TOPIC: advice about prolonging sexual Intercourse

two things have worked for me to make the deed last longer. I have overly sensitive head that triggers orgasm early.

This is what I would do with my wife (now ex)- it required no discussion, just a change in routine.

Ask / get her to be on top. I found that if I am relatively still down there, then she can get herself worked up to the point of orgasm - as long as it takes, then switch position if needed till you both cum. I felt more control this way. Thrust and it is early bust for me. But lay and delay to last all day. She liked being in control of the grind too.

Also, there are condoms with some kind of lotion to delay cumming. They are on the supermarket shelves in Australia, dunno about elsewhere. They seem to double the time. \"Durex - extended pleasure\"

perhaps that will help, without making a big drama of talking and apologies etc in the bedroom.
steven.

Unfortunately, the reason I last long is because I can\'t cum unless I jerk it myself. Could be a mental thing.

If you don\'t have a problem with premature ejaculation then jerking off before a date will probably help. If you do suffer from PE it\'s probably not going to do much for you. I\'ve been dealing with this problem for years and it sucks. I have a sensitive penis and getting PMMA actually helped with this. I went from struggling to make it 2-3 minutes to going 5-7 minutes. This is not PE and is in the normal range but still too quick for me. The last three months I\'ve decided to overcome this issue.This blog has helped me a lot.
www.risingmaster.com/blog/

The guy does discuss products but there is a lot of good information about curing the condition. He has some book reviews but I didn\'t buy them. My plan was to use products temporarily while I did the exercises and worked on the mental aspects. I bought some Promescent and got an online prescription for Stendra (like viagra). There is an iPhone app called stamena that I\'ve been using to practice kegels and reverse kegels. I also changed my masturbation habits to where I only do it once or twice a week and I take my time (no less than 20 minutes) and practice breathing and some other tricks to drop my arousal levels.

Last night I had a break through. My wife intiated sex which has been a rare occurrence so I knew she was horny. She wouldn\'t wait for the pills and spray to take effect cause she wanted it now. In the past that would have been a recipe for disaster as her being horny would have sky rocketed my arousal and not using my crutches would have ramped up my performance anxiety. But instead I just started breathing and kept calm and took things slow. By making her wait it made her want it more and made me feel in control. Short story long I hung in there like a champ and she actually had a vaginal orgasm (only the second time since we\'ve been married) and then had a second orgasm using her vibrator. We had sex for about 15-20 minutes but I didn\'t have to slow things down or change positions, I was in total control. Needless to say I feel great today. I\'m sure there will be some ups and downs along the way but this is the first time I feel like I will be able to have total control over my performance.

Thanks, will definitely give it a look when I get the chance. Lately I\'ve taken to practicing making a my partner squirt. I have had some success with this program called squirting mastery 2.0. One of the brother in my frat was raving on about it , so I been trying it out. A few ended in puddle\'s but some nothing at all just odd stare\'s. If you give it a try, I hope u have much luck with it.

Based on my 20+ years experience of handing out orgasms and squirtings, I can tell you that this is much less about your personal technique and more about the woman. If a woman isn\'t a squirter, she likely won\'t be squirting. Having an experienced lover definitely helps alot.
I\'ve fucked several that required me to keep a mop next to the bed. I\'m not joking. I fucked one all across different apartments (airbnb) so I had to make sure the wooden floors were cleaned up quickly. I also had to bring my own sheets and waterproof covers, as not to stain the bed. Having a thick, hard Dick, knowing how to use fingers, tongue, lips and variable penetration speeds, is key. In short, learn how to fuck, really, really well, and when you run into a squirter, it\'ll be the memory of a lifetime.

Isn\'t squirting pee? I had sex with this girl who claimed to be a \"virgin\" but knew she squirts, the two times she did it came out in a stream and was yellow. It definitely smelt like pee but tasted it and smelled it saying it\'s not. It was horrible and I find it disgusting.

Definitely not pee. I would have smelled it all over the bed and floors. I believe it\'s possible there is a small amount pee in the liquid, but definitely not pee.

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Maybe it is urine.

blogs.discovermagazine.com/seriouslyscie...st-pee/#.V2D2B5BHarU

blogs.discovermagazine.com/seriouslyscie...st-pee/#.V2D2B5BHarU

J.cs8528 wrote: blogs.discovermagazine.com/seriouslyscie...st-pee/#.V2D2B5BHarU

If I were to have posted a comment on that website, my reply would be identical to Ricardo Talhadas. The article \"study\" involves seven women, which can barely be called a scientific study. I\'ve been with well over 150 women, and just under 1% have been squirters. All have left lakes afterwards. None smelling or looking like pee. Take it from men who\'ve actually swum in those waters, like me and Lakesfan.

and i would have responded like John..and i have swum in the waters with two girls who were \"squirters\" and can\' t say i remember any smell either.. I was just posting an article, my apologies if you dont agree with it.

All women are different, but one thing I think we can all agree on is its not pee. My fianc' is a squirter, not all the time, but maybe half the time. There\'s been a few times she\'s unloaded while I was going down on her and I guess if I had to describe it I would say it\'s closer to water than urine.
Another girl I was with years ago would kinda squirt, but it was much thicker and kind of just dribbled out. If you ask 100 different women who squirt they will all give somewhat different answers as to how they squirt, and what it feels like.

Jcs8528 wrote: and i would have responded like John..and i have swum in the waters with two girls who were \"squirters\" and can\' t say i remember any smell either.. I was just posting an article, my apologies if you dont agree with it.

No need to apologize, jcs. Just sharing my two cents, like the rest of us. We, older guys, may sound judgmental, but we do speak from extensive experience. Bringing this back to topic, if you\'re fucking her and you think you\'re about to come, you can always pull out and leverage other techniques, think tongue, lips and fingers. Lakesfan is spot on. To make it even more titillating, you can smack her in the ass when you pull out and tease her by saying something like, \"Look at you, loving that Dick!\" Makes her a little self-conscious because women are always complaining about never getting enough foreplay. But what it really does is buy you some time, while making her feel amazing and helping you slowly improve and elongate your skills. The next time you sink it in, she\'ll love it even more.

My technique has worked really well. I imagine her fugly mother is there in bed and I can\'t come no matter what ! My GF actually found it really funny that this was my technique, but you may not want to tell her your secret lol.

Cheers,

HC