Lasting a long time is over rated. Sure, it has it\'s place in the right context (as do quickies) but most women are not wired in a way that they want long stamina each and every time.
I married a girl who was VERY VERY experienced. I was a virgin when we got married. Yes, I had not had intercourse before we married for religious reasons. So, I was probably mr. minute man. We were happily married for 12 years 10 months until she passed.
I did learn more self-control and stamina (our choice) certainly, but she loved me whether or not I came in one minute or ten. If you\'re dating a girl who judges the value of your relationship on this basis, requires long sessions all the time, or you think will leave you because you cum too soon, then either you or the girl you\'re dating has unrealistic performance expectations and the relationship probably won\'t work anyway.