TOPIC: Sex ONCE a Month

It doesn\'t sound like she is willing to compromise which indicates that she isn\'t too concerned with his needs - not a good sign of a healthy relationship at all.

that\'s not going to work out for them

Mustang2020 wrote:

Lilaforlife wrote:

Sick Boy wrote: Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

I\'m not sure if you meant attractive or attracted to my husband but I\'ll go with what you said. I\'m an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me. At least like 3-4 times a day would\'ve been ideal. For many years though we did it once every month or 2....and not by my choosing. It\'s better now though thank god!

WOW...you stayed with him for many years with sex once a month and you wanted it 3-4 times a day and you are attractive? OK, what does he have other than low sex drive that kept you from leaving him being such a sexual woman? Intelligent minds want to know

Honestly he was the first guy I\'ve been with sexually and I really think that has a lot to do with it. I\'m 24 and we\'ve been together 9 years. Other than that him being a good man with a sense of humor really made me want to stay. I hoped one day he would change and it took 9 years but he has. He\'s still not on my level and I don\'t think he ever will be but thats okay