TOPIC: Excuses for New Size Lets Hear Em

This actually comes into play for me. I don\'t really want to have to explain a sudden .5-.75\" Girth increase so I have actually been putting off girls that would be more than a one-nighter. That may be crazy, espcially if it ends up where I don\'t get PMMA for whatever reason.

@briceb
Yeah, I did that right before my first session. We wound up just holding hands during several dates although we both wanted to go at it. It took some doing to explain how it would be best to wait. From this and some comments I made about another girl who was a size queen into well endowed men, she concluded that I must be small and called my red sports car \"your penis\" saying most guys have them as a form of compensation.
I will see her again in a couple of weeks and this time I hope some collagen will have kicked in so that she\'ll discover me closer to my final configuration. First this means I will be more likely to please her as a first impression, and also it will make for less explaining to do. And maybe even it will better dispel her impression that I\'m some micro-penis victim. So there we have it, us guys going for PE having to do without... just to get some lol.
HC

I know my wife would talk me out of PMMA so I am not telling her. We just had our 3rd kid so sex is few and far between right now so I think I am safe there. Once she does see it I was thinking of telling her I have been stretching or milking it. Although chances are I am going to spring it on her and see if she notices it.

You guys can call me a \"weirdo\" if you like, but I have never been one to be ashamed of admitting that I \"mess with\" my penis. In fact, honesty for me anyway, has proven to be the best policy. Even when I was dating. This one girl I used to date LOVED that I did PE. In fact, she would often request that I clamped and/or pumped before we would get together. She loved the stretch and being filled up. The biggest Girth I ever gave that girl was right at 7\" after doing some Clamping and then pumping. It\'s MY penis, I do what I want to it. Just like I would never tell my wife she could not have some sort of cosmetic surgery. It\'s her body.

Dangle-
I am a genuinely nice person so bear that in mind as I respond to what you said.
Not telling your wife and then lying to her is a TERRIBLE IDEA. You are taking the situation to a whole new level. Do not be surprised if you do this, get a good result, lie to her, she believes you and then WHAMO!
Someone (you or her) finds out or changes their mind and you are forced to (or choose to) spill the beans. She will likely be more upset about you lying to her than anything else. Relationships are built on trust. Show her (and yourself) the respect a relationship that has endured three children deserves.
Am I saying to tell her at an inappropriate time? No. Am I saying if she says its stupid that you have to then stop? No. Communicate. God for bid something goes wrong. Can you imagine having a problem? As RKC or Whitesnake or me. Do you know how you will feel if you can\'t go to the person who is there to support you and love you in good times or bad? If you have problem, and then she finds out, she cuts you off emotionally or worse divorces. Then you have problems on top of problems.
Do yourself a favor. Include her in the process. Think it through first. Lay out the reasons, but focus on her objections. Do you need to hear her say them to prepare for what you will say in return? No. Anticipate her objections. Then, in the end, if she still objects you should consider two possibilities: (1) she is right or (2) she is not listening to you enough and pushing her own agenda onto you.
I hope you do whatever the TWO of you decide. You are taking a risk with the procedure. Do not risk your relationship at the same time bud.
Nomad1

You are proably right and I am sure I just taking the easy way. Another big reason is that we just don\'t talk about this kind of stuff so it would be an amazingly unconfortable converstation to start. I have no problem telling her its something I want to do and I would tell her afterward for sure. I\'ll take your advise and give it some thought. Thanks.

@ Dangle - I had the same issue as you, very uncomfortable conversation to start. I finally did talk with my wife about my issues with my size over a year ago and told her that I intended on doing something about it. I started with manual PE, pumping, etc... I explained to her that my size issues have bothered me for quite some time and explained to her what the \"average\" penis size is and how I relate to that scale and why it bothers me so much. Then I found Dr. Runels, I talked with her about that and told her what I planned on doing. Showed her the research to date, etc... Again she was supportative and told me to do what I needed to do. We were both somewhat disappointed in the results, but she did notice a difference. The last conversation I had with her was this weekend about my upcoming PMMA appointment. She was a bit more nervous about this option, but after thinking about it, told me to go ahead and do what I need to do to be happy. She does want to know more about it, so I e-mailed Dr. C and got a password for their before and after pics. I have also showed her a few things from this site. Basically I have been pretty open with her about the whole process. She was more understanding than I thought she would be at first. Part of it is that she has her own body image issues, so she can understand where I\'m coming from also. I think that once I\'m \"done\" she will probably look at doing a few things herself. I know she has wanted to get a tummy tuck and boob lift (kids are pretty hard on the body) so I\'m sure we will be doing something about that in the future. Be open with your wife, it is uncomfortable and not a fun conversation the first time around, but it helps in the long run.

I accidentally stepped on mine !

Here\'s an update. I am going in to see Dr. C later this week so I waited until this last Saturday because I really wasn\'t looking forward to it.Happy to report that I had the talk and she was super cool about it. She just asked how big is it going to be? To which I replied, how big do you want it? So I guess I\'ll be asking for 20%... and she said she gets to have a boob job in a year. This is costing me a fortune!

Good to hear that she is being supportive. She will get to enjoy your new toy and then you have new toys to play with later. Good trade off!

Excuse for PMMA imperfections, ridges, nodules, etc.

\"I was injured in a car accident years ago and have a build up of scar tissue.\"

Hey, Notsure.....I agree with what you say: Whatever works works...
BTW, your results are impressive.
Good luck.

Thanks UncleJJ, I appreciate it!

I accidentally stepped on mine !

Reminds me of a famous joke spoken by a pornstar, I think it was Ron Jeremy (a truly funny guy), when asked about his penis size:


\"Three inches ... from the ground.\"

Did you see when Ron Jeremy guest starred on \"The Weakest Link\"? It was hilarious the host was poking fun of him for his height. His response was awesome!

Anne: \"You\'re not all that tall.\"Ron: \"I am when I\'m lying down...\"

Gotta love that hedgehog!