TOPIC: 5.5" Length and Under - How Has PMMA Affected Your Life?

I am just under 6\" Erect length. No woman that I have had sex with has made a comment that my length was a disappointment or an issue. The problem I have is that some positions, depending on the girl, and how hard my Erection is, can be difficult to achieve or maintain, i.e. cowgirl. It starts out during foreplay around just above 5\' length. It takes some good pounding to get to my max 6\".

I think if I I had 7 inches EL she would be more satisfied and I could tease her more too (women love that) by inserting it slowly and working it in deeper and deeper slowly'.slow deep strokes instead of rapid fire short and hard strokes. Which is my approach now. One thing I am fortunate to have though is big glans. Wade pointed this out to me when I had PMMA. My prep original mid shaft Girth was maybe 5\" max -on a good day. Now I am around 6.5-7\". I have to confirm that though. but my girl now commented she can\'t close her hand around and it she has big hands.

I speculate that 6.5\" EL would give me a big lift and make all the difference. I think that is the threshold for ideal length: 6-7\". That is the magic Inch. I am still trying to get there. I hope that is a realistic goal.

I mean this I the most caring , sincere way.... How is everything else ( besides your penis ) in your life? Although, unfortunately , the reality is we are hard on ourselves about Dick size, I really think others things can play a roll also. Like if being a real man was broke up in 10 parts , our Dick size being one of those parts. And every part being assigned a one if you are doing great there . So let\'s say you are successful in 6 of the ten, and have a less than ave penis, the some of the good makes you feel ok about yourself, but if you were a 9 out of ten . You would have fulfilled all but your penis size, you would feel much better about yourself and may cope with your penis size better! I am a 8 on the scale right now, and do realize I am lucky to be above ave. size ,but I still have inadequate feelings. A year ago I was a 6 , and during that time I was obsessed with my size and I wonder if I would have ever been satisfied with my size no matter how much PMMA I received. I think sometimes when we see other members, that keep going with more treatments and even go past their goals. And still not satisfied, may really need to work on other things much like I needed to and still do. I do not watch porn anymore period, and I really concentrate on everything but my insecurities about my size. It may explain why hung individuals would ever consider doing anything to their Dick. They may have a huge Dick but everything else is in the toilet and now they must live through their Dick to feel like a man. I hope this makes sense, and maybe it won\'t help anyone else but it helped me and I may never get PMMA and a year ago I was certain that I would get it. Last year I thought I was doing great in other areas, until I focused on them as hard as I was focused on my Dick. When I did that, I found I had much to improve!! Good luck

I am sorry to be a little off subject, but I think it should be considered. .

I believe HunkChunk has a small length (at least he started at 5\'), he had girls compliment the fact he\'s thick but not long (no risk to go too deep so less need to be cautious). He\'s had women somewhat addicted to his Dick.

Maybe reading or re reading his story could be some inspiration to you. Personal experience being 5.7-6 nbp is that it\'s not a problem at all (had only few small girls). Being one half Inch/one Inch more wouldn\'t hurt me but I honestly don\'t care for now, probably never will.

My advice would be the same I tell myself, try to enjoy life while you\'re improving it, things aren\'t black and white... I think having a positive mind is very important in everything and working on improvements help to forget insecurities, like Mudball said, it helps clearing the mind which helps to take big decisions.

Good luck!

Jelq Nicholson wrote: I believe HunkChunk has a small length (at least he started at 5\'), he had girls compliment the fact he\'s thick but not long (no risk to go too deep so less need to be cautious). He\'s had women somewhat addicted to his Dick.

Maybe reading or re reading his story could be some inspiration to you. Personal experience being 5.7-6 nbp is that it\'s not a problem at all (had only few small girls). Being one half Inch/one Inch more wouldn\'t hurt me but I honestly don\'t care for now, probably never will.

My advice would be the same I tell myself, try to enjoy life while you\'re improving it, things aren\'t black and white... I think having a positive mind is very important in everything and working on improvements help to forget insecurities, like Mudball said, it helps clearing the mind which helps to take big decisions.

Good luck!

5\" isn\'t small. It\'s where the average bracket begins. The most sensitive areas of the vagina are the outer (3\" - 4\") layers, and if you happen to have Girth, it\'s more than sufficient.

hey smalljay hows everything going? I haven\'t seen u on here in a while just checkin up on you. hope everything is going good with u. hows ur gaining coming along? did u gain anything yet? please keep us updated.

Girls never said anything about my 6\" length except that it was average. One girl told me I was perfect in length; anything longer would \"beat up my cervix\".

PMMA gave / gives me a bit more confidence in the bedroom but it also detracts from it a bit because it doesn\'t look exactly like a normal penis. Although it is pretty darn close. I\'m happy that I did PMMA and not grafting or something more invasive.

I\'m still planning to go back for round 2, but I need to get off my arse and book it.
My recommendation for you Smalljay - if you can\'t get your Dick off your mind is just go for it. Having a 10 month stretching campaign is pretty ridiculous. It is like a bandaid. You\'re better to just rip it off quickly than pull it off slowly in agony.

Just be aware of the risks. But you seem mentally distraught enough that I don\'t know what will cure your mind issues. Because of that I would say go for it. I\'m almost a year out and \"it ain\'t that bad\"

I don\'t think it makes nearly as much \"difference\" in bed as I imagined it would have (size). It is just a bit tighter at the end of the day. Funny IMHO actually. All of that stressing men make and at the end of the day size just makes it feel tighter for the man and woman. It isnt this epic difference that I imagined.

I think I said in another post, the difference I perceived was like a 10/10 of importance but then it (size) turned out to be more like a 6/10. It matters but it isn\'t the only thing. I think, really, your mind and mental confidence / state is probably like a 7/10 or 8/10 for the woman\'s sexual experience.

I am more or less this size.

My plan is to use the extender til the end of the year. Whatever happens (or not) I will have PMMA done, and I hope in the glans as well.

Girth is way more important than length, I guess.

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Bumping this thread, I feel like writing a bit about my size and surgery plans.

I am 5 inches EL and about equal Girth, my length worries me a bit but I\'ve realized there is not much to be done. I will stretch carefully for a few months in the hopes of reaching an Erect length of 14 cm (5.5 inches exactly) but I do not hold my breath.

Hopefully I can compensate for my underwhelming length by increasing my Girth, my goal will be a 2 cm increase going from 4.9 inches to 5.7.

In the end I will have a short but thick penis, how will that work?

Personally, I would be cautious of going much larger in Girth than your length. I think that it could throw off the natural aesthetics. Plus, a thicker penis automatically looks shorter than a thinner one of the same length. I think the biggest obstacle to natural aesthetics is shaft size compared to glans size. Just something to think about.

briceb wrote: Personally, I would be cautious of going much larger in girth than your length. I think that it could throw off the natural aesthetics. Plus, a thicker penis automatically looks shorter than a thinner one of the same length. I think the biggest obstacle to natural aesthetics is shaft size compared to glans size. Just something to think about.

Here\'s a fun visualising tool for penis sizes:

www.thevisualiser.net/visualiser

Well that cheered me up. I didn\'t realize that was how you measured bone pressed. I gained about half an Inch that way !!! I was doing it flush down the penis DOH!

smalljay wrote:

I appreciate that input a lot, and these are common concerns.

But after my own experiences with PMMA I have to say that I found both of those theories to be un true in my case. After PMMA (with swelling, etc), I\'ve found that even at 6\" Girth and 5.25\" Erect length non bone pressed my Dick still looked fine. Much better than and more attractive than before, anyways. I also didn\'t find the \'thicker looks shorter\' idea to be true either, although I know this theory has more basis behind it. But I\'m just saying that for me, personally, my unit did not look shorter once it got thicker (it looked shorter because it got shorter - my first round caused .25\" length loss). But once I got used to the new, shorter length and went in for another round, I actually looked longer and larger than ever directly after my second round when I was 6\" Girth.

So for all you shorter guys fretting about getting too fat for your length, I can tell you that from my experiences getting fat didn\'t make me look shorter - it just made my Dick look bigger. I\'m sure there is a point where certain massive girths would make it look shorter - but 6\" Girth was not a problem for my ~5.25\" length Erection. It was only a benefit.

We\'re the same length, how has the increase in Girth affected your sex life?

Is your length an issue at all or is truly all about the thickness, even if you measure a modest 5 inches?

Atlas Drugged wrote:
We\'re the same length, how has the increase in Girth affected your sex life?

Is your length an issue at all or is truly all about the thickness, even if you measure a modest 5 inches?

I really think that, once you get something like 6\" lenght, thickness is the most important thing in the penis sensation, not in sex.