TOPIC: Sex ONCE a Month

Mustang2020 wrote:

Lilaforlife wrote:

Sick Boy wrote: Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

I\'m not sure if you meant attractive or attracted to my husband but I\'ll go with what you said. I\'m an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me. At least like 3-4 times a day would\'ve been ideal. For many years though we did it once every month or 2....and not by my choosing. It\'s better now though thank god!

WOW...you stayed with him for many years with sex once a month and you wanted it 3-4 times a day and you are attractive? OK, what does he have other than low sex drive that kept you from leaving him being such a sexual woman? Intelligent minds want to know

Honestly he was the first guy I\'ve been with sexually and I really think that has a lot to do with it. I\'m 24 and we\'ve been together 9 years. Other than that him being a good man with a sense of humor really made me want to stay. I hoped one day he would change and it took 9 years but he has. He\'s still not on my level and I don\'t think he ever will be but thats okay

Lilaforlife wrote:

Sick Boy wrote: Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

I\'m not sure if you meant attractive or attracted to my husband but I\'ll go with what you said. I\'m an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me. At least like 3-4 times a day would\'ve been ideal. For many years though we did it once every month or 2....and not by my choosing. It\'s better now though thank god!

WOW...you stayed with him for many years with sex once a month and you wanted it 3-4 times a day and you are attractive? OK, what does he have other than low sex drive that kept you from leaving him being such a sexual woman? Intelligent minds want to know

Sick Boy wrote: Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

I\'m not sure if you meant attractive or attracted to my husband but I\'ll go with what you said. I\'m an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me. At least like 3-4 times a day would\'ve been ideal. For many years though we did it once every month or 2....and not by my choosing. It\'s better now though thank god!

Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

This sounds like me and my husband except with opposite rolls. I have a sex drive to rival them all. In fact its higher than any female Ive ever met and higher than most males Ive encountered as well. He however, has a drastically lower sex drive than me.... Ie I would do it a few times a day minimum and he would prefer to do it once every few months if it was up to him....That changed though when I left him and since Ive been back he\'s wanted me more than ever. So maybe this girl just needs a big wakeup call?

You sir are God\'s gift to women.

Teach us

You both misunderstood me.

The Fear I am talking about is based on emotions of her losing me. I would never hit a woman, nor I ever had. She fears me because she is highly attracted to me. That\'s my game and that\'s why I am lucky with women when it comes to sex.

Next time you date a woman measure her interest level in you. If she is highly attracted to you, she will give you pussy anytime without complain or issues. If she is not (50 percent interest or less) she will find a million ways to say no, to test you. .. and it will get worst if you act like beta, nice guy with her. Your fate will become the mirror image of the poor guy in the first post and or she will torture you (not give you pussy) until she drops you for another dude.

It\'s your call when it comes to relationships, women like strong guys to submit to.

Nice response Hulk. I was also hoping this was an act, but is seems it is genuine. Seriously though Sick Boy, if you are in a relationship based on fear you need to consider getting some professional help. If the person you are with is just \'holes\' to you, then you should have just stayed single and found like minded people to screw. I feel sorry for your wife.

Man I love it when the love of my life fears me. That makes me so hard.

Sometimes I hit her just to let her feel the power in teh jab......

Seriously what\'s your problem guy?

The woman I am presently with, I treat with lots of respect and she does to me. She is a sweetheart but when I get upset she fears me. Never in my life I had a sex problem with her, never.

Sick Boy wrote: FUCK IF I AM GOING TO MARRY someone that asexual, that will be the stupidest decision I will ever do in my life. My bitch has to fuck, whenever I am ready, if she can\'t fuck due to her period or rare case scenario abortion she has two other holes ready for me. I am happy with oral sex and I will butt fuck the crap out of her forever.

A guy like that (OP posting) is such a fucking wimp, pussy whopped he actually deserves to get pussy once a month. I bet she does it to manipulate him, worst case scenario she already has another dude banging her ass.

I already wrote about this. \"Women want a strong man to submit to\" They hate wimps (no backbone), Woman think nice guys are the equivalent of the miniature puppy dog or worst. What that guy needs to do is grow his cojones and be a man. That\'s why my answer to him was deleted. He needs to tell his fiancee about his needs not writing this stuff online in a forum hoping for answers he doesn\'t want to hear. If I was him, the very first time this woman attempts not to give me pussy I will dump her right there for testing my manhood. Get very pissed and tell her: \"No woman is ever going to manipulate me with sex period!!!! We are done, move on!!!\".

TRUST ME, If she has over 50 percent interest in you, she will give you sex, she will forgive you and never ever again this topic will become an issue in your relationship. If she says no, don\'t let your ego blind you. This woman has very low interest in you. Her interest level is less than 50 percent. Don\'t try to resolve or waste your time with this woman. Dump her ass and move on.

Is this a character act or your genuine attitude towards women?

FUCK IF I AM GOING TO MARRY someone that asexual, that will be the stupidest decision I will ever do in my life. My bitch has to fuck, whenever I am ready, if she can\'t fuck due to her period or rare case scenario abortion she has two other holes ready for me. I am happy with oral sex and I will butt fuck the crap out of her forever.

A guy like that (OP posting) is such a fucking wimp, pussy whopped he actually deserves to get pussy once a month. I bet she does it to manipulate him, worst case scenario she already has another dude banging her ass.

I already wrote about this. \"Women want a strong man to submit to\" They hate wimps (no backbone), Woman think nice guys are the equivalent of the miniature puppy dog or worst. What that guy needs to do is grow his cojones and be a man. That\'s why my answer to him was deleted. He needs to tell his fiancee about his needs not writing this stuff online in a forum hoping for answers he doesn\'t want to hear. If I was him, the very first time this woman attempts not to give me pussy I will dump her right there for testing my manhood. Get very pissed and tell her: \"No woman is ever going to manipulate me with sex period!!!! We are done, move on!!!\".

TRUST ME, If she has over 50 percent interest in you, she will give you sex, she will forgive you and never ever again this topic will become an issue in your relationship. If she says no, don\'t let your ego blind you. This woman has very low interest in you. Her interest level is less than 50 percent. Don\'t try to resolve or waste your time with this woman. Dump her ass and move on.

Some people are truly asexual. They don\'t think about sex and don\'t really need it.

I cannot fathom such an existence but then again I am an extremely sexual person. If I am not having sex I am masterbating.


That Being said, if I was in that relationship I would be cheating my ass off.

It doesn\'t sound like she is willing to compromise which indicates that she isn\'t too concerned with his needs - not a good sign of a healthy relationship at all.

that\'s not going to work out for them