TOPIC: Wife/GF/SO Girth thread Continuation

Big John
Awesome experiment man!

I guarantee you those 66 women who voted for 5\" Girth would unequivicolly change their mind if they experience having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation while something 5.5 in Girth is inside them. I think for this data to be meaningful you would need to get 5 good quality dildos, and have the women use them all over a period of a month or two, and then come back and report which one they prefer. Every girl I\'ve been with has always looked at a 5.5 or 6 Inch Girth dildo with uneasiness at first. But that has ALWAYS changed once they realize what it can do to their bodies. How many of the women being polled have actually been with thick men? How many of them have been with thick men and wished they were thinner? How many have not been with thick men? How many didn\'t realize they liked thick cocks until they had a good lover with one? I think these questions should be addressed in your girls paper.

I have been pretty busy travelling for work and have not had much time to catch up on the site on a regular basis. I hope all the members who have had procedures are doing well and complication free with their units.I have 2 prior meets to report. The 2 meets had a total of 59 women in attendance between the ages of 28 and 48. The results are as follows:Length Girth Votes
8' smaller 0
8' 4.0' 1
8' 4.5' 10
8' 5.0' 31
8' 5.5' 16
8' 6.0' 1
8' larger 0 Cumulative Totals of 130 womenLength Girth Votes
8' smaller 0
8' 4.0' 3
8' 4.5' 19
8' 5.0' 66
8' 5.5' 37
8' 6.0' 4
8' larger 1 That wraps up my GFs data from the toy parties. I think she and a couple of colleagues are putting together a course as part of their Graduate school work. I believe they plan to interview > 1,000 undergrad and grad women to get their take on some of the issues raised. Their independent study will be under the psychology department so it appears to be going in a direction that I have very little interest in. Such is life. It has been a great experience for me and I have learned a lot about what some women really think about penis size, especially the last 2 events where my GF had me help her out posing as her 'gay' colleague.

@eqstudent
That is some interesting info with the sweetspot being between 4.5\" and 5.5\" in Girth. I find that comforting to most of us, although I\'m sure that the fellow who got the world\'s record PMMA enhancement would question their choice of a proportioned dildo when their fridge is filled with coke cans?
How many really can accomodate 8\" length? I\'ve seen lots of porn scenes in which the girl looked like she couldn\'t take that much in and actually suffered when a longish guy got tired of the dry Dick syndrome and tried to penetrate them further... Did you ask them about other length preferences?
A few other things coms to mind. Did they try them out or just react to their feel and appearance? Do they insert them all the way, or was some length preference used to account for hand placement? Also, were they each alone to cast a private vote or did they choose in front of each other? I wonder about peer pressure and also the reliability of a size preference for an artificial item which probably would fail to dilate them upon penetration as much as the turn on of a HOT guy straight out of the PhalloBoard forum.
HC

HunkChunk wrote: @eqstudent
How many really can accomodate 8\" length?
Do they insert them all the way, or was some length preference used to account for hand placement?
HC

I strongly suspect (especially since the bulk of these women probably have not seen a real 8-incher, or at best, seen them very infrequently) long dildos/vibrators are made to be long to allow for the palm of the woman to be taken into account. And even in most pornography I decided to review (a horrible resource indeed), many of the non-freakish type women typically inserted 5-6 inches of the actual toy into them. There is a chance the women themselves in these studies were entirely oblivious that an 8-Inch toy was designed as such for the purpose of providing hand-held space. The same women who probably couldn\'t eyeball a size or accurately gauge their past lovers dimensions.
Furthermore, if 5-6\" is sufficient, that is explains why dildos & vibrators are not just as long...because once a woman gets her hand around a 6\" dildo, she only has 3\" (+/-) of insertable toy.
At novelty sex stores, I\'ve come to notice dildos that were 6\" or so were usually the mountable kind... the one\'s meant to stay stationery (by means of suction cup or whatever) so that the woman would not be using her hand and she would be using the toy in free form. Otherwise, all hand-insertables were almost always longer than 5-6\".
This may be of some comfort to us \"shorter\" guys. I\'ve also concluded before that 5.5\"-6.5\" may be the ideal length if the same individual had a massive Girth. This is because with that length, one could fuck Balls deep (thus allowing the base of the penis to maximize entry & clitoral stimulation) without necessarily pounding the cervix. So in other words, a 6x6 might actually be more ideal than the fabled 8x6. At least in my judgment, which is only so good since I\'m not a woman lol.

Friend of ours is single and very open about her dildo use so I asked for her favorite size for the purpose of this thread. her fave toy is 7x 5.25! I then ask how much she uses and she says Oh I never put it all the way in!

Justabitmore wrote: Friend of ours is single and very open about her dildo use so I asked for her favorite size for the purpose of this thread. her fave toy is 7x 5.25! I then ask how much she uses and she says Oh I never put it all the way in!

Yea makes sense... If she\'s an avid user, her toy is 7\", and she doesn\'t insert all of it... I think it would be safe to assume that at least 1-2\" of the dildo is handheld...thus an insertion of 5\"-6\" of actual dildo.
Thanks for that info JABM!

Great thread everyone. I hope it puts more people at ease so as to minimize procedures and maximize everyone\'s self-confidence.
Good work.

Bone pressed I\'m over 7\" and there have been many girls who got poked a little too far. They don\'t like it. When they\'re on top they usually don\'t go all the way down. You\'d think if they wanted longer they\'d go down as far as possible. Girth is definitely more important.

Same here. Same stats as imbignow and I can touch my wifes cervix. Not all girls I have been with though. Maybe 25%. but no way have I ever gotten lost!

I quote my wife: \"There\'s not much distance from the outer vagina to the G-spot, and having a longer than average penis can hurt more than being pleasurable. It\'s more important to feel a filling sensation with the Girth. Average length and big Girth is much better than longer.\" Of course, she might be a little biased. My stats: 5.5\" EL, 6.25\" EG.

I should add that she experienced a freakishly longer than average penis with average or less than average Girth (she recalls not feeling filled girthwise), and felt pain and discomfort. This experience as well as my enhanced Girth factors into her opinion.

Before my Silicone implant, I had been with a girl who had a baby so when having sex with her, it always felt like throwing a hot dog down the hall way.

After the implant, it felt a lot better for me and for her. Girth is definitely King!

@ mustang

@eqstudent
You\'re lucky to pose as a Gay assistant, since I\'ll bet that any number of them will be ready to try to \"convert\" you into a hetero! Had a go at it? Oh, I forgot that your GF posts here too lol.
Also, I noted that they all went for 8\" length, how much of it do they insert, don\'t they keep at least 2\" in their hand for manipulation purposes? If so that would make their ideal length at only 6\" penetration?
HC