Truckerguy wrote: I don't do any PE - there is a such thing as too big - I have a couple of girls I like alot - and it's already a struggle - if I get to big they will dump me lol
Oh absolutely. I think adult video content has mislead men into believing women enjoy wanting their cervixes smashed or having coke can sized girths shoved in them like a jackhammer. With the exception of authentically nympho-females & real size queens (which are uncommon to be frank, a lot of it is just talk) -OR- those who have birthed many times and/or were born with an above-average sized vaginal canals -- I'd venture to say most normal, healthy women (especially if childless) actually have no problem with average sized dicks, and that the extra size is more of an upgrade than a necessity (like a sports car versus a sports car with 40 more horsepower and a convertible top).
In my many hookups over the years, I've had two women who simply couldn't make it a regular thing because of the sheer discrepancy in size-compatibility.
As someone who has followed the scene since the mid 2000's, I can say confidently that once you get to the 5.5-5.75" girth range, anything beyond WILL have diminishing returns (e.g. anal less likely, quickies impractical, more teeth receiving oral, and potentially outright refusal the first time or for a 2nd hookup). And for length, even more so. If you ever watch guys with the longest shafts in adult video content, you'll notice they almost never go balls deep... because there is no room once you've hit the ceiling. Hell, I'd say once you start going beyond 6.5" NBPEL, you'll begin to see diminishing returns in the benefits of having a longer shaft. I should note however, every partner is different and diminishing returns may not adversely affect every hook-up, but like Truckerguy alluded to, any bigger and they'll want nothing to do with it