TOPIC: anxiety and it's correlation to size

Despite consolidation from Internet resources who present empirical evidence of what a normal penis size is. I have spoken with many guy\'s who still feel as if their size is not adequate, myself included. I became curious about why exactly this is and after much contemplation I realized that this matter maybe the result of subjective View vs objective view. And this issue is a source of great anxiety for allot of men ,despite the evidence that has been put forth. So the question is for my fellow board members who have experience some form of self-consciousness or anxiety does the add inches do anything to take away from self-doubt?

Buy a Fleshlight. That\'s probably the best practice tool I know of.

Aren\'t there lubes that desensitize the penis? What I used to do when I was younger more apt to shoot too quickly and was using a rubber, was to double it up. That actually works.

Sorry, I change the topic but thanks .ordering a flesh light does sounds like a good way of increasing stamina

Yes, adding inches does improve self-confidence. Those who have added the inches (and Girth) can tell of the effect on the same women they were used to before. The \"empirical\" values are scientists\' way of explaining away what they realise is evident, as they did for the UFO\'s.

I think adding some inches can help, but it all really depends. I\'m no expert but I truly believe women enjoy Girth more then length, and then there are some who want both so it\'s like we can\'t win. Whether you get longer or thicker do it for you, because you can still change and even then they treat you like crap.

This is true that in doing something for the sake of someone else\'s happiness or satisfaction will most likely be incessant. The view which I want to draw attention to is (when I think about is contradictory) is there some relief gained (no pun intended ) for them once they\'ve gained ? Although the answer may seem pretty clear

I agree with you, I think the answer is clear. With any anxieties, it is alleviated when there is success in some form.

I have many anxieties over the years, such as, can I get the price I want when selling house, or can I do this new job. Will people understand and appreciate my input in the workplace. and so on and so on. Did I say the right thing........ - But we try and cope and move on in some form with or without success.
but all can be debilitating. Penis size is just another.

I think it is where success springs from which can change self perception on adequacy of penis size.

Finding a partner with no issue on size is possible, I have experienced this. Surgery and PE can bring success also, as has been seen on this site.
Perhaps therapy brings change.

OR even being in a situation where issues of survival take higher concern than penis size. I am not sure a starving teen in any part of the 3rd world has attention stuck on penis size, nor his partner is worried also.

It is relative to circumstance.

There is a lot of combined experience on this site to draw from, as well as somewhere to express your thoughts, and read those of others, which I think does alleviate anxiety too.

Steven.