I've been lurking here now for two years and was thinking about PMMA in May of 2020 but decided against it, but it's always been in the back of my head.
I'm 31 yrs old with an average penis. I never really properly measured, but I'd say I'm about 5.6"-6" Erect depending on bone pressed, Erection quality, etc. However, I know that my penis is on the lower Girth average.
I divorced two years ago and when my wife left me, she said I had the smallest penis she'd ever been with. Before she left, she remarked how small it looked when it was Flaccid. I chalked this up to a scorned lover trying to get back at me. And yes, she did cheat on me. Another girl I was with just after her, we got in a fight, and she called me a noodle Dick. Again, I thought she was just trying to hurt my ego; however, that's when I found PhalloBoards and began researching.
Now, I've traveled the world and have had a few hundred sexual partners. I'm above average as far as physical looks and stature and have an outgoing personality. I've slept with very beautiful women, but I've never had any girl comment on the size of my member. Usually it's just a blank stare or an expressionless face when I remove my pants. Only girls who ever called me big were 18 and 19 girls with obviously not a lot of experience. Some come back for round two, but many just disappear. I've always thought it was my Dick size but I tried not to think about it. I'm dominant in bed, I'm a giver, and I normally last quite long. I recently had a beautiful woman ghost me and a few others that I really liked just not text back after our one night stand. I had one girl specifically comment it was small, I justified this by telling myself she was just lucky and had a hung ex bf. A girl last month asked me in bed "do you believe you are big?"
The straw that broke the camel's back came 3 nights ago. I met this beautiful woman on Hinge, exchanged some texts and I showed up at her apartment. She remarked how good looking I was and quickly led me up to her room. I saw the anticipation on her face as I took my pants off and you could see the disappointment in her face. She told me she didn't want to give me a blowjob, she got dry midway through, and basically kicked me out afterwards. I felt like shit. I knew what it was, but I had to know. Luckily, she was candid with me. I can't post photos, so I'll summarize below:
I asked to see her again and she replied and said she wasn't what I was looking for. I asked her to extrapolate and she replied that she was looking to recreate the hookups from a past lover that is now married. She said I didn't live up to her last experiences. I then asked if she was looking for a big Dick. She said "honestly, yes." I was at the gym when I read this and I just left early. I was devastated. So I asked her one more question. I asked if I was girthier, would my length be ok. She replied saying "yes, if you were girthier, your length would be ok for me."
I've had great sex with many women. Some come back for more and more, one a few months ago told me I should teach classes because I was so good, others stalk my social media and send me nudes, those girls are obviously pleased. I've been with many obvious 10s. My ex wife was a model, I've been with two fitness models, and a famous tik toker who is known for her booty. I think the reason I've been able to get such women over the years is my looks, height, and personality, but I can't help feeling I'm not pleasing them like I should.
But it's the ones that like I described earlier that stick with you. In highschool I had a girl laugh at a Dick pic I sent her and she told all her friends I was small. I am confident in a other matters in life, but I have crippling dysmorphia about the size of my penis.
I want to be confident knowing that I have a thick, girthy penis. I want to see women gasp as I enter, and remark on penis. I can live with my length, but I would like to be thick. I'd like to be confident in a bathing suit and being seen Flaccid by a woman.
I'm thinking of PMMA with Avanti Derma/Dr. Morales in a few months. However, I'm scared I'll get a deformed penis or never be able to have sex again. I don't want a giant 6" Girth or more as my head is sort of small and my length isn't that long. I'd be so happy with 5.5-5.7" Girth. I just want it to look and feel nice. I want my confidence back. I literally haven't left my room in 3 days, what that girl said really hurt me as a man.
Damn bro, sorry to hear that. It's crazy how it's socially OK for woman to body shame men but if the shoe were on the other foot it would be a huge problem. In high school an ex of mine was going around telling people I had a small Dick but I'm a Grower not a shower. She even got people to start chanting " little Dick little Dick" at a football game. The crazy thing is compared to "average" stats I'm not little at all at 7 x 5.25. The underlying factor to my incident and yours is that Flaccid size seems to be altering the perception of some of these woman. But at the end of the day, the bad experience stills weighs heavily on the minds of guys that have experienced it. My incident happened in 2003 and 20 years later I still feel small hence the reason I am here. As far as whether or not you should take the leap of faith, I think you should consult with Avanti as to what your options are and make an informed decision from there. Ultimately it is your Dick and you only get one so the risk calculation should be done by you backed by the medical expertise of a doctor. I personally have leaned more and more towards surgimend but only because I am bit of a perfectionist and aesthetics and a one and done are the most important factor for me. However, there is far greater risk involved with surgery. Good luck and I hope you can achieve your goals.
Thanks for this post, i really appreciate posts like this, with man telling about their life experience, i find it very very interesting
- Women rarely comment on dick size
Since i am the biggest (6x 5.4 inches girth) 13 out of 15 women said nothing about it at all, 'expressionless face when i remove my pants'. (2 commented that it's big)
And when i was 3.9 inch girth also no woman commented anything on my penis (one actually said 'i like your penis', or was it love, i don't remember anymore).
On bigdickproblems forum the very large members (9x6.5 or smth) always had comments about size, while people smaller than that but larger than me still report no comments from women.
I also remember one large member there saying there is 30 men commenting on his penis picture for every woman.
And i know a bisexual man who has a big member and he said guys are in awe and compliment him and worship him, while women just don't react to it much at all..
- I guess my thread is known, i speak about how what women say their ideal size penis is (they chose from 33 wood penisses with different lengths/girths) - the average of the ideal penisses is a totally-non-impressive size (6.4x5 inches). To get an 'omg, what a great penis!' reaction i think you need combination of: 1. a giant dick 2. a sizequeen phalloboards.info/forum/lust-love-vanity...like-them-to-be.html
- You had sex with over 100 women, you encountered some that like bigger dick than yours (i encourage you to calculate the % of where you really know that they would love bigger dick than yours)
"I've had great sex with many women. Some come back for more and more, one a few months ago told me I should teach classes because I was so good, others stalk my social media and send me nudes, those girls are obviously pleased. I've been with many obvious 10s. My ex wife was a model, I've been with two fitness models, and a famous tik toker who is known for her booty. I think the reason I've been able to get such women over the years is my looks, height, and personality, but I can't help feeling I'm not pleasing them like I should."
I think your theory is that bigger is obviously better,
that this one women 100% wanted it bigger (i agree) + all the other women would have also obviously liked it bigger. I thought exactly the same in the past. It seemed extremely logical to me.
And then i read more. And my ex told me that my girth was actually painful for her. While i thought for a long time before that she perhaps could like it bigger. So i just wanna point out that you see the one women who wanted bigger, and you don't see how many of the over 100 women you had sex with enjoy your current penis-girth more than 5.5 inches girth.
- I encourage you to get pmma (with avantiderma). And if something bad would happen at the procedure I would feel bad for that sentence - and i think the procedure is a very safe one (little irregularities are i guess common with pmma, but i would watch a lot of pics from reports here to see them). And i think if you are under average girth (what is your girth!!?) and you have the big wish to make it girthier, then it seems like a nobrainer to me to do it and have one less worry and just feel better about yourself.
MacVette07 wrote: Damn bro, sorry to hear that. It's crazy how it's socially OK for woman to body shame men but if the shoe were on the other foot it would be a huge problem. In high school an ex of mine was going around telling people I had a small Dick but I'm a Grower not a shower. She even got people to start chanting " little Dick little Dick" at a football game. The crazy thing is compared to "average" stats I'm not little at all at 7 x 5.25. The underlying factor to my incident and yours is that Flaccid size seems to be altering the perception of some of these woman. But at the end of the day, the bad experience stills weighs heavily on the minds of guys that have experienced it. My incident happened in 2003 and 20 years later I still feel small hence the reason I am here. As far as whether or not you should take the leap of faith, I think you should consult with Avanti as to what your options are and make an informed decision from there. Ultimately it is your Dick and you only get one so the risk calculation should be done by you backed by the medical expertise of a doctor. I personally have leaned more and more towards surgimend but only because I am bit of a perfectionist and aesthetics and a one and done are the most important factor for me. However, there is far greater risk involved with surgery. Good luck and I hope you can achieve your goals.
Dude, I can't believe that girl did that to you. Especially since you're huge! 7" is way above average length and that's thick too. I'd be happy to have your Girth at the moment.
Thanks for your reply. I'm going to reach out to Avanti Derma to see if I'd be a good candidate for PMMA. I'd rather do conservative sessions than overdue it. Aesthetics and safety are the main concern for me. You went from 3.9" to 5.4" Girth? Was this over 1 session and did you go to Avanti Derma? You're pleased with the results or will you go back for more? Were you 3.9" Erect Girth starting?
I'd say that if I broke it up percentage wise as to those who weren't pleased, I'd say maybe 10-15% of women. Some girls disappear, they don't initiate the sex or seem disinterested in subsequent hang outs, or the one like the Hinge date just outright say it. So, I've had my ex wife, the Hinge date, and two other lovers call me small. I remember a few times with different girls, I wanted to do it again that same night. One girl laughed and said "why?" I said so we can enjoy. She rolled her eyes laughed and said "Enjoy? You mean for you?" Another girl I remember she was on top and I think she thought I had slipped out but I actually didn't, she reached down to 'put me back in' and when she found out I was still inside, she laughed. I'm sure there's more examples, but this is just a few I can think of. Oh, also, I've had a bunch of women that were in long-term relationships or married that I've had sex with, but they usually only do it once. I guess because I don't stack up in that department. I've had maybe 2 girls continue an affair with me and see me often. All the others it was just one and done.
But the thing is, I've been traveling pretty much full time for 2 years now. I love women and pursuing them and I love sex. I've probably had sex with 300 women, maybe more. Usually, I'm only looking for fun so usually don't hit up girls for round two. So, it's really hard to gauge how many girls actually really enjoyed it. Had I asked them all to come back for more, how many would? I guess I could never answer that question.
As far as my actual Girth, I don't know at the moment. I believe it is around 4.5" Erect but I'm going to try to get a hold of a tailor tape soon and get precise measurements.
Go for it bro. I haven't been with as many women as you but I've had a lot and my sexual experiences since I've had it done have been so much better. I had my first round of PMMA at Avanti done in December 2022 and have been with six women since. Three of them were girls who had been with me pre-op and they definitely loved the new size. The other three have been hooked on me (which may be due to a combination of my personality, looks, confidence, sexual prowess, etc) but none the less they are persistent in seeing me again and I honestly feel that my thicker than average Dick is a huge bonus to them. I just turned 30 and discovered this website about six months ago. It took me a long time to pull the trigger but I'm damn sure glad I did. It was worth every dollar and truthfully I wish I knew about it ten years ago
Dude! That's awesome! Did you post your progress report here with before and after pics. If so, could you link it? What were your measurements before and after? Do you think you'll do a round 2? I'm so happy everything worked out for you!
Average western girth seems to be 4.75inches ( calcsd.info/
). I can imagine 10-15% women not being happy with 4.5 inches. When i was small i didn't notice women not hanging out anymore, and it could be the case it bothered them a bit but they just don't say anything, and it's not the biggest thing for them. Bestselling dildo study and 'women choose wooden penis shape' both had 5 inches as ideal size ( phalloboards.info/forum/lust-love-vanity...like-them-to-be.html
). I could imagine at eg 5.5 10% of women find it 'too girthy' and having a little pain, and also not mention anything. Mathematically it would make sense to me, 5 inches being the average of the ideal sizes, 4.5inch 10% not happy cause too thin, at 5.5 10% not happy cause too girthy. And i guess every man on earth including me would prefer to be 'too big' than 'too small'.
You're hung like a damn horse now! And you're so lucky to have that length too. You look very long. I read through your journal, looks like Dr. Morales did a wonderful job on you. Did you have your second round with Avanti in January? What was your Erection Girth before you started your journey?
Rybrad wrote: Dude! That's awesome! Did you post your progress report here with before and after pics. If so, could you link it? What were your measurements before and after? Do you think you'll do a round 2? I'm so happy everything worked out for you!
Great contribution. If you have funds, and are concerned with possible irregularities, HA is a great temporary option. Search about it here. And I would say that you follow the Post-Care chat that Texas put together. If you go straight for PMMA, the first 3 days are the most crucial. I took the plunge with PMMA at Avanti earlier this July. They are great and top notch. I'm at 5.9 Girth now with similar length and it's been good but we're used to it now and I'm considering a 2nd round soon. I started at 5.2 in Girth but I wasn't always that thick to start - I used to jelq and hyrdropump 3-4 times a week, followed by cockring for a six months straight and I think that's what helped with the gains (I was at about 4.8 to start). Besides the gains, it also gave me rock hard veiny results and I would fuck like a pornstar too (also due in part to edging). I don't know what your EQ is like, but it sounds like some of your issues are also around maintaining firmness so that might be due to diet and/or alcohol/smoking. Regardless, I don't have any deformities like you're worried about with PMMA, only the fact that there's no product in my shelf area (circ scar). When it's Flaccid, it's a nice bulge. Overall, I would say that if you have doubts, try pumping for a month straight following a procedure and see if you gain anything. Otherwise, be prepared for the fact you'll likely have to go back a second round to correct/address any issues you find after your 1st session. Good luck!