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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274035184

Thanks SO and Hoddle, for the prompt feedback. Good point about few PE surgeons but my sense is that this is at least in part due to the lack of FDA approval. Still a great point to consider nonetheless.

By the way, if Rosenthal performs 6 surgeries per week (as stated on the Dr Drew show, and consistent with him telling me that he has done >5000 allo/Bella surgeries over 20 yrs), why doesn\'t he publish the comprehensive results in a medical journal? Is it likely that the number of procedures is significantly exaggerated?

Hoddle, I have discussed this extensively with my wife and while she\'s not in favor of the idea, she is supportive. Perhaps because she is having breast enlargement at the end of the year

Max

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274035020

hoddle10 wrote: You should ask Dr Rosenthal why only 5 surgeons in the entire US do these surgeries given the massive demand. Over 4000 plastic surgeons perform boob jobs, so why do so few choose to do penis enlargement?

That\'s actually a good question. Seriously, you should ask him Maximus.
And as for PMMA, well your best bet is to continue reading and draw your own conclusions. I can\'t argue with the desire for wanting a \"snugger fit,\" heck, much of my desire to gain Girth (other than simply attaining normalcy) is to finally feel \"some snugness\" when having sex. Our Moderator M7 can relate, as his decision to entertain Girth enhancement was similar to yours (his background is much different, however, and he\'s had to deal with Peyronie\'s for much of his latter adult life).
Hoddle makes a good point too...when undergoing Phalloplasty, many times you are putting the very sexual function of your penis at jeopardy. So weighing out the pros & cons are huge! Whatever it is you decide to do in the end, be sure you do so as an informed decision maker. It also wouldn\'t hurt to speak to your wife about it, at least in my opinion.

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274034838

Don\'t have surgery. You are happily married and there is no point risking your future in pursuit of vanity.

You should ask Dr Rosenthal why only 5 surgeons in the entire US do these surgeries given the massive demand. Over 4000 plastic surgeons perform boob jobs, so why do so few choose to do penis enlargement?

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274036569

Hoddle10Just a question- If a man feels the need to increase his Girth or length, is it your feeling that he should not proceed?

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274036604

Maximus wrote: Hoddle, why so dismissive of someone who has had the surgery (richard) and has firsthand experience?


I wouldn\'t be dismissive he was talking about his surgical experience, but that wasn\'t the case. Suggesting you shouldn\'t pay attention to others opinions is quite frankly absurd. As is suggesting other peoples views should be taken very lightly.

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274036630

richard wrote: Hoddle10Just a question- If a man feels the need to increase his Girth or length, is it your feeling that he should not proceed?


If there were consistently reliable and safe methods to increase the length and Girth, then in most cases I\'d advise him to as he pleases. However, things aren\'t that simple as the current techniques have a very poor track record and the consequences of a bad result can be utterly devastating.

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274055421

Maximus wrote: Just for the sake of discussion...

I fully agree with the comments that PE surgery carries significant risk and there have been many reports of serious problems (especially FFT and Ellist implant). On the other hand, I\'ve heard of more positive than negative reports (albeit few overall) on Rosenthal and Belladerm.

What if he doesn\'t publish his results simply because he doesn\'t need to? If he averages 6 surgeries per week at $10K, why advertise? In fact, publication of successful results may encourage other docs to jump on the bandwagon. The default answer seems to be that docs don\'t publish PE surgery outcomes because of the negative aspects, however I wonder if it\'s reasonable think about it from the opposite perspective.

Not suggesting this is what I believe, just curious about what others think of the idea.

Max



How many people on this site do we know who have had surgery with Rosenthal? I\'d say roughly 10 and not many long term cases. Rondo I think is the longest and his graft started to decline after 8 years, though he was very happy with it. Smartman and his friend Silicone Disaster both saw their grafts from Rosenthal fully absorb in less than a year. Yardstick saw his graft virtually fully absorb in less than a year. Soma went from 6.1\" to 5.8\" in the first year. This year he\'s obviously lost a similar amount as after 2 PMMA treatments he\'s 6\". So how long will it be until his graft fully absorbs? Nomad had problems with his first surgery and had to have the grafts removed. He then hinted at problems with the new graft, but deleted his posts. In fact other than Kingpol (sp?) do we know of any longer term Rosenthal patients who haven\'t seen their graft absorb having had the surgery for more than 2 years?
I don\'t have a problem with the guy, but these grafts don\'t have a great track record. I\'ve been following the PE industry for years and if dermal matrix grafts really were the answer I\'d be delighted. If there really was a safe and consistent way to enlarge the penis, by simply grafting donor tissue, it would be amazing news, but there isn\'t and the reason others aren\'t doing it isn\'t because Rosenthal hasn\'t published his brilliant results.
In other areas of plastic surgery these grafts are often described as semi permanent and expected to last between 2 and 10 years. There will be cases that last longer than 10 years and as we\'ve seen with our members here, cases that last last less than 2 years. Rosenthal saying they are permanent is a bit misleading in my opinion. In some applications (other areas of the body) they might be, but clearly not the penis.
When you consider the very real risks of infection, shortening, curvature and loss of sensitivity, then you have to ask is it worth the risk for a surgery that on average will last about 5 years? As you say it costs $10,000 and unless the members of this forum and numerous plastic surgeons are lying, it isn\'t permanent and of course there are serious risks involved with surgery.
If you had a micro penis that made having sex difficult or were suffering from truly debilitating self esteem issues because of your penis, then there is a good argument that it is worth the risk. But in your case, don\'t you have too much to lose. I understand how you feel and really meant it when I said I\'d be delighted if there was a consistently effective and safe way to enlarge the penis, as it would change my life. But there just isn\'t. Because you so badly want a bigger penis it sounds like you are trying to convince yourself that it\'s a good decision to have it done, when really you know it isn\'t. I know what it\'s like as I\'ve done it myself. Voices of reason such as mine are probably incredibly irritating and I know when i was researching enlargement options I did my best to filter them out.



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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274054673

Richard your next post is post 69, don\'t disappoint.

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274054589

I had a business for 30 years and yes did run ads.. For 5 of our 30 years.. After that we survived by word of mouth which is the best way to advertise... Dr R is a progressive doctor. Just running ads does not give anyone a positive attitude with getting involved. Word of mouth is by far the best for many reasons...

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274054312

Just for the sake of discussion...

I fully agree with the comments that PE surgery carries significant risk and there have been many reports of serious problems (especially FFT and Ellist implant). On the other hand, I\'ve heard of more positive than negative reports (albeit few overall) on Rosenthal and Belladerm.

What if he doesn\'t publish his results simply because he doesn\'t need to? If he averages 6 surgeries per week at $10K, why advertise? In fact, publication of successful results may encourage other docs to jump on the bandwagon. The default answer seems to be that docs don\'t publish PE surgery outcomes because of the negative aspects, however I wonder if it\'s reasonable think about it from the opposite perspective.

Not suggesting this is what I believe, just curious about what others think of the idea.

Max

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274044915

Mm Your last post is very correct.. With the number of people I have met either in Dr Rosenthal\'s office and on the Internet they are very happy with their results..I investigated the different methods and read most if not all posts.. Any surgery, and injections of PMMA may cause long term problems...I have posted the positive results that I have here.But the majority of this site are PMMA people which if fine with me and I would never speak against it.. It just did not meet my criteria. thanks

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274037985

richard wrote: I understand your point of view and agree with you. My point was when your making an important medical decision you need to research your medical facts. Because so much plays in to the personality of the person and how they react to some thing. Many times whether your talking about heart, cancer, plastic, surgery,etc, it is negative people who take the time to post. I had the experience w my prostrate cancer and found three fourths what I read was a bunch of crap.'


I agree with some of what you say Richard, but the fact of the matter is your successful case is an exception rather than the norm.
PE is still at its pioneering stages and when we research, we are left with the option of taking what the doctor says at face value or message boards such as this to get first hand experience reports. Finding an unbiased, 3rd party report on the outcome of a statistically significant amount of PE surgeries (for any doctor) is basically impossible because most of the doctors don\'t want the world to know the failure rate.

Could you imagine if a prospective patient of the implant doctor (Dr. Elist) only relied on
the literature on the Internet about the implant (written by Dr. Elist himself) or his face-to-face hard sell consultation with the good doctor to make his decision, without paying attention to the countless horror stories that have come out on this board and others?
Would you consider that an informed decision?

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274036784

richard wrote: I understand your point of view and agree with you. My point was when your making an important medical decision you need to research your medical facts. Because so much plays in to the personality of the person and how they react to some thing. Many times whether your talking about heart, cancer, plastic, surgery,etc, it is negative people who take the time to post. I had the experience w my prostrate cancer and found three fourths what I read was a bunch of crap.'


In my experience of researching PE, which is pretty vast, I can tell you that other peoples opinions and views are an invaluable resource. Medical facts can be translated or presented in different ways, so third party perspective is therefore incredibly helpful. But aside from that, there isn\'t exactly much in the way of useful information regarding PE procedures in the medical literature, so the opinions, views and experiences of others should be a key part of the decision making process.

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Considering Belladerm--please advise 11 years 10 months ago #1274036712

I understand your point of view and agree with you. My point was when your making an important medical decision you need to research your medical facts. Because so much plays in to the personality of the person and how they react to some thing. Many times whether your talking about heart, cancer, plastic, surgery,etc, it is negative people who take the time to post. I had the experience w my prostrate cancer and found three fourths what I read was a bunch of crap.

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