TOPIC: swinging and Orgies

That\'s why I am creating this group of people happynow. Most big guys feel more estimulated by showing his dicks to other guys than having sex. I dont like it, and there other guys who dont like it also. To avoid people like you, I try to create a group of man, more or less of the same size, who like swing and orgies and dont have this fetiche of comparing his Dick with others

Swinging is good and dandy, but even guys with large to adequate penises can feel insecure in a group setting. There\'s a great deal of perceived expectations to perform as well or if not better than the other males which can make even the largest penis in the room fail to \"rise\" to the occasion. The best experiences are when you\'re the only Dick in the room. Even if you finish early, you can hang back and watch the girls be girls.

Swinging is good and dandy, but even guys with large to adequate penises can feel insecure in a group setting. There\'s a great deal of perceived expectations to perform as well or if not better than the other males which can make even the largest penis in the room fail to \"rise\" to the occasion. The best experiences are when you\'re the only Dick in the room. Even if you finish early, you can hang back and watch the girls be girls.

I completly agree with you, justdoit (and I also want to take this oportunity to directly thank you for reporting you procedure progress. It is amazing results congrats). But to me there are a little more in this subject than it looks like, I\'ll try to explain:1- I dont accept, to pay for sex. These prostitutes can eat their own shit if you pay enough, it really disgusts me. And being a normal (maybe ugly) guy, I could only have threesomes 3 time in my life so far, into two of them the other girl was planning to steal my girlfriend (not a problem, it just made the game more interesting).2- One of my first sexual experiences was with a friend\'s sister, she was more than 10 years older than us (I was about 13) and she used to training us to fuck her, and one of her female friends, in different positions. It sounds abusive (and it was) but these are good memories. This is the root of may interest in group sex.3- In my country, my ex girlfriend and my best friends\'s girlfriend started to date each other, few years ago (after a conversation about this topic during a party). Few time later some minors friend added their girlfriends in this game and eventualy our girlfriends used to have sex together. So to me this group setting was always between good friends, so I had never felt this pressure or insecurity.The problem to me started when I moved to spain. I have a new girlfriend here, who know my previous experiences, accept it and have some interest in this subject. As we are going to live 4 years here, I started to look into \"swinging scene\" here and finaly face this problem. So as a scientist, I began try to fix it.

Ive been in a gangbang where there was a confirmed 9.5inch penis, 2 guys over 7\'\' including myself. The guy with the biggest Cock was not able to get hard.

So, the longest (obviously I was the thickest by far) Cock in the room isnt always the most confident. If a woman has to choose between a 6inch hard penis and a 9.5inch soft penis.....which will she choose?

As we all know - Size matters, there is another method to increase length.

After that you will be happy as he does!

Melo11, STOP... You are spamming the forum and it\'s obvious.

I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn\'t interested in other guys, so she\'s working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don\'t like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I\'m just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn\'t my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can\'t abide that.

Nice!

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn\'t interested in other guys, so she\'s working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don\'t like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I\'m just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn\'t my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can\'t abide that.

Well said Dance With Dragons, I respect guys like you who are honest and brave enough to expose these desires for their wifes. A group of guys destroying my wife is not interesting for me neither.But I can\'t understand why two couples, that are looking for a girl, stay months (sometimes years) searching for it (without involve money) without see the obvious solution of introducing their wifes each other and let then play... You dont have to share you wife with another man, but you will give her a female friend to have sex with (in front of you). It makes the waiting of finding a girl for MFF more easy and pleasurable.

sorry for bad english. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn\'t interested in other guys, so she\'s working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don\'t like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I\'m just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn\'t my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can\'t abide that.

Experience tells me your wife is protecting your feelings by not acting like she wants another man.

Typically couples new to swinging will search for a single woman. It\'s ridiculously common.

I suggest you stay away from swinging or adding a woman, obviously you\'re not in the right state of mind to share your partner. You would have trouble watching your wife with a woman she truly enjoys. And if she cares enough about you to try another women...she probably will not enjoy it either.

If you cannot be equal partners in everything, stay away.

Of course you could be the exception to the rule, but it\'s doubtful. I\'ve seen this scenario too many times to count.

Good luck

Bateria wrote:

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn\'t interested in other guys, so she\'s working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don\'t like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I\'m just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn\'t my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can\'t abide that.

Well said Dance With Dragons, I respect guys like you who are honest and brave enough to expose these desires for their wifes. A group of guys destroying my wife is not interesting for me neither.But I can\'t understand why two couples, that are looking for a girl, stay months (sometimes years) searching for it (without involve money) without see the obvious solution of introducing their wifes each other and let then play... You dont have to share you wife with another man, but you will give her a female friend to have sex with (in front of you). It makes the waiting of finding a girl for MFF more easy and pleasurable.

sorry for bad english. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

That is called girl/girl and it\'s not swinging. It\'s basically like buying popcorn at the movies and not getting to eat any.

Seriously, it takes a lot of stability to swing with your partner.... now add into the situation a male who has insecurities about his Penis to start with?

**Yoda**

Problems in your future I see.......

thehulk wrote:

Bateria wrote:

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn\'t interested in other guys, so she\'s working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don\'t like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I\'m just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn\'t my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can\'t abide that.

Well said Dance With Dragons, I respect guys like you who are honest and brave enough to expose these desires for their wifes. A group of guys destroying my wife is not interesting for me neither.But I can\'t understand why two couples, that are looking for a girl, stay months (sometimes years) searching for it (without involve money) without see the obvious solution of introducing their wifes each other and let then play... You dont have to share you wife with another man, but you will give her a female friend to have sex with (in front of you). It makes the waiting of finding a girl for MFF more easy and pleasurable.

sorry for bad english. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

That is called girl/girl and it\'s not swinging. It\'s basically like buying popcorn at the movies and not getting to eat any. Seriously, it takes a lot of stability to swing with your partner.... now add into the situation a male who has insecurities about his Penis to start with? **Yoda** Problems in your future I see.......

Thank you for the advise thehulk I really appreciate it. As you can conjecture from my previous posts here, I am already in Swinging. The configuration that you mention above was just me trying to talk about the other possibilities for non swinging couples. But, due to my low level of english, I think that I wasn\'t clear and I dont want to try explain any further.
The point is that I am ready to live in a world full of guys bigger then me. I am not afraid. And thanks God there are a lot o girls out there who can truly enjoy average guys. In addition there are some girls who are not able to handle big guys but love sex anyway. We just have to be brave enough to find them.
I had two experiences so far in Europe, bouth was MFFM, and the guys were slightly bigger then me. In my country we are about 3 or 4 couples and I never felt bad between them.

It becomes less about the size of your Penis and more about quality fun the longer you swing.

Obviously size matters, but average is very well received in the lifestyle. It just so happens, I\'m not able to enjoy anal anymore due to mys size... average guys can, I\'m jealous of that.

You can\'t be jealous of shapes and sizes in the lifestyle. You won\'t last, neither will the couples who only do MFF because one of them is insecure. Very few couples only due that, the ones that do typically have a lesbian who for some reason is with a man. (I\'ve actually ran into that believe it or not)

As always,

Good luck

I have no issue if my wife genuinely wants some Dick variety, I just don\'t like the power structure of the swinger scene. There\'s way too many guys who end up not getting as much ass as their wives get new Dick. It\'s all slanted. There\'s tons of stuff online where guys are lamenting swinging because their wives end up getting fucked but they as guys all too often don\'t because most of the women in the swinging scene aren\'t as into fucking other guys as they are fucking other women or who are just so picky they rarely fuck the guy from the other couple, but if your wife is down, she\'s always getting fucked.

No, I would say if my wife wants Dick variety I am 100 percent cool with it, but I\'ll be free to shop for top quality ass at a bar or club then. That\'s the only way I see it as equal. Maybe it\'s just a dominance thing with me, but I like to be able to game females on the open range, not in a closed system where women with all their needs met are walking around an all you can eat buffet. It\'s just unnatural to me.

Convince me I\'m wrong though.