I know it\'s a lot of money, but I think you should consider paying the '5000. I don\'t really understand why it\'s costing that much, as I think Mr Ralph\'s fee is usually around '1500, then he charges for the anaesthetist and the hospital. I think you must have been quoted for surgery on Harley Street at the London Clinic, but he also operates in St Johns Wood and the cost is '1000 less.
The reason I think you should consider staying is London is because Mr Ralph doesn\'t have any reputation or ego invested in your penis. Basically he\'ll put your health first and do what he thinks is best for the the future of your penis, rather than worrying about keeping the graft. Dr
Solomon has an incentive to try and save the graft. I\'m not saying Dr S will simply put your health second, but I doubt he\'ll be as objective about things as Mr Ralph. You also have the incentive of going with Dr S as he is offering to save the graft, which you want to keep. But is that the best thing at this juncture? Also and most importantly, what if things go wrong again? Surely there is going to be a wound over the graft for a week or two, so plenty of time for infection to get in. Surely you can\'t keep going back to the US. In a higher risk case like this I think you would be better off having surgery closer to home, just in case.
Sorry if my posts are causing you to feel confused about what to do and even more anxious. But when I first saw your photos I was very worried, but held back with my opinion, despite others telling me I should make it clear that I was very concerned. Maybe had I been a bit more alarmist you\'d be in a better position now. I can\'t tell you what to do and I\'m in no way qualified to either. Ultimately you have to do what you feel is right and what you feel most comfortable with. But don\'t let your determination to be bigger or come out of this experience with something positive, cloud your judgement. If you feel Dr S is genuinely the best option for a healthier outcome, then fly to Philly. But if you are doing it just try and save the graft so you can be bigger, I personally think you are taking too big of a risk.
It might be worth emailing your photos to Gary Alter and ask him what he thinks should be done. If there is one opinion I\'d trust above all others in the PE surgery industry it\'s his.