chester it looks like your measuring nbpel. so a 6.35nbpel is a decent size dong mate. Its essentially the same as me. we have the same Dick. lol I\'ve always been told that i\'m average or a \"good average\". Its funny though girls Most always say I\'m big at first and then when we have the inevitable size talk, I always turn out to be average or a \'good average\' is what i hear most.
I\'m curious what have your comments been from the ladies, since we have the same VID (very important Dick)
Hey Bolk, yep I only measure nbpel, as it\'s only what goes in that counts. I also tend to be pretty conservative with my measurements, as I think man is naturally inclined to embellish on size. I definitely see some of that on this board. I don\'t know who\'s telling you that you\'re average, but you\'re well above average, if general guidelines are to be considered. I\'m probably a bit older than you (43) and before I started on my PE journey, at 22 by getting a lig cut, I was 5\" EL. Following a month of Hanging, I got to 5.75\". I spent a few years stretching my penis and doing exercises (not really knowing what I was doing) and was able to get to 6\" by the time I was 30. I stayed there until last year, when I started stretching and water pumping, and this year I started Hanging. I think I started out the year at 6\" EL or just fractionally longer. Admittedly, my sex life started quite late, but I have had a multitude of experiences, and I\'ll answer your question in the different size segments below.
20-22 yrs (5\"EL): I had 4 partners during this time, one of them actually said I was small. What\'s funny is, I was drunk when she said it and didn\'t bother me that much, and we actually had decent sex. But truthfully, I just didn\'t feel as manly as I knew I could be, especially since I was a professional fighter. On the positive, I had a chiseled body which was thin at the waist and legs, which improved my length visually, but only when Erect.
22-30 (5.75\" EL): The lig cut was a confidence-booster indeed. My sex partners increased steadily. I had around 30 partners during this time. I no longer felt small, nor was I made to feel small in the vaginas I penetrated. I didn\'t feel big either but average was just fine for me, and I had some good sex partners, which allowed me to improve my technique. As a result, I always heard good things from my partners, and this is where I started making women orgasm. I\'d say 3 out of 5. I also started to realize that technique was more important than size. It took a while, but I definitely learned this valuable lesson.
30-42 (6\" EL): Hammer time. You know that scene in \"Life of Pi\" when the tiger reaches the island full of lemmings? That was me. 230-250 sex partners. I used to keep a journal where I kept count of my partners; that ended during this period due to sheer volume. I literally had days where I\'d bang three women on the same day. Still do it. In short, I had improved confidence, great technique and experience. 98% of the women came. Many screaming orgasms. It is also in this period where I started making women squirt. For two of them, I actually had to keep a mop near the bed. It got to the point where I have to buy a plastic cover for the beds, and fuck them standing up so that they could pour all over the floor. Very often called \"best sex partner ever.\" I also heard from several partners during this period that they had never had a vaginal orgasm, and that I was the first. Callbacks virtually every single time, except for those who I was \"too big\" for. It\'s important to note that I have pretty decent thickness (currently 5.6\" EG). This. Was very gratifying, and I never felt inferior in the department. However, there were a handful, of the numerous women that I banged, who\'s worId I didn\'t truly rock. It\'s not that I felt inferior, it\'s that I always want to feel like the Apex Predator among all of my partners suitors. Alfa isn\'t enough. I literally want to bang the living shit out of my partners, to the point where they\'re masturbating so many times during the day and night that they can\'t even focus on their work. I want them acting like perverted men (sending me dirty texts, pussy pics, etc). I\'ve definitely succeeded.
42-present (6.35\" EL): It\'s pretty much the same as the above period. 0.35\" isn\'t really a big jump, so I\'m hoping to get the 7\" EL so I can consider a filler and get to 6\"+ EG. Never had PMMA. Don\'t think I ever will. I\'m strongly considering Ellanse. The bottom line: Both my size and my sex life are very good. But I want to be great. I want every woman that I have sex with to drool and behave like a person who\'s mentally handicapped. It\'s because I get off on making women get off. That\'s what makes me an excellent lover. My women are always satisfied. The visual demonstrator of my noble goal is my avatar. It\'s the woman that Casanova fucks in the last scene of his titular play by Fellini.
wow chester that is awesome. I laughed so hard when you compared your life to the lathario banging all those women in the palace. I feel like i\'m your little protege. I\'ve been with probably half of the women you have been with. I wish i would have kept a journal or better a spread-sheet. this would be so valuable to determine so many things. I know we are a little above average but still i know i\'m not hitting the spots that i should be. And its a size women instantly get used to (most of them). And once they are very turned on I\'m sure you can feel how much more they can take. I know i can. and that is why i\'m getting PMMA next month.
I\'ve learned that the longer i get the more careful i have to be. And easier sex has become with a little extra length. I\'ve also become a better lover as i get older. And its funny; I think i only became a good lover once i started sleeping with other good lovers. After that i started getting a huge kick/turnon from bringing out the inner freak from women who have never really done that. I think you can only do this if you have been there yourself and feel very comfortable and make them feel comfortable.
But still i dont think i\'m as good as you. I have only made probably half of the women i\'ve been with \'squirt\'. The women who force it to happen i honestly do not like and dont ever sleep with again. Its like \'damn bitch you just pissed all over me when you really didnt have to.\' not something i like. I like it when it just happens naturally, and as a consequence of feeling so in the moment and having so much trust and comfort in me. I feel like its something that i create and not so manufactured as the type of women who do it to impress or to make the guy like them... But thats just me.
But dont you feel like they can take and want so much more when they are super turned on? like 10 to 15 minutes into intercourse, Its like BAM! their vagina\'s just open up to take so much more? What do you do when that happens? I just try and angle my Dick to their g-spot. At that point i stop trying to fill them up.
HA, thanks Bolk. I really like that scene; it\'s very indicative of what I seek to create. I know that you\'re focused on Hanging for length, as am I, but I must tell you, it\'s not all about big size. When I walk into the bedroom with my partners, the look on the faces on some of the women are reminiscent of Mike Tyson\'s opponents in the 80s. It\'s all mental. A woman can think you have an 8 Inch penis, even if you\'re only 6, if you engage her the right way. Right off the bat women think I\'m extremely hung because I\'m fit, very confident, funny and an excellent dancer. I\'d say about 75% of the women I tap get it right after dancing, at a nightcap at my place, or theirs. It\'s dark, there\'s alcohol, and sweat and then they\'re in the bedroom. I\'m already thick as it is, so when I start touching them and they start feeling the Girth, they start getting that concerned, thrilled look in their eyes. Then they\'re getting licked and kissed everywhere, then they\'re on their knees noticing that they have to open their mouths extra wide to handle the Girth while I have a finger stuck inside of them, then hair is getting pulled, then a heavy penis gets dropped on the crack of their ass. Then they start breathing extremely heavily with seriously concerned looks in their eyes. Then juices everywhere, even before I sink it in. Shortly after I dip the glans, I start gently caressing the clit. Juices everywhere. Then I start going in deeper and that\'s when shit gets serious. The moans usually get loader at this point. Then seriously fast fingers DJ the clit while I sink a full 6.35 EL x 5.6 EG. Then cops get called in because a neighbor thinks someone\'s getting stabbed to death in my apartment. Not joking, it\'s already happened four times. Four different neighbors. Yes, size definitely helps, but it\'s so many different things, including intimidation, psychology, technique, timing and prowess. It\'s something that takes years to learn. Experience is the best teacher. Always. This is why I disagree with guys here who think that a big Dick is all you need. I\'ve been told countless times by women that I was their best lover and I know for a fact that bigger guys have lost their chicks to me. I know several of them personally.
damn bro you obviously have good game. lol thats awesome. I do alot of the same things your doing. I love to sexually escalate and then watch them squirm and work for it. I agree that anticipation is so so key. But I think you have more practice than me. I dont ever recall getting the cops called on me. lol I need to step my game up. Plus i think you have a psychological edge on me. You think your big. And i dont. I think there is something to be said about that mind set.
But what about when a woman opens up? I know not all women do this. I would say maybe 40% of the women i sleep with once they really get turned on, their vaginas just open up. They get super super wet and its like they are now ready to take the rest of it. But there isnt any rest of it. lol We might just be sleeping with different types of women. I usually sleep with more curvy or voluptuous women. Its my type, but They got them birthing hips. lol
You got like 7 years on me and maybe 100 or so women in bed. thats why i\'m asking. this isnt really something i can ask anyone else about.
Its not like your Girth is that much bigger than mine. My midshaft is about 5.5 right now. I\'m getting PMMA here soon so this is going to change.
It\'s like I\'m telling you, for me it\'s really not about the size, it\'s about my interaction with these women in the bedroom. I\'ve literally slapped women in the face in the kissing session before sex. These women are trying to kiss me and I\'m literally grabbing them by the hair, smacking their faces and throwing them on the bed. Not super hard or in a violent way, but in a very sexual lustful way, that intimidates them sexually. Then I\'m sliding a rock hard, thick Cock up and down their dripping panties. It\'s pure torture, and they are bursting for more. There may be something to the curvy, voluptuous thing, but I don\'t think it\'s that big at all, because I have banged some of those types of chicks too. Admittedly, I go for the tall slender chicks but who possess nice hips and asses. As for when they open up, that\'s just something that happens naturally and you can change gears with it. A good lover needs to pay attention to all those cues. If you see she\'s ready to take some more, then you can start giving her those deep long strokes, in escalating rhythm. This is why it\'s important to have great stamina, which I admittedly have a ton of. I pace myself so that I can go for a very long time. My session usually go between 1.5 to 3 hrs. I try to make each session epic, so they can remember it for the rest of their lives.
damn bro you need to write a book.. youre good. I think i\'m just more hung up on this than you, It really bothers me when everything is going well and then its like there is so much more room for so much more possibilities. Usually what i do is when they \"open up\" or fully tent their cervix with massive self-lubrication, I just put them on top so they can grind as hard as they want and they almost always cum this way also.
I do all those things also depending on the situation. I\'m very sexually open/positive and dominant I would like to think i\'m a good lover when i want to be. I think we are very similar, Your just better spoken and more confident with what you got... Its good to have someone to look up to my man.
Hey thanks, Bolk. That\'s what this site is for. Like you, I also find inspiration, knowledge and support here. Admittedly, for me it\'s less support and more inspiration and knowledge, but that\'s only because I\'m an older guy, and have experienced a lot in my life. If I was in my late teens and early twenties, I would have loved to have this resource. It really would have helped me a lot. Flying to Chicago as 22 yr old for a lig cut in 1995, based on a classified newspaper ad, was rough. But we didn\'t have the internet back then. So if I can give a little back, and also reap some benefits, then I\'m all for it. Pay it forward.
Mr. Bolk; Quote: \"Plus i think you have a psychological edge on me. You think your big. And i dont. I think there is something to be said about that mind set. \"
Right there, you know it. You are big by any standards. It is not about size as Chester mentioned. Notice how he \"primes them ladies\" waaaay before sex. women need foreplay hours in advance to really be \"into\" the guy. Sure, some will enjoy sex in any shape or form, but Chester is giving them the ultimate experience \"every time\". The best turn on for women is anticipation and confidence that a man exudes. I venture to say if Chester was 5x5 today, he\'ll still rock their worlds.
I am sure you know, but if a woman opens up and gets bigger during sex, tell her to squeeze her vagina as you pull out, dry your monster if she\'s too wet and slowly go back in, viola; a new tight pussy. I am sure you know certain positions will make her feel tight for you and you will fill her up more.
It is my experience that if you make a woman squirt, it is the best ego boosting feeling for the man and the woman will never forget you. Making them squirt has become my new goal in life. . Remember, most women want to squirt but they think it is peeing so they hold back. They have to feel very comfortable with their man and a little alcohol to loosen their inhibition does help. Nevertheless, I have had women who can never orgasm, either due to me, their body, some psychological factors or all!
I think you and Chester should meet up for a drink and a night out in town (with ladies of course LOL), then report back to us....
Good luck on your PMMA, but I advise you not to go for too much Girth like I did
Look maybe i\'m selling myself short here. I\'m pretty fucking good with women myself. I think i\'m a good lover and alot of women out there feel the same.
Funny you say that a woman should squeeze and she pulls out. I\'ve taught a few women this trick. I only know of it because once you have it done you dont forget it. Its like a vagina Jelqing your Dick and its an amazing thing all women should learn how to do. I\'ve had my upper part of my Dick jelqed by a vagina to become about 6\" in Girth. I say about because when i put my hand around my Dick i couldnt believe how thick i had become just from her Jelqing my Dick with her pussy.. it was really amazing.
I\'m doing almost all the things that chester is doing except i dont have an end goal of making a woman squirt. If it happens great if not no big deal. I just think i could use the mentality that i have a huge big swinging Dick even though i dont. Just keep in mind that i date mostly ethnic girls who are thick. So yea they get the mandingo cocks a whole lot more often then the Olympic swimming skinny white bitches chester is slaying. LmAo. no offense.
I do have sex with skinny white girls or even asians and yea i usually fill them up. I just dont have sex with them that much.
I am very sure you are being very modest and you impress your women easily. You like them \"meaty\" so they are bound to take more in...LOL. Personally I like them small, shapely and thin. We all have our preferences...
Bolkonsky wrote: So yea they get the mandingo cocks a whole lot more often then the Olympic swimming skinny white bitches chester is slaying. LmAo. no offense.
HA, HA, man you don\'t know how right you are! My ex is a former Olympic swimmer! And she\'s one of the women who had never had a vagina orgasm! But important note, she was also a mom who had given birth to a large child. Pussies vary, it\'s not just ethnic women who can handle bigger cocks.
Mustang is spot-on about my focus on building excitement and anticipation. The number one most important thing to prepare a woman for a truly epic sexual encounter is comfort. If you can make a woman comfortable with you, you can get her to do anything. The best way two assist the woman in arriving at a true sense of comfort is for you yourself to be totally comfortable. Her comfort is built off of yours, so you must always exude full conference. This means that you really need to be comfortable and confident with the equipment you have. Even if you think she\'s banged bigger guys, you need to believe that you\'re way better, that they\'re not even in your same league. As I mentioned before, some of the women I\'ve banged have had bigger guys, yet I\'m the one that\'s still in the picture, while they\'re long gone. A bigger Dick doesn\'t automatically mean a better fuck. You need to really understand that. Lots of guys with bigger dicks who don\'t know how to use it. Assume total control in the bedroom and make her feel like she is the luckiest person in the world to be there with you.
Ok, time for an update with pics. Admittedly, I haven\'t hung for about a month, but I was going pretty steady up until last month. I plan on starting up again in January, after the holidays, as I\'ll be traveling.
Here are stats, and a pic.
Starting'
EL: 6.25\"'
FL: 4\"'
EG: 5.5\"'
Today'
EL: 6.5\"
FL: 4.35'
EG: 5.5\"
So I\'ve gained a quarter Inch in EL since when I started, which is great. Everything else pretty much stayed the same from my last measurement, so I didn\'t bother with those pics. What I\'ve learned is that Hanging definitely works, but it\'s really, really slow going. A quarter Inch in 7-8 months, this isn\'t for everyone. You really have to be consistent with this. I honestly don\'t think I will wait to get to 7\" before I try out Ellanse. I\'m thinking 6.75\" is long enough. I have to say though, my EQ, which has always been very good, has been outstanding since I started Hanging.
