Firstly, there was a study that suggested 75% of women don\'t orgasm on penetration alone, so don\'t put so much stock into it. Penetration is definitely desired, but there are more ways than one to get a woman off.
Secondly, I agree with others here, I wouldn\'t introduce a strap-on AT ALL. Maybe if you were in a long term relationship and have established a comfortable sexual relationship, those avenues could be explored. But for hookups and such, highly recommend against it.
Thirdly, most women aren\'t looking to get ravaged by 8x6 dildos, this belief may have come from watching porn??
You need to focus on your penile health first and foremost. Throw the instant-gratification attitude out the window and buckle down for a long road ahead. It may mean less pursuit of vagina in the short term, but if you put in the time to improve your
Erection and maybe even regain some of your lost size, you\'ll come out on top...
Like Hunky pointed out, it\'s the way you carry yourself that\'ll get the most out of sex...confidence and good health. Focus on yourself now, develop a positive attitude and cut back on porn consumption if that\'s something you do often. Heck, cut back on forum consumption too...you need to end the mind fuck and embrace a more optimistic outlook. Good luck.