand. Especially now in modern times i think, where you can 'market' your special dick to eg 1 million women if you live in a supercity. So even if you are McShorty or what's his name pornstar, where perhaps perhaps even 90% don't enjoy this cracy fatness, he will never have problem not wanting women (super sizequeens) to have sex with him.
- I am butthurt that my dick is not very big (at least 18cm = 7inch) - i imagine if i had a very big one (one company told me i need at least 7inch, so mine is too small) then i could do porn = young hot women do nastiest stuff with me.
Otoh hardly anyone gets money anymore doing porn since free streaming sites.
- old experiences with thin cock (surprisingly good reactions):
- Theory that hot girls have sex with taller more handsome more muscular guys (tall muscular probably correlates with big dick) more confident guys + bigger dick guys have more chance being womanizers cause they want to show off their dicks, while tiny dick guys more only want to show their dicks to girls they have emotional connection with = women see less small dicks than statistically are there
- Neverendingjourney writes:
"I have had numerous experiences now with my PMMA filled penis that is 7.5in length and 6.5in girth.. more than half find it uncomfortable, blow jobs are teethy, and anal is out of the question... I think 5.75 girth would be perfect. Still very above average but easier to work with."
Jacks writes: it's not until you get into the 6.5" range that you start risking being too big. However, this isn't usually that much of a problem. I'm over 7" and have only had a few women where it was too thick. One started crying and another made me stop. Some complained about being sore afterwards and had no intention of meeting again ... but, overall, the experience has been positive. However, anal really starts becoming out of the question for most women once you get into this size range. Most women are like no fucking way ... although some have taken it as a challenge.
I know one guy who had a very big one (didn't ask how big it was measured) - he said some women just told him 'no way' and never tried it with him. I wouldn't want to be that big.
- Most women masturbate by rubbing their clit, not pushing giant dildos into their pussies
Lesbians and bisexual women - they don't even have any dick (but well, i guess they take dildos)
Very good site imo, some talk about penis size
Great calculator size (how much % are bigger / smaller; I guess take ‘western average’)
Site to compare your stats visually to others
Calculator how much % you are her biggest and stuff
In there it's all clickable with links
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90% of women reported penis width feels better than length during sex, 10% reported length feels better than width.
84% of women are satisfied with their partner's penis size, despite only 55% of men being satisfied with their size.
85% of women are satisfied with their partner's penis size, 67% reported penis size as important for their sexual satisfaction of those women they favored the importance of girth, both length and girth, and length in ratio of 2:2:1 respectively.
89% of women find their partner's penis size satisfactory, only 43% of women believed penis size was important for their sexual satisfaction, 51% of women said a bigger penis did not improve their sexual pleasure/satisfaction while 29% reported that it did.
Women reported importance of length: 25% unimportant, 57% somewhat important, 18% very important. Girth: 25% unimportant, 53% somewhat important, 22% very important. 22% found both length and girth unimportant and 13% found both very important. Women with more lifetime sexual partners tended to report a slightly higher importance of length and girth. n>5 length: 15% unimportant, 64% somewhat important, 20% very important. n>5 girth: 17% unimportant, 57% somewhat important, 26% very important.
Of women who gave birth 0.5-3 years ago, 20% reported penis length as important, 0.6% very important, 56% unimportant, 23% totally unimportant. For girth 31% reported it as important, 1.8% very important, 48% unimportant, 18% totally unimportant. r=0.71 correlation between importances attached to length and girth, importance had no correlation with women's sexual functionality/satisfaction.
Of experienced women 34% reported being likelier to orgasm with a longer than average penis (~5.7"), 58% reported equal likelihood to orgasm with longer and shorter penises, and 8% reported being likelier to orgasm with a penis shorter than average (~5.7"). Being likelier to orgasm with a longer penis averaged a ~7% increase in the consistency of PIV orgasms compared to the consistency among women who did not favor above average length.
Of experienced women 34% reported being likelier to orgasm with a longer than average penis (~6.1"), 60% reported equal likelihood to orgasm with longer and average penises, and 6% reported being likelier to orgasm with an average (~6.1") penis. Being likelier to orgasm with a longer penis was associated with a slightly higher frequency of PIV sex without additional clitoral stimulation and orgasms from that, there was a 14% increase in the average rate of orgasms per PIV between women more orgasmic with longer penises and women who were not. PIV with and without clitoral stimulation combined yield the same average frequency of PIV sex between both groups. Women more orgasmic with longer penises tended to place slightly more importance on PIV sex and slightly less importance on non-PIV sex. Other differences were not statistically significant, but suggest women not likelier to orgasm with longer penises might have: greater frequency of PIV sex with simultaneous clitoral stimulation and orgasms from that (same rate of orgasm consistency as women of the longer penis group), an 18% lower rate of orgasm consistency from anal sex
Stewart et al. 2009 - Measured male partners of pregnant women in Australia.
Bone Pressed Stretched Length: 5.91"
Prause et al. 2015 - 3D Model Study
Ideal Erect Length: 6.39" (0.63" above perceived average)
Ideal Erect Girth: 4.90" (0.40" above perceived average)
Johnston et al. 2014
Ideal Erect Length: 6.09" (0.79" above perceived average)
Dildo size preference - Informal Study
Ideal Insertable Length: 6.32"
Ideal Girth: 4.62"
Moorgate Andrology 2018 - Wooden Model Study Conflict of Interest
Ideal Erect Length: 7.23" (0.64" above current partner)
Ideal Erect Girth: 4.83" (0.16" above current partner)
Isaacson et al. 2017 - Average of Popular Selection of Dildos
Insertable Length: 6.64"
Herbenick et al. 2015 - Average of Selection of Dildos
Insertable Length: 6.43"
Penis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness. Flaccid penis sizes between 2-5 inches long (girth proportionally varied too) were shown to correlate with female ratings of male attractiveness. Penis size had similar degree of effect as height, highest end 5" length not large enough to reach peak before attraction decreases.
Images of varied flaccid penis sizes between about 3-6 inches (assuming average 5'9-10" male height) were rated by women:
(USA & New Zealand) appreciably higher attractiveness for sizes between 5-6 inches over sizes between 3-4 inches (though with slightly less high rating among NZ women for the longest ~5.7", this reduction at the largest size was not detectable among USA women).
(China) slightly higher attractiveness for sizes close to 5 inches, slightly lower rating for sizes ~4" and ~5.7" followed by the lowest rating for ~3" length.
(Rural Cameroon Africa) slightly higher attractiveness for sizes between 4-5.3 inches, appreciably lower rating for size ~3" followed by the lowest rating for ~5.7" length.
1, 2, and 3 attempted to measure vaginal dimensions of women through various ways. To approximate a synthesis of their findings:
Average unstretched unaroused length: ~3-3.5"
Average stretched unaroused length: ~4.5"
Average unstretched unaroused length to cervix: ~2.5-3"
Average unstretched unaroused vaginal canal height (top-bottom) at greatest point (near cervix/fornices): ~1"
Average unstretched unaroused vaginal canal width near cervix: ~1.3"
Approximate average unstretched unaroused vaginal canal ovular circumference (at greatest point): ~3.7"
Average unstretched unaroused post-hymenal ring width: ~1"
Average maximum-stretched unaroused vaginal opening circumference: <~5.75"
Degree of arousal and number of children have little to no effect on unstretched dimensions.
Additional data NSFW from women outside of studies demonstrate:
Average stretched vagina length: 5.4-6.5" in less aroused and 6.8" in more aroused state. And suggests that arousal may lead to deeper stretched length in some women. This is further supported by the findings of Schultz et al. 1999, which demonstrate the expansion of the unstretched vagina in the female sexual response by deepening the back wall by ~1cm and by raising the uterus. During penile penetration, the penis stretched the upper vaginal wall, and caused additional raising of the uterus. They also observed swelling of the bladder with fluid as part of the sexual response.
Relative Importance of Penis Size To Females study
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Relative Importance of Penis Size - Female Perspective
From the 3D model study: Prause et al. 2015 (Using their shared raw data)
Average Ranking of (Included) Attributes by Relative Importance:
Kindness > Intelligence > Foreplay Skill > Taller Than Me > Travels Abroad > Wealth > Good Clothes > Political Attitude > Enjoys Cooking > Penis Size > Eye Color > Type of Car
Women who gave no ideal penis size preference:
Viewed the average penis size around 5.5 x 5 (average - above average girth and length)
Never rejected a man due to penis size
Gave significantly less importance of penis size compared to other attributes
Women who rejected men for being too small were more likely to reject men for being too large as well.
Women who gave more comparative importance to penis size were:
More likely to have rejected men due to being too small
More likely to give equal importance to foreplay and penis size (and give less importance to foreplay than women less penis size concerned)
So, overall penis size isn't too important compared to other attributes, and as I determine from the study data and a bit of math the chances of rejection on average due to penis size by women are:
~3.85% (chance that a woman will "stop seeing a man because his penis is too small compared to what she wants")
~1.2% (chance that a woman will "stop seeing a man because his penis is too large compared to what she wants")
But, as shown in the figure above, 3/5 of the women who rejected guys for being too big also rejected guys for being too small, and therefore women who reject guys based on one extreme may be more likely to reject guys based on the other extreme. The conclusion being that most penile rejection is likely due to women being picky about penis size outside the average sizes, not just either extreme of some women rejecting only large penises and some women rejecting only small penises.
Such that: In total there is on average 3.85% + 1.2% = less than ~5% chance that a woman will stop seeing a man because his penis does not match what she wants (among other possible reasons).
But, we can assume that this rejection rate is nowhere near evenly distributed across all penis sizes, since a smaller or larger penis is naturally more likely to exceed the threshold limit that the average woman would have on penis size. Such that the rate of rejection would follow a somewhat U shaped curve with some positive minimum rate of penis rejection at the average female preference of penis size (6.4" x 4.9") and increase to maximum penis rejection rates at the extreme highs and lows of penis size. (We would also expect the smaller penis size side to increase to ~3x the height of the larger penis size due to the rate of rejection from being too small being ~3 times larger than the rate of rejection from being too big).
(I would give my opinion that the importance of penis size given in the first image by each woman largely assumes that penis size will be approximately average, which would explain why it has an appreciably larger cause for rejection than would be suggested by its average ranking of importance below being able to cook and above eye color) This issue represents a theory of importance influenced by degree of variability:
Guys have wide ranges of personalities from many very nice to many less than kind, such that kindness is important because many guys are not kind (if all guys were perfect gentlemen, then being kind would not distinguish you in anyway from any other guy and kindness wouldn't be important) The same logic can be said about most all of the other important attributes above, but penis size? from everything we can see about it, there isn't usually much penile variation in the male population for women to observe (which must be filled with errors by the authors because there is so much wrong with that figure) but according to which she will on average see a maximum size variation of: ~1.2 inches of length and ~1.4 inches of girth? I won't put much faith in that data. According to more accurate information of the distribution of penis sizes, 90% of men are probably at most between about 4.75-6.8" x 3.85-5.15" or ~2 inches of length and ~1.3 inches of girth, which is probably a much better estimate (since 0.9^6=53% of women would not experience outside of that range out of 6 guys, leading to the average max and min being close to those bounds. So that somewhat experienced women would typically not experience wider than that relatively small range of different sizes. Does a typical variation of less than an inch or two of length difference and an inch of girth difference make much difference to the broad relationship experience (or even just the sexual experience) of a woman, probably not, she realistically can't expect to find much penile variation and therefore is very unlikely to find guys at the extremes of length and/or girth such that for the vast majority of guys she encounters penis size doesn't matter much. But, for the rare occasions that such extremes are encountered, we can expect from our previously mentioned U curve that the rate of rejection becomes very large due to penis size suddenly mattering quite a lot, but mostly only for those extremes of penis size.
pre-selectable attributes vs attributes which are not readily pre-selected for:
When concerning personality traits, height, wealth, facial attractiveness, clothing style, car, eye color, etc. these traits are all readily determined initially, and therefore can be used first to reject guys who do not meet their expectations in a relatively sequential order
Biology explanation: (Relatively the same phenomenon occurs when biologists consider the relative contributions to mating barriers in animals, in that the first limiting factor of whether or not the male and female are seeking mates at the same time has a much greater potential to limit the success of mating than say a much later limiting factor such as a very low success rate of fertilization. This is because even if fertilization would be successful in less than one in one thousand instances, it's overall (sequential) contribution to preventing mating would be very small since only a very small proportion of individuals reach that barrier. The initial barrier can have a weak individual (absolute) contribution, but because it occurs first all of that goes into it's sequential strength of preventing mating, such that a mere 50% of males having different mating times from females would completely prevent 50% of matings from occurring (the 99.9% effective barrier of fertilization would only have a tiny sequential strength). Comparing the contributions of sequential vs absolute strength
Anyway though, back to my point: the individual (absolute) strength of penis size in causing rejection may only be something like just under 5% (such that penis size leads to rejection in close to 5% of sexual encounters), but it usually occurs in sequence far after a female has already considered many other potential barriers (as an example, penis size would be added to the very last pre-mating barrier in that figure just above in theory) such that the overall (sequential) strength of penis size on contributing to rejection will be much smaller since previous barriers will be responsible for rejection of the vast majority of guys, and most guys won't even get to the point where the woman gets to find out his penis size. In summary that 5% penile rejection rate does not consider any of the vast majority of encounters that people go on with one or two dates that never go anywhere. It's more like 5% of the time she sees a guy's penis, it's size contributes significantly to her rejecting him.
Penis Size Preference: Approximate Preference distribution
Approximate overall ideal size range (preferred by middle 50% of women): 5.7-6.9" x 4.2-5.5"
About 10% of women refused to give an overall preference for penis size
15% of women thought that they were more concerned about penis size than other women (0% cared a lot more). While 34% thought they cared less than others (16% of which cared a lot less).
How does a woman's preference for penis size relate to what she views as average?
Interestingly the two are well correlated, such that what a woman views as average is often close to what she prefers:
Important Figure 2: Preference Correlation to Perceived Average
That correlation would then leave the question of which might be influencing which:
a penis size preference leading to a larger expectation/experience of average
a size experience/expectation of average leading to a penis size preference
(I would lean toward the second possibility for experienced women who would likely acquire information about what is average from experience and based on that decide whether they would like bigger or smaller penises (Even though what they find they prefer may also influence what they expose themselves to and therefore may influence overtime what they view as average as in the first possibility). For women who have little to no direct experience of penises (20% of the women sampled) I would expect that limited past experiences and indirect information gathered from other women about other women's preference relative to 'average' is largely influencing what they think they would prefer. Such that the inexperienced woman's preference would come from other women and yet would be relative to what the inexperienced woman views as average, which is also the second possibility).
Length: None of these women had their preference at more than 8.5" or less than 4"
Girth: None of these women had their preference at more than 7" or less than 3"
Along with the correlation of average and preference, the size that a woman prefers is far more biased to be greater than what she perceives as average:
Few women prefer less than what they believe to be average, and the mode of women prefer exactly average (though overall a significantly larger proportion prefer above what they believe to be average)
Prefer below average: ~12% Prefer Average: ~30% Prefer Above Average: ~58%
Important Figure 3: Distribution of Preference Minus Perceived Average[/quote][/size]
Bigger dildos are often bought by gay men
Measurements of Pornstars
Most are 5-6 inches girth even though it's basically only about the bigger the better.
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Mr: 18: 9x6
Julio Gomez: 8.75x6.25
Jack Napier: 8.25x6.25
John Holmes: 8.25x6
Danny D: 8.25x5.75
Lex Steele: 8.25x5.5
White Pony: 8x6
Wesley Pipes: 8x4.75
Rico Strong: 8x5.25 (just a hair shorter than Pipes)
John E Depth: 8x5.25
Sean Michaels: 8x5.25
Bryon Long: 8x5.5
Alex Jones: 8x5.5
Bruce Venture: 8x5.5
Rob Piper: 8x5.5
Michael Williams: 8x5.5
Flash Brown: 8x6
Isiah Maxwell: 8x5.25
Richard Mann: 7.75x6
Omar Williams: 7.75x6
Charlie Mac: 7.75x6
Jason Brown: 7.75x6
Jax Slayer: 7.75x5.5
Stallion Strong: 7.75x5.25
Alex D: 7.75x5.25
Shane Diesel: 7.5x6.5
Jovan Jordan: 7.5x6.25
Macana Man: 7.5x5.5
Steve Holmes: 7.5x5.25
Kieren Lee: 7.5x5
Chris Diamond: 7.5x6
Davin King: 7.25x6.25
Criss Strokes: 7.25x5.25
Alberto Blanco: 7.25x5.25
Sean Michaels: 7.25x5.25
Julian Rios: 7.25x5.75
Ricky Johnson: 7.25x5.75
Chris Charming: 7.25x6
Mick Blue: 7.25x5.25
Jason Luv: 7x6
Kid Jamaica: 7x6
Joss Lescaf: 7x6
Rocco Siffredi: 7x6
Ben English: 7x6
Prince Yahshua: 7x6
J Mac: 7x6
Sean Lawless: 7x6
Louie Smalls: 7x6
Christian Clay: 6.75x5.75
John Johnson: 7x5.5
Johnny Sins: 7x5.25
Justin Long: 7x5.25
Mark Wood: 6.75x6
James Deen: 6.75x5.5
Mr. Marcus: 6.75x5.5
Shorty Mac: 7x6.75
Nacho Vidal: 6.75x6.25
Billy Glide: 6.75x6.5
Markus Dupree: 6.75x5.75
Chad White: 6.75x5.5
Brian Pumper: 6.5x6
Mike Adriano: 6.5x6
Manuel Ferrara: 6.5x6
Nat Turner: 6.5x6
Xander Corvus: 6.5x6
Johnny Castle: 6.5x5.5
I read many many many pages in new and old forum about guy’s experiences with different sizes with women.
Now I think this girth is best for women vaginally on Average (nr of women enjoying the thickness vs unpleasantness because of thickness; with anal it’s smaller):
5.7 inches (5.5 inches – 5.9 inches)
I read a lot in the forum to get more of a feel at what point being too girthy can have bad effects and
collected probably all of the relevant quotes regarding experiences of guys with different sizes / women's reactions in the 'lust love vanity' forum:
I also read the phalloboards v2 forum.
being VERY thick isn't really all that necessary or special, and tends to experience diminishing returns post 5.25" (obviously everyone's mileage will vary). What I mean is, those who are extra thick will enjoy its novelty, but women aren't nearly as obsessed/critical with our cocks as we are.
I'm someone who started at Snugger Fit condoms, to Regular condoms, to Magnum condoms, to Magnum XL+. (3.5 to 6.3 girth). With that experience, I've learned that with the EXCEPTION of multiple-birth moms and the uncommon size queens (one's actually born with a large canal), the vast majority of sane, healthy women need around the 5.25-5.5 range to provide adequate tightness (and subsequent pleasure for both parties).
Post-filler, I've had women who were so tight that sex hurt me (even with lubrication), and others who I barely filled up because they've had multiple births. Women born with abnormally large "canals" or those with multiple children tend to especially notice & remark on the Girth.
Obviously mileage may vary, but the idea that you need a 6"+ girth (which is exceedingly rare in the general population) to satisfy most women is rooted in fantasy and our own obsessions.
One good reaction was in dark she grabs my already erect shaft then exclaims "what the fuck!" repeatedly, as if she hasn't grabbed something this thick before.
I'm not saying one should stop at 5.5", but that anything in excess of that seems more like our own obsession with size than the demands of our partners. 6" + is certifiably thick even to size queens.
If that's what you want, that's fine -- but it doesn't change the reality that excessive girths are more novelty than practical, and this CAN create diminishing returns with respect to (current and future) partners. Yes, there are some who can handle it all, but I've also read many instances of "no quickies, no anal, teared vaginas, etc."
believe that going far north to 5.5 can be "almost" useless or even counter-productive in same cases with some women, and generally speaking it doesn't help to have a better sex-life, unless maybe with few selected women.
I am 5.7in MEG natural and I don't think this is the end of the line for what is vaginally accepted.
from my experience, it's not until you get into the 6.5" range that you start risking being too big. However, this isn't usually that much of a problem. I'm over 7" and have only had a few women where it was too thick. One started crying and another made me stop. Some complained about being sore afterwards and had no intention of meeting again ... but, overall, the experience has been positive. However, anal really starts becoming out of the question for most women once you get into this size range. Most women are like no fucking way ... although some have taken it as a challenge.
I've had a decent range of experiences with other women at swingers clubs, etc. After going to these places pre-PMMA and after, I'd say that the difference isn't quite as extreme as you might expect. The women who are truly after big dicks are in the minority. In fact, I'd say that there are just as many -- and perhaps more -- who try to avoid them. Most women truly don't seem to care about dick size. I rarely seen them gravitating to the big ones and avoiding the small ones.
That said, I have had some experiences where an increased size has been a factor. I've been complimented about it several times. After sex with one woman she exclaimed, "Oh my god he's big!" That felt kind of good to hear -- especially since she said it in front of a bunch of dudes who laughed and joked about it.
But then there's the flip side of legitimately being too big. In one situation it was clear that I was causing a considerable amount of discomfort. This isn't nearly as cool as you may think it would be before it happens. It's kind of unpleasent, actually, and makes you want to stop.
All that said, a bigger dick does physically feels better for me and I'd guess that it ultimately does feels better for most other women as well. But I may be a little biased here haha.
Noxcuse: (probably from 5 inches to 5.7 inches)
There are certain positions that allow her to orgasm more easily as before
I’m not as big as many guys here (about 5.75” with a Cock ring) and women I sleep with routinely tell me now that I’m “massive” and they are sore the next day. So to put in perspective anything over 5.5” I think is quite large to most women.
Going from 5.7 to 6.4 with HA, my gf at that time was able to compare it, she felt the difference and gave me this "uuf that's big" at the first time but she kinda got used to it. I tried it with other women and the difference I noticed is that the moans got more quiet and deeply, less loud, which is a super turn on for me because, hands down, those loud moans always sounded fake to me.
Conclusion I get from speaking to many patients is that 6 inches is probably an ideal goal all factors considered.
Playing the field you will start to encounter women who will not enjoy 6.0+.
Beyond 6.5 inches and you are probably putting off 30% of women or more.
The penis feels too big, it hurts during or after sex with puts them off having further sex, you may need to use artificial lubrication to help with penetration, anal sex is out of the question for perhaps 50%, and quickie sex is not as easy... more foreplay is required before penetration than when the penis was smaller.
It is common for me to hear that it is easier for the female partner to climax from vaginal intercourse after thickening the penis, and the climax is more intense.
One guy got 7.5 x 7.5 and his wife kinda stopped having sex with him.
One 7.25 guy wrote him he has sex out of his league cause of his big penis (me: I guess he goes on sexdating website and finds sizequeens)
However, I am also certain that many women would not enjoy it, I have heard as much from many patients and their partners.
anything at 5.5 Girth is big. That's probably where a lot of those big Dick stories you hear of come from. 6" Girth is very large, that's where those huge guy stories are. 6.0-6.5 inches in circumference is very large. It'll generate comments and some will find it mildly uncomfortable after in the odd instance.
Once you hit like 6.5 that's extremely rare... and while I'm convinced most women will gladly give that a go and love it if they're into you, if it's just a casual one time thing they might be close to their mental comfort limit/physical limit. 7" is almost not even heard of and I'd say you're past the realm of normal for sure lol.
Everything I've seen is most for casual hook ups, 5.5-6.5 is if you want to be their 'big' guy but not cause discomfort (or too much)
I’m at 15.4cm Girth now and I wouldn’t go bigger than that for sure
Happily married here and at 6" EG now. I feel like my wife could easily take a lot more. After my second round, she told me "if you have plans to do more, cancel them" but since then, she has pretty easily accepted the new size, and while she is obviously stimulated more with my larger Girth, I still haven't gotten the "eyes roll back in the head" with penetration that I'm hoping for.
if you're single and fucking other women, especially childless ones, I would guess there is an exponentially increasing risk of having fitment issues above 6"
I started at 8.25 BPEL and 5.5 mseg
I’m now at about 7.0 mseg
My experience has been with a wide range of ages and sizes. Some couldn’t take it Balls deep and oral was not fun in a few cases . The sex feels great and their vaginsl orgasms are much more intense and frequent . All have experienced orgasms from penetration ... you need to move slowly and carefully . When they are stretched out that much , very little stimulation is needed
Lube is needed generally and it can be problematic with some to go more than 1/night . All get ripped and are very sore ( in a good way ) the next day or two . But they all want it again badly , so my guess is that 6-6.5 is a non issue for most .
7.5-7.75 (I guess length) is uncomfortable during aggressive thrusting for 50 percent of women ( large sample size )
7 inches of Girth is extasy and soreness ( compared to 5.5 ) for everyone ( small sample size ). Provisio: lube and extensive fore play and slow gentle penetration
Just my personal experience , but 7 is much lot better than 5.5 . Haven't had any problems with the 5-6 partners some of whom were quite petite . In some sense it's less painful for them as I sometimes can't go Balls deep but the Girth still gives immense pleasure . The Girth doesn't give pain ...
I've seen reactions after pumping up to 8in Girth then sliding a Cock ring on, then putting in work. 75% of the women I've been with loved it.. Lots have said it's more pleasure to be stretched out. Just have to slowly work it until the juices start to flow
one has to be mindful that not everyone who "squirms" or "has a hard time accommodating" your size is actually enjoying it.
I can only suggest where I think "diminishing returns" begin...and that's probably as you close in on the 6" EG mark. Sure there are those who can handle more, but this number tends to trend more often as it pertains to accounts of requiring a partner to warm up prior to sex.
I know women who flat out love and prefer average or just slightly under and will walk from larger guys now just because they simply don't like how it feels if they're really large. Two in particular have a pretty big... sample size of men to go off of too lol.
There's women that actually seek out extremely big men, but they're also extremely rare. Anything to an almost unnaturally large Girth of 7" is definitely do-able, and a lot will actually love it initially or love it after some trials.
I think in the real world and casual dating, 5.5-6 is very, very big and probably about the most you'd ideally want.
Teeth definitely are a thing. I'm two sessions in and it's definitely a lot.
After round 1 and hitting 6" EG... I've noticed TEETH wayy more
My wife has only previously achieved an orgasm once or twice ever from just penetration. I was probably around 6.5" EG as I had pumped a bit earlier (and I've been using a shockwave machine and Trimix injections in an effort to get bigger via chemical PE, but that's for another thread), and I struggled to get all the way in there and she climaxed again just from me getting it all the way in.
6.5 Girth here for 4 years and have experienced lots of western & asian women in that time.. For half the women it was great & the other half I wish I had .5 less Girth. Quickies & anal was out of the question for the majority of those women.
I'm 6.5 mid Girth & wish I could get back to 6. That's my experience sleeping with multible women with both 6 & 6.5 Girth. And if you like anal then going above 6 is a no go for the majority of women.
Briceb: over 7 girth
Quickies are out.
Sex was always doable with: Lube, lube, lube and prep work. Have to take it slow starting out. And yes, anal is doable, too.
each woman is built differently. Some can handle just about any size, while others have trouble with my original 7.4 EL x 5.25. Some are deep and some shallow.
hovering between 5.9" and 6.0. I was with a woman last night who said nothing about my size, and accepted that my dick could only go into her about 3-4 inches..I tried to get deeper, but she kept squirming every time I tried. I was amazed how much she was stretched during doggy. Something about seeing a woman's pussy stretched out.. the view was amazing!
No issues with any women. One out of the last 10, one mentioned she was a little ripped down there the first time we screwed, and was sore the following day. Duration of intercourse, shortest 20min, longest about two hours. Age varied from 26-48. I was sore after the marathon session, but wasn’t any different before PMMA. Extensive friction equals a raw and slightly swollen cock!
My dick would not go in -, 6.5 girth toward the middle and 7" toward the base - a lot of guys can take that easily but not this one
Everytime i got more ha and i had sex with with my wife she felt tighter and tighter. She reacted more and moaned much louder. When i was at 5.9 eg she said the my girth felt too big and i literally couldnt get inside her i had to wiggle my way through taking about 2 mins to get inside her even with lube on compared the normal 5-10 seconds. She felt very tight, it was like she was gripping me then i suppose after she got use to it she wasnt as tight but she still gripped me.
I'm about 7.5x 5.75 . No problem gettings girls and the majority of girls tell me that I'm the biggest they've ever had
I have been with over 300 women and my wife 300+ men... and never never never is penis size discussed.. rather...was he able to stay hard, was he able to get the women wet, was he able to hold on until she came first..??... that is ... man.. nothing else.. and especially NOT size... BTW... I am just over 6 and 1/2 inches thick mid... which I can tell you from from being around LOTS of naked men is thee largest!!! But guys at 5 inches that can WOW a women.. have me beat all day long... let me repeat... all day long....
SIZE DON'T MATTER FROM A MAN THAT HAS 1% THICKNESS.... AND FUCKED MANY WOMEN WHO HAVE ALSO FUCKED MANY MEN.....
You want a bigger dick.. go for it!!!! But know if not now.. at some time... it takes way way way more to get a women to roll her eyes backwards and go into screaming la la land... than the size of YOUR dick......
Been there.. done it.... and here I am telling you how it is brother...size don't matter... YOU matter..
What I can tell is that there is a size that she likes best and that is around 7' long and 6' thick. She would pass, or go trough swiftly out of kindness with a much smaller dick and she would straight up refuse or only suck a bigger dick than 8 inches (there are only so few of these, maybe one in 100 we've seen). because it hurts too much and there is no pleasure for her in that.
And that is one of the aspects. Hardness is just as important as size and technique/intensity is the third important part.
one guy: I am 5.7-6 girth depending on mood and condition, he was probably 5.4-5.5.
That guy was ferocious, rocking the bed with the four of us on it and kept going super intensively 30 min, 60 min, 2 hours, 2.15 min .... Had a big towel on his neck and just wiped sweat from time to time and there was no sign of fatigue.
She came a total of 44 times. 41 vaginally and 3 anally. And earlier that day she already had something like 13-14 orgasms from me, one other guy and one girl And she asked for it to be over. For the first time in her life she said "I cant go on"
Was his dick bigger? - No. Same length, a little bit thinner because she had no problem with anal and with me she always has. But that guy had a rock solid erection for more than 2 hours and pounded her with energy of 10 suns. And that to her was the winning combination.
Wife: Went from long drawn out sex to orgasm to 10 seconds or less when she’s hot if you have a specific ??? I’d ask her for you. We’ve never had big sex issues but 6.5 girth changes the game entirely.
had sex with 40 women since my second round. I promise you their faces and their moans and their breath you took away with a big dick
EG 4.8 to 6.5
my wife can take 6.75 just fine and yes the moans that come from it are much different than regular 5.85.
Dance with dragons:
As the owner of a 6.75 x 6.25, I can tell you that no one on Fetlife gives a flying fuck about guys, and ain’t nothin coming your way from there.
Big dick, smaller dick, it really doesn’t change all that much. It’s all about your hustle. Nothing ever replaces or tops game. It is everything.
The big changes that I’ve experienced are all between my ears. I talk shit like I have a big dick, I believe I have a big dick, and I live like I have a big dick.
After my first PMMA with 6.10 inch mid shaft hard and having sex with 8 women in the alternative life style (swingers) everyone women mentioned i was thick or called me big. I felt the tightness around my penis which felt GREAT! Some women would literally come when I first entered but these were women who could orgasm easily to begin with. Overall I am harder and can last longer which I think is more a mental confidence thing rather than the PMMA itself. I look forward to round two but cannot image getting any larger than 6.5 inches.
With larger penis it is about the same no noticeable difference in reaction in swingerclub. Other than maybe faster orgasm for her. End of it all it comes down to how well you perform not size in my opinion.
thehulk: from 5.7 to 6.6 girth
They love the size, takes a bit of warming up. No reduction in intercourse length. Depending on the woman, the soreness doesn't stop intercourse the following day. But that varies.
At 6x6 I'm not in a position to comment too much, but I will tell you about the reaction of a woman who I was fooling around with last night.
This was a woman who I had sexual relations with about 10 years earlier, (before PMMA).
She grabbed me from outside the pants, started to play, and then she immediately decided to put her hand down my pants. She then let out a huge almost "orgasm" sound just by grabbing it with her hand.
I could tell she was pretty excited and no more work was really required on my part. I just had to make sure that she got/gets properly done when it comes time to seal the deal.
This was/is a different experience to my starting stats, which were 6x5.1
I used to get a "Hmm... this could be interesting" and a smile or a sexy eye contact - you get the picture.
Now its more like shes already made her mind up that its going to be epic and I have not even done anything.
So, psychologically it definitely impacts some (but not all) women.
I have had maybe 10-20 out of 50 woman pine for it. Pre PMMA I think it was maybe like 2-3 out of 50 that would pine for it. I'm guessing if my starting stats were lower, the number of those who would pine for it might be 1 or none out of 50. I just don't know. But don't forget, its definitely possible that the extra size has just made me more confident, and because of THAT, I get a better reaction. Hard to say. Definitely a tighter fit though.
one woman: When I whipped out the business she outright refused. She looked genuinely scared. I think she will eventually come around, however this was the first time I've encountered this issue. I'm currently 5.8 EG - 5.9 EG. She looked like a dear caught in the headlights.
chester: 6.2 girth
I'd say I've gone on dates with over 300 women (I'm 42). By now I've banged over 200. I used to think size, and the mentioning of it, was important, as to positively differentiate myself from the rest. In fact, for the overwhelming majority of women, it's a huge turn-off. Sure, there are some pussy-lip dragging size queens for whom knowing size is important, but the majority aren't interested in hearing about it. There's a simple explanation. The majority of women are looking for relationships. Men are looking for sex. Dick size, by definition, would be more important to the latter.
The only thing I'd say is that I've definitely heard "too big" and "go easy, you're hurting me." I wouldn't say frequently, but certainly often enough to satisfy the old ego. On a couple of occasions, only with Asian girls, sex wasn't even possible. But I hold similar sentiments about "hot dog down a hall" with a few too. I remember 3 different occasions where I banged tall Northern European women (6'+), who I felt pretty loose in) and I was a bit unsettled by it. Yet all 3 came; very strongly. The only thing I can fathom is that, like you pointed out, the extra-curricular stuff really helped out.
I'm around the 6in mark in Girth. Before Ellanse the wife occasionally allowed anal now we've tried once unsuccessfully. Bj's aren't as enjoyable either due to teeth rubbage. But my personal opinion the sight of her pussy gripping my Dick is worth the loss of anal.
I've been 6.25 el by 5.85 eg since puberty I'm 47 and I've never been told im big, thick or anything. I've never been turned down, its fit in every pussy I've taken for a test drive or two in. That's well over 250. Its been a tight fit into some and the proverbial hotdog down the hallway in others. Most have been on the snug side until they are worked up a bit then its easy going. Just gotta use the tongue and fingers nibble on the nipples to get the juices flowin a bit....
I went from 5.5” Girth to 6.5” (7” toward the base) and it has dramatically effected my sex life. Huge confidence boost for me in terms of a Flaccid hang and overall feel of it in hand, but sex has diminished in frequency and quality. Mainly due to the discomfort it causes my wife. Previously, we were having sex daily, sometimes twice a day. She loved it and wanted it all the time. Now, it takes a tremendous amount of foreplay (not a bad thing) and lube, but it still causes discomfort for her about 50% of the time. We are now once or twice a week. Spontaneously bending her over the kitchen counter is definitely a no-go now. If you’re at 6” now, I’d say seriously consider the impact it could have on your partner.
Listen to this guy and Skep. I’m 6 1/4 Girth and I’d go back to 5.75 - 6 if I could. Spontaneous sex was great before and it’s very problematic now and even during regular sex worrying about hurting your partner isn’t what you want to be thinking about. Then there’s lube, not a huge deal but it’s frustrating to need it at times. A half Inch is more than you think it is.
I'm at 5.75 now and been pumping to get up to 6.25-6.5, Wife always comments that I feel "extra hard" on those nights and it felt amazing, which I attribute to the added Girth. I'm going back for Round 2 in a few weeks and I think if I end up anywhere over 6.0 I will be done, except for maybe a touch up. I will note my wife has had three natural births so I think that is a factor here. She def loves where I'm at now and I think will be able to tolerate another half Inch or so pretty easily based on the nights when I pump. If you are with a long term partner and thinking about adding more, it might make sense to try pumping and see what kind of reaction you get.
I did the same exact thing, pumped up to 6 1/4, tried it a couple of times and she loved it so went forward with it. Whenever I pump, my Dick is a lot bigger obviously but it’s also softer/ squishier than when I’m normally Erect and I think that helped her accommodate the larger size at the time.
My Girth went from 5 to 6 and I didn’t think it would made a difference however my wife has a very difficult time with it and it looks like a tank going in. She’s getting use to it.
Wifey and I both ultimately adjusted to the new size but it did/does not make sex better (like some guys on here gushed over), it's almost the same as before. She's adjusted now too. I think part of it is her having to deal with her overall health/libido. Ultimately - for my confidence, it was definitely a boost.
HunkChunk: 7girth at base
In the USA I had no qualms being fetted for my features. Two girls even said "I love you, but I don't know which I love more, you or your dick".
In the Dominican Republic it was a bit less of a winning situation, as the girls there found me somewhat too large and complained. I think that this is possibly because they weren't "taken with me" as a person, but more interesting in "taking me" and weren't as disposed to dilating to welcome the boy home? Therefore it became a daunting task to take on a guy whose size is compelling when his presence inside isn't 100% deeply desired.
In the Philippines a girl saw me undress and ran out of my room to never again be seen! In Thailand, the Land of Smiles, I actually had 5 runners who refused altogether and walked. One was nice but afterwards showed me her anatomy bitching how I'd injured her. Another one gave it her best shot, acting pained throughout until the very end, when she apparently became quite happy. Even in Pattaya on Soi 6, I have to wear loose pants that hide the bulge or none of the girls heckle me like they do others, even the old and ugly.
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More anecdotes from phalloplasty board v1
at 5.5 inches:
I have had sex with 3 different women now since my opperation and so far 2 have bled and 1 I could only fit 1/3 of my penis inside her (I should note their ages are 18, 19, and 23)... I know 5.5" girth isn't over the top... but this worries me that 6.5"+ will be too much to even have sex! Even though they bled... they REALLY enjoyed it so perhaps they are just used to smaller? Please if there are members here that size that have had sex with more than one women at that size... please respond and let us know if it has ever been a problem being that big. I am young and do not have a stabble girlfriend...
Even since before I did this my flaccid size was quite "showy" at ~6" x 4.25" ... now its ~6.5" x 5.5" ... after round 2 it could very well be 6.5"+ x 6.25"+ ... is that not a bit much? I mean realistically... will people consider that freakish?? I can just imagine swimming at the beach or in a pool with friends...
Personally I fall under the wanting to be huge category... I am just a little bit worried that I will fall in love with someone only to have them struggle with me in bed. Now that would be terrible.
I personally would caution on incredibly high gains as of now. You already know that sex is pushing the envelope with your new size, and added girth will make things even more trickier for some ladies. Granted, some other ladies can take added size but you have to keep in mind that you yourself wanted "quality sex."
You can always add girth in the future if you really feel like it's required (for example, dating a woman who has had multiple children), but honestly, breaking the 6" marker is larger than most..
I should note, I'm not saying that it would be wrong to reach 6.5" or even 7", but you have to ask yourself how important aesthetics become and how important the quality of your sex is. It is easy for us to be girth-obsessed (and I'm one who can attest), but I think most normal women can be adequately satisfied with a 5" girth (even 4.5"+). For us guys, the added girth is an added assurance that we will be able to please.
Once I was over a friends house, and she had other girls and guys over. Before I knew it there were 8 of us in the hot tub, and everyone started getting naked, except me. This guy whipped his shit out, and you heard gasps from everyone. Every girl in that hot tub asked to touch it! Guess who took two of those girls upstairs within 20 minutes that night? Not me that's for sure!
Wife always have to use a lot of lube, and she loves it dont get me wrong, but we have to start slow or else it will hurt her and she is really worried about tearing.
I had a few very small girls and they all liked sex with a 7" at the base but mine tapered to 5.5" so it worked well for me.
If I go with pmma in the future, I will want the same girth, it worked well even with young Asian women. Older ones with children also had a good time with this size.
I have been good in bed and I had an average penis size. I had this girl who I would see every few weeks and we would have great sex and she would come every time. This was before my implant. After the implant, months passed away since I was overseas on business. I then saw her again and when we had sex, she kept saying how big it was and asking what did I do to it, while we were having sex. I never told her and she did not ask any more. Here is the thing: she would come 2-3 times now and I did not even work as hard as before. She is a small girl with no children. My, notice I said "my", conclusion is that if you keep everything the same and increase the size of your penis, then you will have more fun so will your girl. I went from about 5" girth to 7-6.5-5.5" girth. All other girls had fun with it but for one girl where we just did not get the chemistry right.
This site has an odd and worrying culture in that our members talk about what a girl can "take" or "handle." Shouldn't we be more interested in what actually gives them the most pleasure? Obviously there is no magic number, but we need to forget this crazy idea that the optimum size is what they can fit in their vagina's and still manage to have sex. Most girls don't have a clue when is comes ti guessing size etc, but at PeGym their are quite few female members and they really do know size. There are a few threads in which the female members are asked what their ideal girth is and it is most commonly 5.5".
Here are some interesting posts from our members who have had PMMA:
"There was one experience (with another) where she kept her hands by my waist, and pushed me back on several occasions during intercourse." EvilPnievel
" I cannot get it all the way into my girlfriend at this point. I have to warm her up for a long time and use a lot of lube to even penetrate. once we are going she does good though and she expands to accept it, just cant get all the way in there yet." GSXR
"sometimes its frustrating trying to warm some ladies up because the girth is really hard to fit in to females! I had this Asian girl I slept with and she always scream and pushes me of her which is a downfall for being so girthy and so far I slept with about 5 different females and only one can really take it." BigBizo
Now whilst we know all of these guys are delighted with their results and GSX I assume can now enter his wife easily, this information isn't something that should simply be ignored. I've said before, for married guys or those in long term relationships, being really big is less of an issue, as given time your partner can adapt. But those who plan on sleeping around a bit, or like anal sex, should consider being more conservative. I'm sure most women like a thick girth, but there is a difference between being thick ie 5.5"-6" and being enormous ie 6"+.
My point is that what girl can "take" or "handle" usually isn't the same as what gives her the most pleasure. This forum is full of stories that confirm are illusion that bigger is better, but to sustain this belief we need to ignore the evidence that shows this isn't always the case. I think it's fair to say in the majority of cases 5.5" is better than 4.5", but there is no reason to think 6.5" is better than 5.5". I think there will be a higher perecentage of women who find 6.5" uncomfortable, than there are which find it pleasurable. I also think a far higher percentage of women will be more than happy with a 5.5" girth than find it insufficient.
Having had a penis circumference over the years that has ranged from about 5 inches to 7.5 inches, I think I am in a good position to add my 2 cents on this matter…
I would like to preface though by saying that erection quality and overall confidence is more important than having a thick penis…Having a thick penis gave me the confidence which resulted in a stronger erection…
That being said,
With my original 5 inch (in girth) penis …If you read my accounts in “Messageman’s Journey”, I lacked self confidence, had poor erection quality, and had zero technique…I had no game at all and that was reflected in the underwhelming reaction I received with most of my partners…One of them even mentioned she “couldn’t feel me in her at all…Boy, did that crush me….
After the dermal surgery, I was a little over 7 inches in girth and the response was almost always positive…I probably slept with over 30 to 40 to women (from all ethnicities) and (the huge) girth was generally never a problem…On the contrary, more often than not, women loved it…I was in high demand….
As my length increased (from stretching and an ADS), length at times became an issue…with women pushing me back and requesting I don’t go so ‘deep’…I had loads of confidence and I believe this was also major factor …I could last longer and get hard on cue. A long, thick penis is also a visually stimulating thing for a woman…
After a few years, my dermal graft shrunk down a bit to 6.25 inches (in girth)….This was a nice size to have and always was well received…Still, I always remembered what it was like to have that ‘ 7 inch’ monster girth….
So…. I stupidly got the Elist implant…The implant girth was ridiculous (over 7.5 inches) girth, but (and I swear on my life) women loved it…with proper lubrication (which was a must)…
My penis retracted to a little over 6 inches in length (due to the implant)…but even with that, the 7.5 inch girth was visually stunning to these women and they and they all would talk about how “powerful” the feeling was….
After the damn implant basically exploded (2 years ago), I had it removed….The capsule of the implant remained and gave me an added half inch…leaving me with a 6.75 inch (base) girth….This is a great girth to have….Women usually don’t have an issue and it’s visually (and physically) stimulating
In summary, for me, EQ and confidence is more important than girth…However, I do believe (from my experience) there are many women out there that can appreciate a penis with a girth from 6 inches to 7.5 inches…
at 7” girth “the response was almost always positive”, “more often than not women loved it”. At 6.75” base girth after implant removal “women usually don’t have an issue”.
Do I believe a 7-inch girth provides a better overall sexual experience than a 5 or 6-inch girth penis? That’s a very good question. My answer is:
a) It definitely depends on the woman to some extent. Some women get really turned on by the sight of a monster girth….and love the feeling of feeling full… I know this from considerable experience. Other women don’t consider it such an attribute. That being said, I never had a woman turn me down for sex after seeing the size of my penis.…
Also, because I am a rather physically large man (6, 1’), perhaps I attract the size queens… Maybe that’s why women appeared so underwhelmed when I was sporting my pre surgery, more than sufficient 6.3 inch (length) X 5 inch (girth penis).
b) I admit that I am neurotic with regards to penis size; this obsession has plagued me since my teenage days. Perhaps this has skewed my perception of my experiences with these women. I know that after I was able to increase the size of my penis (almost 15 years ago) …my confidence and eq shyrocketed…I know this is one of the keys to my positive experiences.
I truly believe though that a 6-inch girth would more favored by the majority of women than a 5-inch girth penis….
How about a 7-inch girth over a 6-inch girth? I would say that it’s probably dicier, but maybe. Some women may just run screaming while other women might think that they hit the motherload…
IMHO I got the best reactions / sex sessions between my rounds where I was 5.75" girth to 6.75" girth. (now
Sure I've met a few size queens who go mad over the thick girth I have now... but they are so few and far between... and usually they aren't as hot as the chicks I can get normally anyway.
Even though I was only 4.5"EG before PMMA, I never had complaints about my girth and I wasn't desperate or anything like that (I wasn't doing it because I felt like I had to in order to live a normal life or satisfy my partner better in some way). I had very regular sex with multiple women before PMMA and I'm not so sure me getting more size has ever been for my partner's enjoyment. I've always been drawn to big dick porn and for me I think this is likely somewhat of a fetish for me.
Here's a brief breakdown of my experiences at various sizes:
4.5" EG: I've always maintained that sex was great even at 4.5" girth. I never really had negative or positive comments about my girth at that size. Maybe I was lucky... but I've always been long (after 5+ years of manual PE ) so that could have helped.
5.4" & 5.75" EG: I started getting the "omg you are so big" type reactions as early as after my first round at 5.4" EG. Keep in mind, I was only 21 after my first round... so the girls I was with were age 18 - 25 or so.
6.25" & 6.75" EG: This was the "sweet spot" I feel. Well more like 5.75" - 6.5" would be I bet, where most women will find sex at this size very hot (as you are 99.9% likely to be the biggest girth she's been with at this size, but not SO big that you are too oversized).
7+" EG: Still very enjoyable, but a lot more foreplay seemed to be needed. A lot more wincing of the eyes (ie, slight pain mixed with pleasure etc.) Most girls seemed to enjoy it during the act, but I also started getting texts the next day saying they were sore... one even went to the hospital the next day due to her pain/soreness. I also noticed a big drop off of girls wanting to "hang out again" starting at this size... perhaps they had their big dick experience to cross off the bucket list, then decided to go back to normal... I'm not sure here... I also have been busy with the webcam stuff so I haven't really pursued second "hang outs" very hard.
7.75"+ EG: I can echo the drop off of girls wanting to hang out again, BUT I have also hooked up with more size queens at this size (thanks to things like the Feeld app). I made one girl cum recently off the Feeld app who said she'd (up to this point) never been able to cum during sex. Though, like I said, she was a true size queen. I also tried to date a small 4'11" indian girl... she was so incredibly hot... but sadly, after we had sex the first time she actually texted me the next day saying that she doesn't think it'll physically work to be together... so it doesn't sound like she was very into it.
Conclusion: Women can accommodate pretty much any size (within reason), at least in my experience. The most positive reactions I had with random women were between 5.4" - 6.75" EG. The true size queens tend to like the real large girth, but they are few and far between compared to all the other women out there. I had a pretty steep drop in girls wanting to hang out again after I went above 7" EG.
Based on my experience, I still feel dudes starting at 5.25"+ girths really shouldn't worry about being bigger, if their motivation is that they feel small I mean, girls will love that size and think you are big. At that starting size it honestly isn't worth the risk I'd say... Maybe try HA and get to 5.75" and see what it's like I guess... It seems the majority of women can handle quite a bit, but that doesn't mean they need to, or want to. Some will like it while its happening but will be quick to say goodbye and cross that experience off their list and move on. Some will think it's great. Some will simply not enjoy it all that much.
Went from 4.5 to 8, think 5.75 to 6inch is best
Interesting what you say about 5.75 to 6 inch being best. It makes sense.
Always had in my mind a goal between 5.5 to 6. With a taper. If she wants bigger than that it's her problem.
Why did you keep going? You presumably got to upper 6ish and found it wasn't any better. Why did you go to....7.5? Whatever you are now.
It's hard to say, it's not like you one day just reach a size where it's no longer as good, you don't really notice it as it's happening. It's more I've noticed over the years that the average enjoyment level has gone down the bigger I got. There's still people that absolutely go bananas over it and think it's the best thing they've ever felt... buttt now there's more people that just want to try it and then say see ya later, I don't want to be permanently stretched out. Which is bullshit to think anyway, but women do legit think that their pussies somehow get stretched out and our society looks poorly on a not-tight vagina.
(looked also at threads on thundersplace, but found nothing good
edit: ok only one thing, and unfortunately i lost the link:
question on thundersplace forum was 'Women, what penis size would you give yourself if you would become a man?'
And 2 women answered 5.5 inches girth (and 7 or 7.5 length i think) - saying they would want a versatile dick that fits in many partners and also anal)
As said right now i guess the average of the 'most joyful girth for vaginal sex' for women is 5.7 inches.
And even if that would be the true perfect average most joy-giving cock - this would mean that approximately half would prefer it to be 1mm thinner, the other half would prefer it to be 1mm fatter.
Cause there is variance in women.
I think 5.7 inches is on one hand very big (top 6% of western average regarding calcsd.info/ ), on the other hand not 'omg, what the fuck is that!?' big. Which i think makes sense - i mean i think it makes sense that the average 'best' size for a woman is not totally outlandish. I mean actually the idea that the best size for women is what only the top 6% of men have seems already totally outlandish to me.
5 inches girth (average girth of the bestselling dildos i think in western countries) would be top 34% of men having that - that seems actually more 'logical' to me.
5.5 inches girth is top 10% girth. ( calcsd.info/ western average)
I think the size women would prefer to look at and touch with their hand is much bigger than their ideal size they want in their vagina (and even more anal).
'I want to impress women' - fantasies of being super-sexually attractive
Omg, i remember being 15 and super super shy, real bad social anxiety, and being as tall as the smallest girl in class. And i thought if i just would have a giant penis, i would be self-confident.
And then the idea 'the bigger the better'. Is a pretty simple idea / daydream. That the bigger my penis would be, the more women would be pleasently surprised and in awe and the more joy i could give the women - basically like porn shows. And in my daydream they would be insanely attracted to the penis + struggle with a bit of pain to get it in + somehow then super-enjoying it. And i think them having pain but also enjoying it maximally already doesn't make sense.
And now with the next round i guess i can achieve what i think is 'ideal size'. So i will have that maxed out. So there will be one less 'i wish i had... then i would be more self-confident' i guess. Or will it?
Pain and me noticing:
My ex told me that i was actually too big for her since last round, it hurt her. And she is a bit masochistic so it was also ok for her.
And when i got it done and asked her then she told me she was afraid before she couldn't take it anymore, but it's nice. And she had fantasies of taking that big cock (while we still had to wait for it to heal).
It made me wonder a bit
Mostly when a woman moans, i interpret it as 'good'. While actually i guess pain moan is hard for me to tell apart from joy moan.
I put my penis full of great sliding silicone lube and slid it inside pussies - and whenever it went in physically without much problem and her face was not full of pain and she did not stop me with hand i thought 'my penis should be bigger'.
There is also this cracy phenomenon - penis size (bigger is better) seems to be important to me besides female pleasure:
A woman telling me 'you have the perfect dick, not to small and not too big' (i remember two women saying that) - i interpret as a kind of a diss. I make it mean that i should be bigger. Or that i am not big. Or that i should be bigger or want to be bigger. Which seems kinda.. insane.
Perhaps one part of it is not trusting women. And in these 2 situations i have no reason at all to not trust them cause they said it unprompted and super-easily just could not have said it.
The other part is - i want to be bigger than they prefer? I want my penis bigger even if it makes them fell less good? I guess that's wanting to be dominant.
And logically i want maximal pleasure for the women who have sex with me.
I think there is some animal bullshit going on
Eg out of these 2 sentenences it's clear what i like to hear more:
'Your penis is smaller than my ex, and this is great cause it feels better'
'Your penis is bigger than my ex, and this is great cause it feels better'
or these 2:
'Your penis is bigger than my ex, and this is bad cause it hurts'
'Your penis is smaller than my ex, and this is bad cause it doesn't feel as good'
made a thread about that: www.phalloboards.info/forum/lust-love-va...female-pleasure.html
"My massive Cock"
Documentary from 2022
Documentary about like 10 guys with very big dicks and their problems
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first guy Scott over 9 inches
whole village knows he has big Cock cause his teammates show pics
often he has like 3 dates and then sex just doesn't work 'you try and try and try, and it just doesn't work'
second guy over 9 inches and 7 Girth
he has problem because of his massive bulge he cannot hide
eg on job interview people think he got aroused
some people are like 'omg, that's big, i want to try that!',
other times 'omg, i can't have sex with that'
when he was 15 girls were like 'is sex supposed to hurt like that?'
their opinion polls:
1/3th of men believe a bigger Dick creates more sexual satisfaction
1/4th of women believe a bigger Dick creates more sexual satisfaction
46% of men believe having a bigger penis makes them more desired
10% of women believe believe having a bigger penis makes men more desired
Third 7.5 x 7 inches
has a gf since 7 years and they do lots of threesomes with other larger men
he worries if he is big enough
fourth 10.5 inches Andy Lee
fifth 10.5 inches
feels fetishized because of his penis
he sometimes becomes lightheaded when having an Erection
'women are very curious, doesn't mean the suddenly fall in love with you'
one woman made a replica of his Erect penis and ghosted him next day
he thinks about making an operation to make his penis smaller -> 33min, this doc has 2-3 patients per year doing this surgery
one bought him a custom Penis Pump and encouraged him to have him baloon very big just walking around the house and shared pics
when he was young, he was fucking, then it was very wet, then he turned light on and it was blood everywhere
seventh 8 inches
youtuber cam topical juice - didn't find him
'i would like to be a bit smaller, then i would probably still have 2 relationships'
'Love is harder to find than sex, so if the one you love hurts with your penis, that's bad'
Male stripper show:
they pump up their penisses and put a cockring on
Threads from reddit
What are problems with big dicks?
Have you ever been refused sex because of your big dick?
Have you had problems with your big girth?
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8,1" x 5,2"
sometimes I can put it full in even if my gf is really small... But yeah, sometimes... Still I think it's better to be little bit longer than the hole is, because you have still something more to work with...
7.5x5.5 (big 6.3 head)
I can't have one night stands it doesn't go in.. Then I made girls queff all the time.. And I made them bleed a lot of time or be in pain..
with long term partners is ok after about a month but one night stands are a no? it doesn't go in bro.. Only blowjobs!
8,1" x 5,2"
girth problem... I had problems when my gf wasn't stretched, it was painful for both of us, but after multiple times it started to be nice
it's not a problem tbh. Just know how to use it
having a big dick makes everything easier in the girl’s boyfriend’s bedroom and everything leading up to it
7.7”x 6” NBP
all my problems come from thickness. Penetration is super difficult, no deep throat, toothy blowjobs, intimidates some girls, my girlfriend put off sex for a few weeks after she saw it
I haven’t even been able to penetrate my girlfriend yet, even with plenty of lube and foreplay
7.8" x 5.5"
For the past few years I've been hoping to top my boyfriend one day (I've always been the bottom in the relationship) but we tried once 3 years ago and I was never able to get my head in because he's so tight. We even ended up with a tiny bit of blood.
8,1" x 5,2"
I tried anal sex with my gf 3 times and once I get the head in it, but in that second she looks it's really painful... We tried it do put it deeper but it was too much painful she said... Even with preparing and lube...
Did women refuse penetration because you were too big?
7.8" x 5.75”/ 6.3” (upper/base)
Only a few times out of many experiences women refused penetration because too big
7.25” x 5.25”
I literally could not get into at all - not even the tip - no matter how much lube
8.3" x 5.95"
Only tried a few girls that were in too much pain after hitting their cervix that we had to stop, don't think I've been turned down before sex.
9.5" x 6.2"
Both men and women yes refused to have penetration
7” x 6.5”
A big thick dick like mine makes it very difficult to find partners for penetrative sex, which for me means mostly anal. Many guys look at it and say “no way this is going up my butt”. Girls, unless they’re size queens, won’t take me up their ass either. Pussy is much easier, but some girls and trans guys have problems with not stretching enough or hitting the cervix.
9.5" x 6.5"
multiple women refused penetration
8+" x 6.4
8.2 x 5.8
first gf and I didn’t have sex for the 4 months we were together cause of my size but we enjoyed being with each other and we did plenty of other things just not the THING
Yup. Had experiences of NOPE when seeing it, as well as some that tried and tapped out early. In fact, the very first girl I slept with saw it and NOPEd. Ruined my confidence at first, but got over it eventually when I found girls that were not only into it, but addicts to it.
Definitely not for everyone, and that is a pretty big BDP. Other guys think this is a magic get laid free card, and ngl... Girls who are into it LOVE IT, but there are definitely girls have said no, especially when we were younger. I think as women age and have more experience with a accommodating different dick sizes, they get more willing to go for the big ones.
7 x 5.75
Nope but I have had a few who said it would be a challenge
7" x 5"
2 times in november
last one: we chatted, phone calling, she was shocekd first time when I sent her ... we talked for days and she told me she scared about my size and not belive, it seems much bigger and it's nope for her. She thought it was 8++9+ inch and she didnt belive when I sent a ruler next to it
and it's feels shit
7.8 x 6.25"
Refused? No, but I've been with girls for a few months of trying, and our pieces just didn't fit, even with copious foreplay and lube. We gave up and went our separate ways -- it's happened more than once.
I have been with women who were otherwise into anal and told me "There's no way I'm letting you put THAT in THERE".
7.5" x 6
Yea and surprisingly (or not) it was a girl in the sex industry
6.5" x 6.5"
Yeah. It’s happened.
7.75" x 6.2"
I’ve had some just want to hold it and nothing more
10” x 6"
A girl showed my cock to her friend and she said I had a porn cock…that’s the only place she saw one like mine. She told her friend that I’d she wouldn’t fuck me, she would.
21cm x 19cm
4 times since new years eve! It was even more surprising as I was at a LS party with the wife.
7.9” x 6”
Yes, 2. I was young and they were both virgins.
8” x 5.5”
Yes. My ex at the beginning, then she became addicted.
7.7”x 6” NBP
Girl I dated for a bit would often turn me down for sex after the first few times, she eventually admitted she couldn't fit me without pain. Was a huge buzz kill because everything else about her was amazing.
7.3" x 6.3"
Yes for PIV sex, but that didn't stop us from doing other stuff
8" x 5.25"
Once. She told me 5” was big to her and had hurt her in the past. Told her we could use half, but was still a no-go for her.
8.25 x 5.50”
Yep. Bout a dozen of them.
9.5” x 6”
Yes, well, kinda. I’ve had a few girls try it out but we both knew it wasn’t going to be pleasant for either of us. It’s never been an immediate no though, I think it’s a curiosity thing. Like don’t knock it till you try it. But if you try it and it’s not for you then that’s okay with me.
7" x 6.25"
Yeah, has happened twice so far. One was with a girl that I met through tinder, when we met up as soon as she saw the extent of my girth she basically tried to create every excuse she could to bail. The 2nd was a girl that acted cocky about being a pro at handling cocks of all sizes and shapes but as soon as she got a general idea of my cock she chickened out.
8” x 6”
Had one lock herself in the bathroom and I heard her on the phone with a friend saying, “his dick is so big, his dick so so big” or words to that effect. I showed myself out.
10 x 6 "
They feel it once through my pants and just kinda hit me with a "Nope. Too big." No one who actually tried it had too much of a rough time tbh because it's all about warming up and working things up to take a larger dick.
But just the cosmetic sitting on my lap or grabbing it through my pants has definitely scared off a few women.
7.5 x 5.5
Yeah, couple times. Kind of fucked me up
every girl I was ever with (my wife included), that said they either were into anal or would be down to try it changed their mind once they saw my dick
9.75” x 7.25"
8.25 x 5.50”
pulled this amazing girl at a nye party, back to hers after and when it got to doing the deed she flat out refused to. Said I would tear her apart, we tried just the tip at first and she was having none of it. She jerked me off and showed me the door.
Any 5” girth guys wish they had 6”+?
7" x 5"
Nope. 5.5 is where the problems start, and get much worse with every 0.1"
6.5 here and can confirm it can be hard to get in a woman and blowjobs are stop and go due to jaw pain lol.
she does love a good pussy stretching. I'm thickest at the base so when we really get going and I'm balls deep she likes to say things like I'm splitting her in half and such. She loves it though.
Remember that 6 inches is too much girth for most women. As i read, it's painful, make them sore, have a hard time doing bj and even with a lot of foreplay and lube it's not a pleasure for them. The range of 5 or 5.5 inches looks like the best max girth
I’m 6 inches and haven’t had any problems, but like you said, depends on the woman.
I still believe a lot of “6 inches being too much” comes from guys not realising how thick they are + what to do from there.
I agree I’m also 6 + inches in girth and the only issues I’ve ran into are quickies, but every girl has been able to table it and mentioned how good it felt.
All depends if they’re into being stretched out. It’s a game of diminishing returns and eventually needing to go bigger and bigger to get that feeling. 6 inches is nothing compared to what a vagina can work up to accommodating.
Thing is not all girls are into that.
I’ve had girls that won’t even have sex at all once they see it because they wanna stay tight. Which is fair, you can work up to bigger things but you can’t go the other way really without surgery. Kegels help a bit, but a more accommodating vagina that’s toned to grip smaller things isn’t the same as one that’s just that small to begin with/hasn’t been stretched out repeatedly.
Other girls dgaf and just like being stretched out and get off on it.
Guys shouldn’t be insecure about it though cause if the girl likes that stretched feeling she’s eventually gonna need stuff bigger than pretty much any dick on earth to really get it.
That’s when the toys come in to play.
I’m just over 6 girth when erect and I actually think 5-5.5 would be better, even though it can look impressive.
7 x 6.5
I wish mine was like 5.4 but for aesthetics it’s fine where it is
I’m 6x6 and tbh I wouldn’t trade the girth. Wish I was longer tho haha
I’m 4.5-5.2 and wish I was 5.2 to 5.5.
bjs are actually a nightmare and as a young guy girls in my age gap are relatively low experienced therefore its always toothy. and also penetration is not always good either if the girl is nervous its basically impossible for me to enter. always need the lube and a very long foreplay
7.7" x 5.5"
I already have enough girth trouble as it is lmao
7.5 x 5.5
I’m in your girth range and my wife has said many times that any more would probably be too big for her to comfortably take.
6.5 x 5.3
i would not want a 6 inch girth. Too much girth is more of a pain than too much length. At least length you can adjust by not going all the way in. Not that i am ever long with 6.5 length, by the way.
So i would want to be 5.7 in girth at most. Anything above that is stretching it.
7 x 6.5
I’ve only ever had problems with sex. They always think they can handle it, and then they complain ab their pussy hurting.
6.5" x 5.5"
5.5” girth here and no not really all women Ive been with were able to orgasm from sex alone….with the exception of my current partner?
7.1” x 5.8”
if I fuck my FWB really hard she starts getting sore after about 5-10 minutes, but she likes being fucked hard. I’ve learned to fuck her hard for 5 minutes and then take a break, repeat this 2-3 times and then I’ll finally let myself cum.
7.5 x 5.25
Sometimes I wish I was 5.5 - 5.75, but I'd probably run into more issues with partners and condoms would be more of a pain...
And I’ve rocked some girls world.
But you’re talking about the difference between husband dick and vacation dick.
Once I got married, sex more than once a week was off the table. And it became a chore and she’d complain about pain all the time.
Once the girl comes to terms with the dick, quickies, two a days, sex multiple days in a row, Has not been realistic in my relationships.
And I’ve never thought head was that amazing. And after coming to this forum, I think it’s partly the size of my dick.
18,5cm x 15,5cm
No. I'm 6" and i do not recommend it.
I wish I was 7.5bp5.6girth...it really sucks being taken with ease by every girl I make out with....it just slides in ? without facing any resistance
I have a 6.2 inch girth and it can make things difficult to have sex, in my personal opinion I’d rather have a 5.5 cause having a 6.2 inch girth makes it to where I get toothy blowjobs and that isn’t fun.
8.5 NBP (9 BP) x 5.5-5.75” G and no complaints. I think mine is well proportioned and big enough to stretch girls out and, as long as I’m attentive, not cause too much pain. I haven’t been with girls under about 5’3” so there’s that.
I'm about 5.7 and while I like being a little bit thick it definitely has downsides and I definitely wouldn't wanna be any thicker because usually I have to enter super slow and it hurrs my partners in the beginning. I had one instance where it didn't work out for this very reason. I can imagine that with a little bit more girth this would become increasingly common.
Guys love the challenge and it makes them all submissive which is hot for me as a dom so I love it
I have had many problems having sex with my ex GF except for the first weeks and for that we didn't have PIV very often. She was always feeling pain and it wasn't very pleasurable. Is it possible is it due to my Thickness? (6 inches)
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7" x 6.75"
Most partners I have had have enjoyed it. Some struggled with the girth, got too sore etc
None would do Anal! Learned to have good foreplay skills and to use lube. Also learned to take it easy and not pound away as you see in porn (at least not if I would like to have sex with that person again any time soon
7.75" x 6.75"
Most girls love it. A few of them, take a few times to get used to it.
mediocre blowjobs and rarely getting anal
had all positive experience minus a couple too tight when I was younger.
I just like the OMG's and holy shits I get when I start to penetrate her or when she reaches down to guide me in.
I typically start off with her lying on her back, performing oral until she orgasms at least once. then I move up kissing her body the whole way, and then I like to sandwich it between her outer lips and my abdomen, grinding back and forth. This is usually the point when you can feel her energy change, especially if she isn't sure she can take it.
6 is a struggle enough for my girlfriend, can’t image how difficult 6.7 would be
9.75” x 7.25"
my partner just couldn't handle it for the most part largely because she was feeling pain after about 30 seconds while going inside her vagina even when i was properly lubed, and we just ended up doing foreplay.
Sometimes an hour of foreplay is necessary. Also there is a psychological component to taking a cock that girthy. She needs to be relaxed and super wet. Use lube anyways.
If those steps are followed most Love it a ton. Still happened that I didn’t fit or they were in to much pain.
Anal is only a dream Ive given up on already.
Just 1 partner had issues vaginally
Well we could only do it in standart cowgirl, if she wasnt in control , it became painful for her "because the angle was wrong". And we could do it only once every few days because of soreness.
8+" × 6"
I've got 6" girth all the way from the base to the tip and yeah, it's problematic. Toothy blowjobs all the time, and I can't ever skip foreplay or lube even to just put the tip in.
A small portion really like it. Most are okay with it so long as I'm thoughtful with it. Some run away screaming — a small portion, but enough that I've given up on hookups and prefer developing an emotional relationship so there's a stronger desire to make it work.
7.7”x 6” NBP
Same with me
8" x 6"
Most love it, only two have told me it’s too big.
I’m 6” for maybe 80% of my shaft, and even my head is like 5.8”. First time I have sex with a girl it’s rough, but it works. After that the vagina adapts. BJs absolutely suck, and I can’t finish because of the pain. Most girls are terrified of anal from me, but I was with a girl who had a fetish for it, and when we did it it took her like an entire week to recover.
- Took my ex about a month of frequent sex to adjust to my 6" girth.
7 x 6 " (he/him)
I'm 6" all the way with a bigger head, girls seem to like it, but anal is usually not an option
7.5” x 6” BP
issues with teeth when it comes to bjs but in general as long as I do foreplay (lots of it) I usually don’t have any problems
6.5 x 6
Some women take it all just fine, others not so much
7.5" x 6.5"
My first couldn’t make it through the middle, ever. My wife can take everything is she’s very excited, but this has only happened a handful of times without pain.
6.5x6Only had one partner who could take me to th hilt on the first go. She joked about her Vagina Cave and clearly some of her partners had complained. It was amazing for me though. In many ways the best single sex session I have had, lasted about 45 mins and I didn't cum but damn was there a lot of slamming.
- big dick problems in sex
- What girth do women prefer? 7 inch?
- she cried
- What did you first think when you found a woman who could take it all?
- Girls bleeding after sex
- How much girth is too much
- Sex can be frustrating with a big d
- Women are very curious about big Dicks
-Is having a massive cock great?
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Did your sexual partner bleed after having sex because of your big size?
Happened a few times. Couple times with my current girlfriend when we first started having sex. Also happened with an old hook up once or twice. I think it’s my girth really as my length is relatively unremarkable.
7.8" x 6"
Yep. In the last few months I’m 3/3
It's a thing.
Hasn't happened to every woman I've been with, but it can happen even if we've previously been intimate, have had plenty of foreplay, she's orgasmed, squirted, etc...
My wife bleeds everytime.
Yeah more than once
No, im bigger and never had a problem
most recent partner has been bleeding outside of their period each time we have sex despite using lube
7.75" x 6.2"
I can confirm that most do struggle with this size…
8 inches x 5.5 girth
first gf complained I was too big and left after 2 months in. She had a really small vag and 6 inches in I hit her cervix
My gf now can take about 7-7.8 inches in her.
I can hit her cervix ifni push deep and she enjoys the pain
can go all in on 75% of girls, not able on 25%
had several women struggle to handle me
huge part of my identity and lifestyle, i enjoy cock worship
Can women take 6 inch girth?
8+" × 6"
20% handled 6inch girth with ease, 80% did not
10-15% probably would prefer me thinner
50% needed lots of warmup
25% could take girth easy without warmup
7.25 x 6.38
first gf, wouldn't go in even with lube, 9 months of foreplay and toys, after all that it was still uncomfortable
happened a few times more
didn't happen after i was 25 (last 20 years)
my ex struggled, It was fine, but we both had friction burns, even with a lot of wetness. Just because of the tightness at the vulva / entrance I think.
7" x 6.5"
Taking 6 inches in the first 2-3 years of the relationship, no problem. Talk again after 10. Not that it's impossible but passion dies down, and you need a lot of foreplay every time if you want to make sure she will want it again next time.
takes more fore play and lube to make it work. shaft of my dick still starts to bend before zI can pop through.
I have a friend, who is ~6" girth that is lucky if he can have penetrative sex more than a few times per year because it physically hurts his wife, and that is with a lot of foreplay.
I’ve had sex with women where my 5.5 girth was really large to them. It also felt mega tight to me.
Other women my 5.5 girth is fine and it’s clear they could take 5.75-6.0.
7.9BP x 5.7MSG
Definately most can take 5.5 (my top)
7.3" x 6.3"
10% of women couldn't take my 6.3
18cm x 13cm
it usually takes about 5 minutes of easing into her before I get past the midpoint. 6 inches of girth would make sex impossible and nonexistent for me.
- Some can some can't.
I've had some partners that will have post coital bleeding no matter how much foreplay or lube.
8.5" x 6"
I've never had anyone complain even the slightest about my girth but about 20-30% have complained about my length.
7.5" x 6"
There's taking it and then there's enjoying it. In my experience, most can take it, but varying success with liking the size.
- But some girls can some girls can’t. Some girls can take it right away and some girls I basically can’t have sex with. And everything in between
7.2" x 5.4"
10-20% of women had a vagina that was tight enough to cause discomfort for me or her.
8” x 6.5”
Only issue I’ve ever had is putting it in a woman’s butt.
BJ is a bit of a challenge and anal is nope but she has no trouble with my girth before and after children.
have been with many women and it's rarely a problem if they are aroused and you do lots of foreplay.
7" x 6"
never had anyone complain about my girth
i always make sure to eat them out first at least 10-15 minutes
i’ve had them complain about length and certain positions we couldn’t do because of that
6.5" x 6"
Never had problems, personally.
7" x 5.5"
For some women, 6" would be amazing. For others, it would be painful even with foreplay and lube.
Boyfriend 7.5 " X 5.5
As per the data points of many BDP members in my DMs and my own boyfriend, approximately 75% of women will struggle to take a dick of the size of my boyfriend.
I get a lot of DMs from guys on this subreddit basically asking me to contact them if I ever find myself single simply because I am capable of having quickies with my boyfriend and that he is able to pound me.
In my experience (30+ partners), women can take 6" girth fairly easily if they are horny.
25% were extrememly tight and took a decent amount of prep
over 50% just slid right in
7.7”x 6” NBP
My girlfriends super tight. Can’t even get more than the head in yet
8+" × 6"
My boner sprung free and pointed right in her face. I'm usually able to make it work comfortably for my partners — it just takes work and time.
Her eyes went wide and her skin flushed as she said, "I'm sorry, but no. You're not putting that thing inside me." She grabbed her top and put it back on as she left without another word.
I've been rejected because of my size before and after that, and I get it.
7 x 5 "
I slide in, feel her breath extra deep and then I stroke gently "in" a few times. Then she jumps right off my dick.
We finished each other with hands and mouth and that was that. We did hook up again a couple of times but it was always limited to hands and mouth.
I’m 6.5 around and it is very rarely an issue. Petite ladies tend to need a little more warming up but still rare. Now some petite partners of mine would need a day break or so from soreness but they seemed to enjoy the size.
I make 3/5 sore every time we fuck. And I'm actually like 5.38girth lol. Some are sore morning after some are sore right then.
7.9BP x 5.7MSG
I've NEVER (in over two decades of sex) had issues with my girth. No one ever has said it's too thick nor that the thickness made them too sore for sex. A handful maybe commented on it
Would you change something on your cock
E: 7.4" x 6.5"
Thinner for sure. I’m almost 6.5” and I’d love to get more oral and anal. I’d give back an inch and a half in girth, no sweat.
In your experience, how much girth is too much for a woman?
8+" x 6.4"
If you are skilled at foreplay and oral and are willing to continue it for a half an hour and maybe even an hour and go very slowly with penetration, probably 6.25 inches is where problems begin.
6" x 6"
I have issues with blowjobs and even though she’s able to take it all during piv, she has to go pretty slow.
In my limited experience I'd say around 6 inches
Anything 5.5 or bigger tends to have a lot more trouble from my experience .
7" x 6" cut
I'm 6". Never had a problem.
I think everyone I've been with warms up to take it at a nice fast pace in a few minutes. It takes some time with long passionate strokes that is still very pleasurable. Maybe I got lucky.
6 inch girth
had a number of issues fitting with some women. Occasionally it didn't but overwhelmingly I've been able to fit and just have to be mindful of the speed.
5.5 inch girth
most of the time I can barely fit inside, but women seem to have a good time so I don't think it's too painful for them.
I think I’m right on the edge of where most women can take me and enjoy it. Much larger and I think a high % of the female population would complain.
I’m enough to make a girl sore for more. A couple have cited it as an issue.
6.4" x 6.7"
Some have needed lube. Others, like my current gf, need zero lube and there are zero limits on what we can do. However, I've never not been able to have piv sex with any woman.
girlfriend have been together for 3 years, a few months ago she told me that when we first met & had sex she hated it because she had never been with someone as big as me and it was just painful, but over time she adjusted to the size. Obviously “you’re the biggest I’ve ever been with” is a big compliment, but lately in certain positions, mainly missionary & doggy she is having to push against my legs or push against my chest because she can’t take the entire thing, and usually ends up bleeding afterwards. I don’t jackhammer into her, I think going slow feels the best, but it’s just really fucking annoying when I have to use basically just the tip the entire time.
7.75" x 6"
Have had a couple of "that's not going in me".
7.3” x 6.2"
I’ve slept with quite a lot of people (humble brag) and there’s been a few times I’ve had problems when it comes to penis in vagina and most of them came down to lack of prep, take one night stands for instance there might be times where you don’t have lube with you or the person you’re sleeping with wants to skip the foreplay and then you can be in for some difficulties, saying that if you have/use lube and make sure everyone is warmed up before penetration I’m sure you won’t have a ton of difficulties, when you are thicker you gotta take things slower ‘quickies’ are not an option, Theres been a few times I’ve had trouble fitting and One of my ex’s said they didn’t enjoy sex due to the size of my dick but those experiences are heavily outweighed by the good experiences
handful who were too intimidated to try, but outside of that it’s pretty positive.
The only thing I haven’t really been able to do a lot in anal.
8.875" x 6.75"
with a little time, foreplay, & lube I've only had a handful of women who just couldn't make it fit vaginally.
Sometimes those ladies could switch to oral or even anal in some cases (which was mind-blowing).
That said, there have been many to tapout AFTER insertion but I don't think that's only due to cock size, the duration of the session matters too & unfortunately it usually takes me a very long time to cum.
8" x 7"
only 2 women could not take it
8.25" x 6" Daddy/Dom/Sadist
never had an issue
8" BP x 6.25"
never had a girl I couldn't fit into. You have to go slow, she has to breathe, lube has to be there
I would be pounding her like no tomorrow after no more than 5-10 minute.
all wanted to handle it the same way: 1 inch in, half inch out, 1 inch more, half inch out, until you're all the way in
Partner ended up bleeding
few nights ago my partner asked me to go rougher on doggy than usual. So I did, and she ended up bleeding everywhere. You also experienced that?
8" x 5.75"
Happened to me a lot
8” x 6.8”
had this happen
Sometimes i wish i was smaller
had double digit sexual partners and the same comment I always get is "it's too big" or "you're too deep" and honestly I'm a little tired of it. My attitude went from more "take this dick" to "this is a lil annoying". I love deep strokes and going fast but the more I do, the more I think I might actually be hurting somebody.
sometimes wish I could just take off an inch or 3/2 so I can fuck as hard a long as I want. ??♂️
9 x 6.5"
I've had girls flat out refuse. Or tap out.
married now, even she can't take it rough. Just try to get it in, and she just lays there and shakes. Not allowed to move really. And no doggy, or her on top neither.
8+" x 6.4"
had two GF's break up with me because of the size of my dick.
women do tend to tell theor friends about their partners size in private, I don't know how common this is, but it is the main reason I got so many hookups in university
One of my Ex's seems to have told the entire world about my size.... within a month of her breaking up with me, girls were hitting me up left and right.
8.5" x 6.5"
yes. the rumor got around about me at one of my high-schools and let's just say it was great marketing ?
In college, I had a FWB and GF who both spoke on me. When we ended our situations, several women from our friend groups approached me saying they'd heard about my size.
My first FWB did. I went from having virtually zero sex to literally having to turn girls down. She told her friends, who contacted me and we had sex. I initially think that it was 5 or 6 girls. Once they tried it the came back for more and told other friends. Some of them tried and told others, and so it went on. That was a crazy time.
Turns out she told her sister, 2 cousins and a few of her friends how big my dick is and how much I made her cum.. In the span of 6 months most of them came to my room to verify if it's true or not..
BP 8.25” x 6.75”
I had sex with one girl on the rugby team and then realized I eventually ended up with three others. It wasn’t on purpose and one of them actually told me after a while I was known as Mr. BigDick to them.
6.75 x 6.5
I’m 6.75” long and 6.5” thick. In my experience, girls love the girth.
How many women can take more than 7 inches length?
8+" × 6"
~15% can handle 7"
had 20ish women, and all but one was able to take my 8-8.5 inches balls deep
7 x 5.5
been with over 60 women (age 47) and only ever had minimal issues with 2 of the 50
Only one girl I’ve been with couldn’t take me all the way
up to this point i’ve been with 13 women, and have only gotten one REAL complaint about size.
7.9x7.1" - 20x18cm
I've been with about ~90 women all in all. The vast majority hasn't mentioned size at all. Some have, but I can't remember anyone saying that size made a huge difference in having an orgasm. My current primary partner has said that she used to have a problem orgasming from PIV but doesn't with me. If that's due to size, maybe. She is by far the girl I've been with that have been most vocal about my size.
Is having a massive cock great?
8 x 6
I’m a bit over 6, and it is a struggle for blowjobs, and pretty much anything else. I like my size but it comes with its challenges
7" x 5"
Yeah sometimes i wish i was a bit thicker, but ive only found 1 girl willing to let me fuck her ass so i think thicker would only come with more problems. Plus ive never had any complaints about sise so i dont think its really an issue.
It just depends on the woman. Some see it as a challenge to take on, some know that it's way too much for them and wouldn't enjoy it. I will say that generally speaking though, it is appealing.
some are nervous of fear, some of excitement
6.9" x 5.1"
I mean, no. Insecurities still exist; it doesn't help my confidence or anything. It's more like a nice addition to life. Women aren't hypnotized or transfixed or anything, usually just a "wow!" here and there
The amount of problems we have had because of the length is just fucking stupid. Shit gets awkward when you have to tell the doctors your husband can feel the iud and it’s getting fucked up during sex. Shit gets annoying when she starts bleeding again after birth even even though I’m not ramming her cervix. Shit gets annoying when she gets excited and bounces a little to low. Imagine being just above average and never having to worry about depth no more slow entries no more 35 minute “quickies”. I’m not saying it’s a burden but goddamn BDP are real.
Some are nervous, some are turned on. Most are a bit of both.
Its such a turn on seing them reacting to it.
I would say that it is a HUGE benefit to my sex life for the reasons you say. Majority of women will at least be intrigued/turned on to try. Id say overall that is the experience Ive had. I definitely sleep with FAR more attractive women than I deserve and Id say my dick size contributes to that, at least based on their reactions.
21 cm x 15 cm
It always begins with compliments and wooing, then the problems begin, they complain it hurts and etc, the next thing you ynow you're blocked from all her social accounts.
8" x 5.5"
In regards to women and sex I can usually see they like it the first time they see it, but I get more issues with condoms than most people, tried anal a couple of times and then never again, bjs are sometimes painful if they can't open their jaws wide enough and they get their jaws tired so they aren't a frequent thing, I need to be very gentle so I don't cause pain or even hurt them, and in many cases I really need to prep that pussy before having entry.
I wouldn't change it, but it def has it's cons.
Have you ever been unable to completely fit in a woman?
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Have you ever been unable to completely fit in a woman?
7.7”x 6” NBP
Yeah but instead of unable to completely fit, completely unable to fit like not even the tip would go in.
7" x 6"
It’s been mostly successful, but I’ve had probably about 5 or so girls that couldn’t take me balls deep. Most girls vaginas are only about 5-6” when fully aroused. One of my exes would get super wet and only about 1/2 or 3/4’s of me would go in to her. She was super tiny overall though, like 4’8.
7" x 6"
about 9% asked me to hold back
8+" x 6.5+”
I wasn’t able to put the tip into my my first gf. I was so bummed. Tried everything but it just wasn’t happening. She was in too much pain.
8+" × 6"
It can be frustrating, but any guy with a large penis, experience, and half a brain should learn to adapt relatively quickly. Every woman is different so we have to learn each one's limits, but simply holding back on thrust depth or adding a depth buffer like an OhNut make it tolerable.
And tbh, whether I'm only putting half of my dick in or burying it to the hilt, the visual's always hot as fuck.
23cm x 15.5cm
I feel it’s more of a problem if you don’t like your cervix being hit cause then we have to be very careful. To avoid the pain you can play with angles that don’t directly hit the cervix and positions that don’t allow us to insert full length.
8 x 6.5, subhuman degenerate thug
I'm used to maybe having an inch left over or just needing to be careful, but if they can't take the girth there's nothing you can do.
I'm at about 6.25" girth and almost every girl I've been with really loved it. I've only been with one who was kind of uncomfortable with it. She could take it, but she'd be kind of sore afterward.
8 x 6"
I had a girl that couldn't fit the last inch before. She was losing her mind over being full so it was a good time
8.7" x 6"
about 90% of them i could NOT fit all the way inside of. some were down to try, others nope'd out pretty fast. my current gf took about 5 months of intensive stretching and training to get her pussy loose enough for my entire cock to fit inside of.
7" x 5.5"
I've had that issue a few times. The first time it happens it's a confidence boost "I'm so big it doesn't fit" but it can be frustrating sometimes, you really like a girl and want to get completely inside her, but it doesn't fit. Don't get me wrong sex still being awesome but it's like you stay with that unscratched spot
7" x 5.5”
Never had an issue
my last ex.
I literally couldn't get in at all and when she finally started to get me in, it hurt and she stopped trying for the night. And she was plenty wet too and I still used lube.
She had to practice with a dildo for a little while before she could practice taking me.
Due to my girth, when I was younger, and was fucking girls in their teens and early 20's it happened alot. Ethier, it flat out wouldn't fit, like the head would barely go in, or we had to stop after a minute or two of penetration.
As I got older, I started looking for women who already had kids. I almost always would fit in them. It still takes lots of foreplay, and I always have lube in my car.
ive been able to go balls deep on every girl ive had sex with. what i have noticed tho like with the first girl i ever did it with, it would hurt her really bad for the first few weeks. most other girls the same.
8" x 6"
I can’t remember a time where it wouldn’t go all in except when girth was the problem
Most women I can not bottom out in.
7" x 5"
I've never had any problems fitting into a woman. Comfortably fitting for her is another issue. My current girlfriend can take it all, but it hurts her a little to do so... but she's quite the masochist so she wants me to do it anyways.
I felt bad. I know she was exaggerating cuz she said it felt like it was in her chest during missionary, but she said it was painful and didn’t want me to be on top or in doggy anymore. So…. I had very plain her on top sex that I got quite bored with. We didn’t continue dating after that.
Luckily found a girl who not only enjoys getting her cervix slammed but told me she never felt that before and is crazy for sex with me. Can’t complain
7" x 5.5"
Never had a problem
most women can take all of me. But what I think is happening is the cervix is ~6” from the opening, I’m hitting the cervix and pushing it higher (stretching the vagina).
So what ends up happening is if we have sex more frequently, the woman begins to realize this makes them quite sore. So I’ll adjust penetration so I’m just barely reach the end.
~8" long BPL
I rarely fit all the way. I enjoy trying if they enjoy it too. But honestly, I've had just as many experiences with people who tapped out because it was too much / painful.
I don't have to go all the way in to feel good, but it IS hard to restrain myself and keep from hurting people if they don't like their cervix smashed.
current GF was a virgin before me. It took us 3.5 months of making her comfortable and working her in before we could have sex
Similar to some other guys who posted (I'm maybe 7.5" or so) I regularly hit the cervix. This has generally been OK - if the lady is aroused she usually doesn't mind. However I feel bad about it if it hurts her, which makes me go soft and difficult to continue. The wince of pain, or the yelp as she tries to pull away (most common with doggy style), all makes me feel bad.
Yes, not fun when you have to pull out because it hurts her. Sometimes just need to be gentle and not be so aggressive so she can ease into. Doggy can be a real problem when she can’t take it and bottoming out on the cervix.
7" x 5"
girls that are tight to the point that they are in pain and not in a fun way and that is neither hot nor fun, but generally if they are willing to do it a few more times and patient they will be able to take it deep enough and enjoy it.
Experience of guy with 7.5 x 6 inch
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My dick is about 7.5 inches BP and about 6 Inches thick. Large but by no means extreme.
I have had some difficulty in sex enjoying it and being in the moment. I am unable to “bottom out” or use my dick to its full extent without causing pain with every woman I have been with. I have been to gynaecologist with two partners to discuss options and lube and foreplay are the only solutions. One girl did have a condition though which caused sex to be painful with everyone. I don’t get aroused hurting the girls I sleep with. I tend to overcompensate with this insecurity by focusing on foreplay a lot and actually limiting penetration to 10 minutes or so. The thing is this isn’t fulfilling to me.
I do enjoy sex but having to micromanage my technique and constantly check in with the girl to make sure she is fine makes it feel like work. I believe pornography has given me an unrealistic expectation of a way to have pleasurable sex with woman going “balls deep” and because I cannot make this unrealistic expectation reality I am disappointed. I have stopped watching porn and masturbation to reduce the impact this might have.
How do you have sex without it becoming a routine? Should I hold out for a partner that matches my biology better? I am also worried that girls wait/fight thru the pain or discomfort to make me cum which turns me off as-well. I know woman feel pressured to be performative during sex. I struggle to enjoy sex if the girl is uncomfortable.
I guess I don’t trust the girls enough, and worried they are pretending to be okay to appease me.
From the girls I have slept with they always say the sex for them was good and I was considerate. If I had to give a review I would say it was lacklustre for me. Girl’s jaw struggle with giving blowjobs and I don’t feel free during sex.
How do you handle this mentality?
TLDR; The micromanagement of good sex for girls conflicts with what good sex for me is.
Edit1: My desire is to feel free during sex not like a performance piece.
Reasons i hate haveing a large penis
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Reasons i hate haveing a large penis
7.25 x 5.2
Some positions are a no go and even through an extensive hoe phase I’ve only had one woman who could go balls deep.
have not had sex in 2 years and never been able to fit it in a girl… man… what a waste
At a certain size, it's like every girl is a virgin - sounds great on paper but sucks in reality. Getting them 'hot and ready' only does so much. And some positions are just off the table forever, eg no human pretzel and no jackhammering
8.3 x 6.2"
Can’t fit in many people, and hookups usually end in mutual disappointment/embarrassment.
"7.5 x 5.5 "
Glad I got a big dick not gonna complain
8.4" x 6.2"
I would give up a bit of size if I could.
8” x 6.5”
7.9" x 6.8"
(gay) I can't say I "hate" having a large penis, but it's definitely meant that a good percentage of asses I bang just can't take it. It's meant that I've mostly resorted to either receiving, or just doing other stuff. Feel like I've missed out TBH.
Not always hating it, but when you're with a girl who has a shallow vag and you hit her cervix and cant enjoy it, or when it hurts her and you cant do anything with her
8" x 6"
I just don't like hurting people. No matter how much foreplay there is, how much lube we use, and how slow I go, like 70% of guys I've been with didn't enjoy it. And it's no fun for either of us if I'm having to move at a snails pace the whole time
8.75” x 6.5”
Past girlfriends had difficulty with girth.
7.8BP x 5.7MSG
The ONLY time I've thought "would be cool to be small" is when getting sucked off
GF cant handle my circumference. I cant even put half my dick inside her. This makes sex meh for me. It hurts her.
What do I do? Vast majority of my partners were the same, they just said it was uncomfortable.
7.1" x 6"
Lots of lube , lots of foreplay. Maybe that won't be enough if you're really unlucky - I have the same girth and with my most recent ex it just wouldn't go no matter what. In my case it really soured the relationship so be aware and talk about the problem with your gf. But in 90% of the cases even with our girth, lube and foreplay should work
8.2 x 6.0
Recently had the exact same problem here bud it’s difficult ?
6 inches of girth - bless or curse?
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In my fantasy in youth or something i imagined having a giant Cock - and whooping it out and women being absolutely positively amazed by it.
Now i think: This effect happens when there is a sizequeen and i have an enourmous penis. I think this would be a penis that is far bigger than the ideal penis of the average women for how it feels vaginal. I think giant penisses are especially pleasing to look at.
I think the average of the ideal penis (best feeling) for women for vaginal sex is not super impressively big visually. As written in the first posts, the average of the bestselling dildos is 12.7cm Girth (5 inches), and the study with 75 women choosing out of 33 wooden models also had their ideal Girth at 12.7cm (5 inches). The top 34% of men have 5 inches Girth or more. Women ideally wanting what the top 1/3rd of men have seems kinda reasonable evolutionary.
And 'average of ideal' still means about 50% women would like it smaller, 50% would like it bigger, just that theoretically i would be most in the 'goldilocks' zone.
5.5 inches is top 10% Girth, and reading many experiences of men, that's where bad effects of size start to happen more and more. (Many report problems, some say they hardly ever have problems, you can read the reddit threads)
Problems i read of that bigger men have:
- Having to be careful when putting it in first (no quickies), *always* having to warm up.. imagine having to warm up 30min every single time.. and if i don't she has painful face on and kind of stops me with hand
I imagine loving a girl and she is in uncomfortable pain whenever i put my Dick in her. And i have to warmup and then 'hope' it works now.. sounds bad.
- Cannot enter fully: I don't have this problem, i can always push in full now with my length 6.1 inches, and i like that
- Rough sex (fast pounding) is not welcome: I like fucking hard.. and i am ok if she taps out for a pause after 10min
- She can only take a certain amount of time of penetration and i would like to do it longer: I think i can handle her tapping out after 10minutes for a pause (in fact i think i like that), when we can do two other rounds later, i guess that's the perfect amount of 'too big Dick'. And i imagine it's tedious if i can do only a little penetration.
- She bleeds when i penetrate vaginally:
That sounds bad, wondering about if i hurt her, wondering about 'will it happen again this time', also mess for the bedsheets
- Vagina felt so tight, that it was uncomfortable for you: I never had that, i like tightness.. my gf complained about pain but i could still have her pussy tighter, hm
- She is sore in days after vaginal penetration: I think i could handle that, especially me being not monogamous, and i heard there is a little danger long term her being out of honeymoon phase her not being soo motivated to have sex anyway, and then her remembering that her pussy hurts for 3 days if she does sex again
- She refused to try vaginal penetration:
Never had that, and that is like the opposite what i would want - i would want women lusting after me mooore me having a bigger Dick, not losing cute tiny girls saying 'nah, you don't even put that in me'. I am thankful of never having 'lost' out of penetration that way.
- Oral doesn't work properly: I don't care so much about oral
- Anal (not trying because of size, stopping it, hurting..): I like anal a lot, i guess i like the fact that i feel 'big' there, cause it's harder to entry, it feels tighter, i have to be slower first, she stops.. and at the end in the best case i can still fuck her reasonably fast and hard
And i lost a girl's anal access in the last round. So that's where my 'bad effects' start now. Edit: lost a second woman doing anal. The anal was sooo good for me. And she said later she really hurt for a while. Third girl taps out sooner at anal now.
And i guess i could have that same effect vaginally if i would be bigger - needing to warmup more, needing to be slower, hopefully being able to speed up later
And i guess that's practical about having a 'larger hole' and a 'smaller hole'
- (Not a problem) she made some comment implying that it's big: That is just great and fantastic, and i guess that's great about having a bigger Dick, and the bigger i would be the more i would get it
Comments to everything in this thread welcome