I came across this board, back then, searching for a way to increase Girth. I have never felt anything was wrong with how big/small I am but after our last kid the wife has never felt like when we first got together. We looked into vaginal rejuvenation, pumps, fillers, etc, but never found anything that we felt was worth the risk:reward ratio. Also, my sex drive over the last decade or so had slowly been going down while hers, more recently, has been going up. I started TRT and our sex life has had a significant uptick in frequency and quality. It\'s awesome but there\'s still the issue of my not filling her out. This has a lot less to do with her, so she says but her bigger dildos tell a different story lol, than it does with me.
After trying to find this site after so many years I stumbled across surgery life enhancement. I thought maybe the board had changed names but as soon as I started digging into the posts my spidey senses started going off. Something just wasn\'t right about it. I remembered reading through phallo boards and posts being, more or less, very open, honest, and critical. I did some more research and ended up back here, once again, searching through the invaluable information available and finding that the process is far enough along in its\' evolution where the risks, to me, don\'t outweigh the rewards. A bit of that has to do with my expectations of perfection being decreased as well. I have a good looking Dick, if I don\'t say so myself, and the thought of mangling that aesthetic kept me from going through with any kind of PE. I am now willing to accept certain shortcomings related to this procedure and am in the process of setting up an appointment at Avanti.
I\'m not sure of my beginning stats and i\'m not sure if I care honestly. They\'re great for comparative analysis but at the end of the day I\'m not really sure it matters. That being said I talked it over with the lady and we came up with a plan to find out. We basically ordered a bunch of dildos in incremental sizes to see just where she likes it. Booking is 2 months out so we have 2 months to set a goal and go from there.
I figured I\'d start a progress report to document my process and perhaps help someone out if they have similar circumstances. This site is SO useful and full of information that it\'s honestly an overload for someone like me who tries to figure everything out and know everything about what it is that I\'m getting into before I do it. Ball is in motion now though so if you have any pointers, travel tips, etc. it would most certainly be appreciated.
Sorry if this is all over the place, my long form has gone gone to shit over the last 20 years lol.
briceb wrote: Just a question, but if you do not know how big you are how can you actually realistically compare yourself and yourself and goals to the dildos?
Lol, figured this would come up, I posted and literally thought the same thing. I was just going to take the one she liked to tj and show doctor c lol. Last time I measured was at least 15 years ago and was something like 6 EL and 5 EG. I figured I\'d just keep going back until wife says we\'re good. I can get pretty ocd about numbers and, again, other than for comparison are they essential for success when success is a purely subjective thing that my wife and I have to agree on? She says that different dildos feel better at different sizes. Ie harder is better smaller / softer is better larger. We have no way of knowing where the end point should be without the reference of a PMMA Dick, specifically mine lol. We ordered a bunch of tantus dual density dildos, supposedly as close to real as possible. Well find the one she likes best take it in, say this is ideal, and incrementally work our way up the PMMA ladder to that point. Not sure if that makes sense or am I over complicating things?
In for a penny, in for a pounding. 6 years 5 months ago #1300091627
I think that a lot of women would be turned on by the idea of her man wanting to be the perfect \"fit\" for her vagina. I am sure many women would not care but making your Dick the \"one\" for her vagina sounds like a sexy thing.
Bolkonsky wrote: wow be carefull. My girl loves the 6.5\" girth dildo. She cant hide the moans.
We bought from 1.7 - 2.5 in dia. I find it unlikely that she\'ll go into the upper range but if that\'s the case, fuck, Dr c is going to have his work cut out for him or I might be getting a divorce, lol.
johnhaider wrote: I think that a lot of women would be turned on by the idea of her man wanting to be the perfect \"fit\" for her vagina. I am sure many women would not care but making your dick the \"one\" for her vagina sounds like a sexy thing.
Thanks John I am in love with this woman and soul. She\'s not perfect but damn is she close. She\'s not once ever brought up my size in a demeaning way, quite the opposite, but it\'s not like it used to be for me. When I told her I was thinking about doing it she said \"we have some fun research to do\". No insecurities about being loose or trying to make me feel inadequate just a good positive perspective. Those are one in a billion.
In for a penny, in for a pounding. 6 years 5 months ago #1300092081
Sounds like a great girl, she will probably be even more in love with you when you are filling her up perfectly and she feels like your penis is just right for her. When you are done your rounds of PMMA she\'s gonna be goldicocks for your sculpted Dick.
Life has its way of interfering with plans and I\'ve been in the weeds at work for damn near the last year. Fuck time just flies!
Appointment set up for the 14th of August. Bringing the wife to help out with late night massages
The biggest dildo we used, 6.25, got her off in seconds flat and she said it was amazingly intense but...
a) She likes sucking my Dick and couldn\'t get her mouth around it so an immediate no for her on 6.25\"
b) It tore her up every time we used it and there was a recovery time of between 1-3 days where she didn\'t want anything in there. She wants it frequently when I\'m home so a hard no there as well
c) Foreplay was a must to get everything good for insertion and while that\'s not a bad thing she frequently wants a quikie and didn\'t want to have to prepare just to have sex
Second biggest was 6 inches, got her off well, and had none of the side effects.
I\'ve been with a few ladies but by just this process alone I\'ve learned a ton about my wife. I said in a post I didn\'t think, and neither did she, that we\'d even get close to that size and now that 6\"er is a valued member of the toy team lol!
So, I didn\'t know that they need stats before you book an appointment so here they are -
EL: 5.5 BEG: 4.75
MSEG: 5 up to the tip
At some point if a mod could unlock the OP so I can edit it to add all of my progress and pre/post pics at the top that would be appreciated!
Mustang2020 wrote: Best to just add new info in a reply to your own thread, that way people can read the latest.
Are you talking 6.25\" Girth or length? I assume Girth!
I think 6\" Erect Girth is a great balance and best overall size. Good luck and keep us posted.
Girth, we came to the same conclusion. We\'re dudes, I get it, there\'s a drive there for bigger and badder than the rest but there\'s definitely a point of diminishing returns and that drop off seems to be sharp!
I can snap a Dick pic or measure it but doing both at the same time was so hard I had to ask the SO for help lol. My measurements were a bit off from previous.
Scheduled for 1400 today, travel arrangements were par for the course, border crossing went surprisingly quick. My only complaint is the shuttle service. I expected a lot better. The van was a pos, would literally feel like it was about to break everytime Carlos hit the gas. I was wondering if carlos was drunk or just an international driver lol. The wife gets super anxious when doing new things. Everything up to that point was manageable but that pushed her over the edge. She had a panic attack at the hotel.
I\'m going to uber back over to the airport Friday cause probably anything is better than that.
Post day 1 update -
12x30 + 11x10 = 23 cc
I have a bit of loose skin on the left side of my circumscision and after reading and seeing everyone\'s progress reports I was prepared for something like this to happen. It\'s filled with fluid, product, or a mixture of the two so have been diligent in massaging / rolling the entry points etc. Going back in at 10 for a checkup with Ian and will see if we\'ve been doing it right. My SO and I took shifts thru out the night waking up every hour to massage. Definitely nice having a helping hand!
Just FYI I spent about ten minutes looking for their office before calling. It\'s on the 11th floor in the tower next to the grand. Go to the food court and take the elevator up. Dr. C, Ian, and Dr morals were extremely nice and made the whole \"shoving a bunch of needles in my Dick\" thing a relatively pleasurable experience. Lol.