TOPIC: Keep in mind ...

@jogift: I get that there are women out there who combine pain with pleasure. I just don\'t think it\'s the majority. That said, I know I\'m in a 30 plus year relationship so my personal experience is limited. I just don\'t buy into the whole \"50 shades of grey\" bullshit. That\'s not to say we\'re into only vanilla.

If you really love someone then why would you want to cause them pain? And if someone really loves themselves then why would they want or let someone to hurt them? Doesn\'t make sense to me...

And one article doesn\'t count as research. I don\'t have counter research but I don\'t need to. No interest in hurting my wife. My kids, I hope, would have the same response to their wives and husbands. Just saying...

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And Restoration, I try to be empathic but not for self-pity. A little research on how many women buy dildos with lumps and serrations?

I\'m gay, jofigt. I\'ve stated this in about 100 posts. Gay men know Dick...ok? There is no self pity here. I would never hook up with someone who had a bunch of lumps in their Dick - and the same goes for all gay men. The majority of sex is oral. Nobody wants lumps in their mouth. I don\'t care what dildos women buy. Gay men aren\'t interested in a lumpy Dick. Besides, women know what the anatomy should be like. We had a member here catching his GF googling \"lumpy penis\" in the past.

Can your elaborate on your \"Self pitty\" comment? Are you referring to my open oozing wound for 2 months when my Nodule was removed? Self pity by smalljay for having being botched by Avanti\'s aftercare protocol? and Jewdub\'s mess ? This is not \"self pity.\" We were all fucked up. Fact.

Anyway, I just got two blow jobs tonight. So much for \"self-pity\". What I went through this summer was fucking torture. Fact. Not \"self pity.\" It\'s over now. Also, Fact. And, the word you want is \"empathetic\" not \"empathic\" - this isn\'t star trek the next generation, and you are not deanna troi. Regardless, you\'re lacking in knowledge and \"empathy\" - so don\'t post until you know what you\'re talking about.

Your number 5 is way off. It would be a little like going down on a woman with lumps in her vagina, and saying to yourself - that\'s a little odd, but no biggie, and keep on eating, lol - there are naturally ugly dicks, but lumps usually aren\'t on the menu.

I think most of these are way off base. It seems like there\'s been a lot of pseudo intellectual nonsense on this board recently. Some of these newer posters are just a bit off...

so well said jogfit! i totally agree with almost everything. No women i sleep with is really going to care about a Nodule. If she does then she can GTFO.

I personally love me some sloppy roast beaf sandwich pussy so bring it on.

For all of you thinking nodules are a bad thing. Look up PENIS BEADING... I\'ve seen this stuff personally and helped do some operations. Its more common than you all think. Its desired not detested.

The only thing i disagree with jogfit on is the novelty thing. A huge Dick is a huge Dick and will always be huge. its not a normal Dick after the first few times to women. and no women dont forget that they have a big Cock at home and become nonchalant about it.