TOPIC: Taking the PMMA plunge

A New Wrinkle

So I\'m in a new relationship and things are great. She\'s amazing and I\'m absolutely crazy about her. The sex is really good, no problems getting her off, all is well. That said, two things are making me think about a third round.

One, she wants to swing, which is something I\'ve always been interested in, and seeing as how I\'m a complete man slut, not really out of character for me, just doing it in the context of a relationship is new. I have to admit though, the thought of her fucking other guys, guys who probably will be bigger than me, doesn\'t neccessarily bother me, but I would prefer to go in knowing my Girth is maxed out. Also, it seems having the biggest unit possible would be of benefit in finding women who want to swing with me.

Second, we were having sex last night and she stuck her vibrator in her pussy while I was fucking her, so I know she can take it. She seemed to really like the super stretch, so I know she\'ll like an even fatter Cock.

So here\'s my dilemma, I\'d really like to go get a third round and get to 6\" midshaft, close to 6.5\" base. That is my ultimate goal. I haven\'t discussed with her that I\'ve had any enhancement done, and is clearly need to discuss it with her if I was going to get another round. So my question is, do I bring it up or just stay I\'m retirement? She\'s a total freak and I know she wouldn\'t have a problem with a bigger Cock, probably wouldn\'t even mind that I have a procedure, I guess my main concern is she wants to have my children, and I wonder if she finds out that I\'m not as genetically blessed as I appear, will she still feel the same about me.

I could really use some feedback on this.

dont be fooled by the vibrator trick. try putting it insider her sidewAys (directly to the left or right.of your.Cock) the length of the pussy is going to accept way more then her side walls.

most penis Girth is wide from the top (meaning left to right Girth vs north south Girth) you follow me?


me and my wife swing too

i dont see how u guys do it.. I would never let another man penetrate my GF let alone my wife. Just the thought of it pisses me off.

Your just jealous. Its common but you.can\'t swing and have jealousy issues. Will ruin you
You

I am with you new1inch I am way too stingy!! DWD just make sure this is for you man, it seems like many here are getting almost addicted to this , which I can see happening. Do you see yourself with this women for the long term? Just step back and make a good decision !

@thehulk

I don\'t think it\'s as much to do with jealousy as it is with the nature of a relationship. Some relationships value exclusivity & derive their sexual chemistry from that exclusivity. Other relationships are more open and involve individuals of different mindsets. We\'re all wired differently, and while I\'m sure jealousy can play a role in some instances, I highly doubt it plays a central role in all cases.

Hell, I\'ve seen lines drawn in the weirdest ways. I\'ve seen couples have completely open relationships, but it doesn\'t involve 3sums and such (in other words, both the guy and girl can mess around with others but will not bring them into a 3sum). I have known couple to bring in a female for a 3sum, but that the man was not allowed to cum/climax with the 2nd lady, despite doing everything else. And I can go on and on... even these open relationships exhibit some form of jealousy! The problem is that the word \"jealousy,\" with its conventional definition, doesn\'t best explain what\'s going on here. Relationships are built on trust, stability and security. Sex can be a very intimate form of expression between two lovers. Sometimes when that line is blurred and both parties are on not on the same page, there can be issues, not necessarily \"jealousy.\" Just my 2cents.


@DWD

That said - going back to DWD\'s main post, there is already an underlying concern - the question of \"size.\" If you can handle her being with bigger guys, and if she\'s totally into you, how much more advantage to you get out of 0.3 or 0.4\" in EG? Are the pros going to outweigh the cons? Could her learning of your procedure(s) backfire like it has in the past? Could you experience aesthetic irregularities that will require additional touchups and thus make you unfit (temporarily) for swinging? And let\'s not forget, this lady & the swinging scene may be very temporary, and your (sexual) lifestyle could easily find itself with a steady lady in an exclusive relationship months from now...a lady who really doesn\'t need all that \"Magnum-XL breaking\" Girth. A lot of food for thought. I personally would tell you that you are BIG and if you don\'t measure up in the (swinging) scene, well that\'ll be a big indicator as to where many size-queens go to play.

Skeptical One wrote: @thehulk

even these open relationships exhibit some form of jealousy! The problem is that the word \"jealousy,\" with its conventional definition, doesn\'t best explain what\'s going on here. Relationships are built on trust, stability and security. Sex can be a very intimate form of expression between two lovers. Sometimes when that line is blurred and both parties are on not on the same page, there can be issues, not necessarily \"jealousy.\" Just my 2cents.

S.O; Very very WELL SAID!!!

Still in the new relationship, still haven\'t told her about the PMMA, still don\'t know how to trust a woman. I have come to the conclusion that I have such deep rooted insecurity issues that no amount of PEing will ever be enough. I am flat out obsessed with the size of my Cock and the shit is driving me out of my skull. The biggest Dick war is like nuclear war, everyone who plays loses. There can be only one, as highlander says. And I\'ll tell you what, that war rages in my head everyday and every single day I lose. I am tired of insecurity, I\'m tired of jealousy, and I just don\'t believe my mind is capable of accepting that my Dick is not the same as it used to be.
I also can\'t accept that I\'m not hung like a porn star. I know it\'s retarded, but I honestly believe that all that you need to make a woman love you is a great Cock. I know on some level that\'s not true, but not at the core. At the core of me is this basic concept of women\'s view of sex with me that I have from when I was 14 years old.

because your Dick is small, I don\'t love you, I\'m leaving you and you are worthless in my eyes.

I have at my core this thought, all the time, that I don\'t deserve love because I don\'t have the biggest Cock, and that is just fucking ridiculous. I can\'t let this go on anymore. I have to get this out, and I can\'t talk to some therapist who doesn\'t understand this shit. Maybe I need to see a sexual therapist. I\'ve never tried one. I can tell you this for sure, I can make my girlfriend orgasm multiple times, average is twice, just from sex, but I still believe she is utterly unfulfilled by me, regardless of what she might say. I will not discuss any of this with her ever. That is the number one dangerous discussion to have when you are psychotic over your Cock.

Penile Dysmorphic disorder I believe it\'s called. The male version of anorhexia. I literally can\'t see my Cock as anything but small. Once upon a time, I could blame my natural size for that, but not now. I\'m above average, I know it, but I still look and feel small to myself.

Anyway, I put this in my progress thread because this is where my progress has gotten me, and I know now that round 3 won\'t fix it. At 8x6 I would feel small, because really, 9x7 is the new minimum standard. Anything less than that would be utterly unsatisfying for most women. This is not fucking reality, I know it\'s not reality, but this shit won\'t get out of my head. I am a grown man and this is ridiculous. This has to stop.

Anyone have any thoughts on this?

Any suggestions?

Dance With Dragons wrote: Still in the new relationship, still haven\'t told her about the PMMA, still don\'t know how to trust a woman. I have come to the conclusion that I have such deep rooted insecurity issues that no amount of PEing will ever be enough. I am flat out obsessed with the size of my Cock and the shit is driving me out of my skull. The biggest Dick war is like nuclear war, everyone who plays loses. There can be only one, as highlander says. And I\'ll tell you what, that war rages in my head everyday and every single day I lose. I am tired of insecurity, I\'m tired of jealousy, and I just don\'t believe my mind is capable of accepting that my Dick is not the same as it used to be. I also can\'t accept that I\'m not hung like a porn star. I know it\'s retarded, but I honestly believe that all that you need to make a woman love you is a great Cock. I know on some level that\'s not true, but not at the core. At the core of me is this basic concept of women\'s view of sex with me that I have from when I was 14 years old. because your Dick is small, I don\'t love you, I\'m leaving you and you are worthless in my eyes. I have at my core this thought, all the time, that I don\'t deserve love because I don\'t have the biggest Cock, and that is just fucking ridiculous. I can\'t let this go on anymore. I have to get this out, and I can\'t talk to some therapist who doesn\'t understand this shit. Maybe I need to see a sexual therapist. I\'ve never tried one. I can tell you this for sure, I can make my girlfriend orgasm multiple times, average is twice, just from sex, but I still believe she is utterly unfulfilled by me, regardless of what she might say. I will not discuss any of this with her ever. That is the number one dangerous discussion to have when you are psychotic over your Cock. Penile Dysmorphic disorder I believe it\'s called. The male version of anorhexia. I literally can\'t see my Cock as anything but small. Once upon a time, I could blame my natural size for that, but not now. I\'m above average, I know it, but I still look and feel small to myself. Anyway, I put this in my progress thread because this is where my progress has gotten me, and I know now that round 3 won\'t fix it. At 8x6 I would feel small, because really, 9x7 is the new minimum standard. Anything less than that would be utterly unsatisfying for most women. This is not fucking reality, I know it\'s not reality, but this shit won\'t get out of my head. I am a grown man and this is ridiculous. This has to stop. Anyone have any thoughts on this? Any suggestions?

Brother I love your contributions but if I were to offer sincere advice (and this goes out to many of our members), one effective treatment/cure against penis dysmorphia is to abandon both the online PE scene & online pornography. If you need the occasional rub&tug (porn) or curious to know about PMMA updates (online PE forums), a once-in-a-while trip isn\'t a big deal. But continued use of this site and continued viewing of online porn (not sure if this is relevant in your case, but I\'m speaking to both you and many other readers) only perpetuates an unhealthy dysmorphia.

So while I value your contributions and don\'t want to see you go, I often tell members that a departure (and not necessarily permanent) should be something to look into.

Hello all, just wanted to give an update as it\'s been a while. All is well, no negative effects, everything with my procedure is still just perfect. It\'s been almost a year since my first procedure, and I can say without a doubt it has changed my life.

I am overwhelmed with gratitude for this site and the guys who contribute. If you\'ve read my report then you know I was considering Belladerm, at over 6 times the cost of PMMA. I was booked and had paid a 2000 dollar deposit to go to california, I stumbled across this site, and realized I was about to make a huge mistake. I began reading about the success of PMMA and the horror stories with Belladerm. This site and you guys saved my Dick, and by extension my life as far as I\'m concerned. I sincerely thank you all.


My new relationship is going extremely well. I\'m actually living with my gf now, and I couldn\'t be happier.

I was diagnosed with very low testosterone levels a few months ago and have been taking clomid and arimidex to treat it. My testosterone levels went from 199 to 1150, and I am a new man. Testosterone is amazing - I feel confident, secure and at ease in my body, and I also don\'t gain weight the way I was prone to before. I don\'t put on weight and my body stays more defined with less effort. Thank God for modern science!

Lastly, I have pretty much stopped looking at this site altogether. It was starting to hurt me psychologically, and I can definitely say that staying away from here and not looking up anything about Cock size on the Internet for the last two months has been very good for me. My dysmorphic disorder is gone, and I love my penis now. Thanks to skeptical for the advice.

That\'s all for now. Merry Christmas and Happy new year to you all!

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Well, I just couldn\'t stand being less than forthcoming with my gf about my procedure, so I told her. She didn\'t take it great, but she\'s still around. I think it lowered her opini in somewhat, but I just don\'t particularly care anymore. I\'m a great guy, she\'ll stay or go, it doesn\'t really change anything either way. MY self esteem isn\'t riding on some woman\'s opinion of me.

I\'ll let you know how it goes.

'Much talking is the cause of danger. Silence is the means of avoiding misfortune. The talkative parrot is shut up in a cage. Other birds, without speech, fly freely about.'

'A foolish man proclaimeth his qualifications; a wise man keepeth them secret within himself.'

-Saskya Pandita

'Silence is the true friend that never betrays.'

-Confucius

'Never miss a chance to shut up'

-Will Rodgers

The Great King Solomon also said a man of broad discernment remains silent! Perhaps as MEN, we can shoulder the truths or choices we\'ve made among ourselves, we don\'t need to tell women everything on our mind, I\'m reminded of my wise father who\'s always avoided so many problems with my mom by just exercising discernment. Maybe the modern man is being more vocal with his thoughts & feelings'sometimes that gets us into deep water. Maybe we should just take a lesson from our fathers & exercise discernment so as to avoid woes or worries.

True your lady friend now knows the truth, and we (members of the forum) accept you for you because we understand the psychology of why you choose Male Enhancement. But in the future, do yourself a favor and take it to the grave, Male Enhancement is not so important a decision that it needs to be told to anyone, if it is, i putty thee, pick up a more exciting hobby because your missing out. Try scuba diving man thats something to share.

CHL

Dance With Dragons wrote: She didn\'t take it great.

I am honestly curious why she even cared / didn\'t take it well. I know so many girls with nose jobs (and a handful with fake boobs) & I really can\'t imagine taking it \"badly\" if someone told me they had work done. Plus, most people are much happier post surgery & they look a lot better. I would probably be happy for them.

With this, she\'s getting all the benefits and you took all the risk. I\'d be like - oh your Dick was injected with some chemical in Mexico? Damn - you are a brave motherfucker ... ok well, don\'t let it go to waste - time to fuck!

It wasn\'t that I had it done, it\'s that we\'ve been together three months and I didn\'t say anything about it. I see your point coolhand, and if I were not seriously considering taking it to the next level with this woman I would have just kept it secret, but to me, secrets are like poison, like a cancer in my personality that starts small but grows exponentially with time. Granted, I will never make it in the cia, but I hate misdirection and deceit anyway.

I have told too many women who it didn\'t bother at all, and frankly I have to know how she handles it. If it ends up a deal breaker for her, then I don\'t want to be with her long term.