I think the most important thing now is to get your penis back in shape, Priapus shots might be one way to encourage healing, dissolve scar tissue and improve erections.
They won\'t do much for your size but might be helpful for your penis.
I wouldn\'t even think of stretching or surgery to increase size for long time after this injury.
It is likely you damaged the tissue and possibly some nerves, and those might take time to heal. eventually, in 99% of the cases, they do heal.
Throw your pump, and don\'t think of any tools to increase until you are very much healed.
If you have sex without any enjoyment and go all gung ho to \'pleasure her\", you won\'t pleasure her, because she won\'t find you really enjoying her body and her.
You\'re all lost in the \"task\" to prove your self you are a good lover or whatever...all of that is bull, it is not about technique, it is about her seeing you being relaxed and enjoying your self and enjoying her, then she can feel the space to open her self as well.
I am 4.5
Girth and 5 at the base, and never had problem to make a woman orgasm. I have been with girls who had many partners before, and they loved the sex with me, one night stands and calling after that, and long ter relationships as well. Many times have noticed that women orgasm when I orgasm, simply because our sexual excitement excites them. If you have given the whole sexual act \"to be or not to be\", \"i deserve or don\'t deserve to live in this world\" kind of weight, what pleasure can you get from it?
And if you don\'t get any pleasure, what pleasure can you give to her? She will feel your tension, and the unnatural weight you have given to the sexual act it self, and to HER. And off course she won\'t find it pleasurable, but mostly because you your self too are not really finding that kind of act pleasurable.
And if she brings the size, just laugh with it, joke with it. Why so serious? If she can orgasm fro your thong or your fingers, she can definitely orgasm from your 5
Inch Dick too. You really think one or two fingers depth makes such a horrible difference? If you have the relaxation and confidence to pass to her, and make her feel safe, relaxed and confident, seeing you enjoying her body, she will like that and eventually allow her self to orgasm as well.
You are playing games with your self by choosing to believe things that are not really true, or only are one small aspect f the whole picture, and blowing them up by making them everything. If you make 5% to be 100%, well, then you will have a distorted picture of reality, bro.