Hey guys, I just found this site and wanted to share my story and hopefully get some advice.
For reference, I am about 5.75" length and 5" Girth.
I meet this amazing woman. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fall in love and get married 3 months after meeting. I have been very happily married to her going on 31 years. And get this, she is in great shape and is still a knockout. Our daughter's guy friends probably have fantasies about her. She is a freak of nature. Now I am not chopped liver, but she was always way out of my league. I remember telling the women I worked with that I had met this beautiful woman, and they were BLOWN AWAY when she came into the office. Basically they wanted to know HOW THE HELL I LANDED HER? Okay so now you get the picture.
When I met her she was sort of dating this guy, and he was huge. She is tiny. Anyways, we met and she told him it was over. Needless to say he was pissed but she never spoke with him again. From the first time we slept together it wasn't tight down there. Now she had a kid but this guy had loosened her up. I never really wanted to discuss the topic with her, but I knew the deal and it has always bothered me. I guess I feel like her first husband (she was a virgin) and this guy got a nice tight penetration, and we are here for 30+ years and we have never experienced that together. I felt like we were robbed.
Now our sex life is awesome. Every single time we make love we both orgasm. I make her orgasm orally stimulating her g-spot while licking her clit. She has BOOM big o's too. Sometimes I just sit there in amazement wondering why the hell I don't get those blasts? She pretty much blows me to end the session, and let me just say that she takes to the task with an enthusiasm that is something to behold. And as a bonus she swallows every single time.
So from my standpoint I think I have won the lottery like a thousand times over with her. I think it says a lot about my wife that the big Dick was not the deciding factor, and she chose love. But she has a hard time reaching orgasm via penetration, and I think the stretch and friction are just not enough to stimulate her. I want to give her that stretch and have her orgasm with penetration. Right now I can only do that orally, and it is just not enough for me. It is really important to me.
But the thought of that guy getting to stretch her pussy out while I barely feel it just eats away at me. I literally have PTSD thinking of that guy ramming it into her, and this was 30+ years ago. It is never going to go away unless I do something about it. So here we are.
Sorry for the graphic details, but I figured I might as well start my first post out with a bang lol.
Okay, so here is where we are. Once Covid blows over she is going to get vaginoplasty surgery to tighten her up down there. From what I have read it puts the old vagina back to pre birth size. She is doing it for us, and I love that she is willing to do that. But I feel like a shit to put this all on her, so I am planning on doing my own augmentation as well. Plus, even if she is tighter I want her to see a much bigger Dick coming from me, and not from memories of her past.
So here are my questions...
1. Is PMMA the way to go? I am really looking to add Girth. I would like to add about 2" if possible.
2. I have read that PMMA is long lasting, and I can always do another round if needed down the road. Is the long lasting option only available in Mexico?
3. How many rounds do you think I would need to add 2" Girth?
4. If I didn't do PMMA what other options do I have? Again, I need that Girth gain.
1/3 PMMA is the way to go if you want a permanent option. It’s also cheaper. Where are you getting the 2 Inch Girth goal from? She is getting tightening surgery and you want to be 7-7.25 eg? Where are you getting that that is what would be ideal? Is the length you’re reporting bone pressed? You have to consider how that will look at your length and also consider how big your glans are if that’s something that would bother you. In my opinion it would take at least four full rounds spaced 4-6 months apart. (Dr. C will tell you to wait 6 months probably after the second session) That’s if you average .5 a session and Dr. C is comfortable giving you that much. If you don’t hit a .5 average you’ll need more product and Dr. C I think has a threshold for some patients. But it’s possible for sure. The length might help jump start some larger gains but there are reports from guys who get later sessions where the gains aren’t as consistent.
2. It’s not long lasting, well it is, but it’s permanent. I believe you can also get this procedure done in Brazil and Prague.
4. There are a lot of options. Ellanse, Radiesse, HA, Voluma, Sculptra, Fat Transfer...
You should do some research on this board about those. There’s also the Penuma Implant which no one on here will recommend for obvious reasons if you do research. Essentially Ellanse is being used the most here after PMMA due to how long it lasts and the firm feel of it compared to HA.
Thanks for chiming in. I think you are right and I should be more realistic. Maybe a better plan would be to have the wife do the procedure, which should fit her vagina to my size, then let that unfold and see how it goes. If she is too tight maybe I do nothing on my side. Or maybe I wait and see how much she loosens up, and then maybe do one session of PMMA to get things tightened up again. So instead of having a goal of having a huge Dick maybe a more balanced approach is having a nice snug fit and maintaining it through PMMA periodically as needed. That might be the ticket to keeping the friction up without the pain or long recovery time.
I’m not sure you realize how big 7” is around. It’s massive and maybe much more than you want. Also with your length and I don’t know your glans size but that girth most likely will not look good. I honestly think you can be exactly where you want to be with maybe just 1 session. Yes PMMA is permanent and I think at this point a .75 inch gain is pretty common, I wouldn’t bank on it but it’s extremely possible. You’d be at 6” girth which is real big and most likely bigger than her ex. You can go from there man, if you feel like you need to get another session than do it. Is she okay with you doing it?
Thanks for the advice. She is fine with me doing it but has no real idea how far i want to go. I think the plan will to have her do the vaginal tightening first, see how well that works, and then add a session as needed to keep things perma tight. At least that is the plan.
Being married for that long I’m going to assume you’re not a spring chicken. You’re old enough to know that all women can’t come from PIV sex. Majority of women can’t. Injecting yourself with PMMA not gonna guarantee she comes from PIV. You should do more research.
Also to add you’re gonna look silly with a 5.75 x 7” penis. I don’t even think those detentions exist naturally on any man. You’re too short for that Girth.