lessie wrote: If I am unsettled with myself, then I can\'t give my best to another person. I have spoken with a medical professional on the issue.
Yeah, well the mistake a lot of guys make is thinking their penis size = comfort with self. It CAN certainly happen in many cases, where someone is significantly smaller than avg... but if you are over 6\"
Girth already, your comfort with your self has nothing to do with your penis size. Something else is going on. I\'m not immune to this - so I am not saying it in a judgmental way. I wish I could be 5.5\" EG and 7\" long but realistically - I probably can\'t (response to
PMMA is underwhelming in my case & financially it just keeps draining me). I definitely felt very different in the early days post
PMMA when I was like 6.5 x 5.25 (up from 4\"
Girth). It\'s somewhat upsetting to see the last session only add 0.25 so far. And, as a added bonus, I noticed my obsession w/ my fucked up nose has gotten a lot worse, now that I\'ve almost fixed the penis...and I got facial filler from Dr. C and came home to get $1000 more filler and botox from my
Dermatologist here... so... yea... I get it. (I don\'t look like Joan Rivers yet - I really was losing fat in my face...lol I swear).
Most therapists are awful at dealing with body image issues. It is very complex and they just take the simplistic approach. That is why there are special centers for anorexics (a more severe and obvious body image issue than penis size or aging fears) and therapists who specialize in JUST that..it\'s very very complex & hard to treat. It\'s a similar thinking pattern behind what you\'re dealing with. Also, you\'ve been doing PE for a really really long time - it\'s like you have a Pavlovian response now to seeing increased gains that is detached from the actual benefit (or risks) of those gains - same thing happens w/ a lot of body builders & plastic surgery addicts... and the women with the gigantic lips. Yeah, it looked good with 1 syringe in those lips, so they get 2 more and turn out like a hot mess. They get addicted to the feeling of instantly looking better after the first procedure...so they get more. My
Dermatologist friend refused to put more than 0.5 cc
Restylane in my nasolabial folds (the cheeks Dr. C did were perfect but made the folds then look more pronounced) - and I was really mad at her - but now I\'m like, ok she was right... because it settled and already looks a little too full. Sometimes you need an outside perspective to just trust, because at least in my case I know my perspective is a bit off.