Has anyone ever found a solution to this problem?
I've never met anyone who has actually "cured" themselves of this, only sellers of useless books, courses and products.
My quality of life has been affected by this. I don't leave the house anymore, I don't look for women, even though I'm not an attractive guy, I avoid exposing myself to social situations as much as possible so that no woman is interested in me and I have to refuse. The last time I "had sex" was exactly on 06/22/2019 – and I write "had sex" in quotation marks 'cause my failed attempts cannot be called having sex. In addition to already having some inferiority complexes ('cause of the size and circumference of my penis, for example), I suffer from very severe premature ejaculation, and it's embarrassing. To name a few situations, I've already cum while only having 3 penetrations, I've cum with only 1 penetration, I've cum while putting on a condom (as soon as I unroll it and it covers the glans, the urge to ejaculate comes, when I try to unroll it along the shaft, everything ends there), I've cum in my pants even without taking off my shirt, just by kissing the girl in bed, this after having masturbated and ejaculated 15 min before the date 'cause they told me it would help me wait a little longer until the next ejaculation, but it was worse.
Receiving oral sex I can last about 15 seconds, the only times I've managed to do something was by using a strong anesthetic ointment used for tattoos; I spread a little on the glans, a little on the
Frenulum, and a little on the dorsal part of the shaft to decrease sensitivity, this was enough for me to lose EQ and not enough to last a good amount of time, I still wasn't able to last 1 minute. I gave up, I'm tired of being embarrassed, I've been running away from women like vampires run away from daylight, it's completely frustrating.