Hey man. I had mine done in July 18 and love it. I've read all kinds of posts here and stories of good and bad before I had mine done. It is a big decision to make and I did it with full understanding that following ALL the aftercare to a T.
It has softened if you can call it that. That might not be the scientific word for it. It love it. For me it feels good in and the
Girth has been amazing. The looks I get from people stirring at my bulge in my pants is good feeling.
It is a process and does require you to heal. Don't be tempered to have sex or jerk while it's healing, take care of body (drinking, smoke, etc) is important. Not that you do but just saying there are clear guidance on after care.
Someone here will dispute what I say, some will support it. I get it. Not everyone has same opinion on the sleeve. But my opinion is I'm glad I did it and may do a larger one in a year or so. We'll see.