TOPIC: Sex With New GF

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Hulk- Truth always trumps lies. The folks lying know and the chicks respect you more for being secure enough to not have to lie.

Sizemic wrote: Interesting thread! I have 2 things to add that are somewhat related.

As far as size estimating... my current girl told me the other day that she was bragging to her friends about my Cock. Of course all of her friend\'s boyfriends were 8\"+ or more... one was even 10\" ... <- Girls will even say their average boyfriends have big dicks... it\'s not till the break up that they suddenly have tiny ones...

She then said to me, \"Yours is 9 inches right? I said it was 9 inches and about as thick as my wrist!\" (she has tiny wrists).

My response was: \"Honey... no it\'s about 8 inches (white lie but BPEL I\'m almost there) and your wrist is only like 5.5 inches thick... I\'m 7 inches thick.\"

She then said \"Oh, whoops\".

She overestimated the length then severely UNDER estimated the Girth. I have no clue how in the hell she could have thought I was only as thick as her wrist... I\'m thicker than the thickest part of her forearm even...

Then I found this cardboard tube that a painting (print) was delivered to my house in. It had to be about 6.5\" thick and 6.25\" inner diameter.
I grabbed it and said: \"How much do you want to bet that my Dick will not fit inside that tube?\"

Her: \"Are you kidding... a baseball bat could fit inside that thing!\"

I grab the tube and whip out my Flaccid Dick and sure enough it won\'t fit even halfway in.

Her: \"OMG... and that fits inside me? You must be making me so loose now!\"

I could tell that it actually legitimately upset her that something that big could fit inside her. I had to spend the next hour explaining to her that I am NOT permanently stretching her out and that she is just as tight as the day we met etc... I honestly am starting to worry that she will end things BECAUSE she thinks that I will stretch her out and she will somehow become undesirable because of it.

Moral of all this... women have a fucked up perception of things. One minute they are bragging to their friends about it... comparing it to objects that come nowhere near the same size... then the next minute they are getting upset because they realize you are actually really big. Women and men just have different brains.

Man, some people just have no ability to guess sizes.

When my wife and I talk to a couple for swinging, a lot of times the guy will say he\'s 8 or 9 inches and super thick. When in fact he\'s more like 6 inches and a little over 5 inches in Girth. But They get away with claiming they have a 9 Inch penis. It bugs the shit outta me, most of us on here can look at a penis and tell if it\'s even close to being 9 inches so I guess I have an advantage over most non PE\'ers.

It\'s just funny, I told my wife I\'m gonna start telling people I have a 9 Inch penis, hell... they\'ll believe it.

messageman wrote: DWD So if I got this right, ypur girlfriend can\'t feel a 7 Inch Girth? Well, if that\'s the case, the issue is with her and not with you...And statistically speaking, there is basically no man (with a natural Girth) that would be able to satisfy her (Girth-wise) at least. And length-wise, you are significantly above average. It does bother me that we live in a society in which the man is basically solely responsible for this aspect of sex ( vagina/penis match)...when often times it is not the case of the penis being big enough, but rather the vagina being small enough. I could never imagine a situation whereby the man makes little snide comments about the size of his girlfirend\'s vagina (being too big) when it is obvious that the size issue rests with her. But it seems we live in a society which says it\'s ok to allude to, belittle, or attack a man\'s (lack of) penis size. We see it all the time in tv shows, movies, music commercials...I don\'t think we\'ll ever see a commercial that makes references to a woman having a loose vagina (and therefore not attractive)...Or one that has a woman with a super tight vagina (and therefore,much more sexually appealing). And if there ever was such a commerical, women groups would be up in arms... I also personally believe that often women will do this to keep their boyfriend in check...It\'s their way of keeping an upper hand. Anyway, just my 2 cents. Messageman

Hear Hear. Agreed.

Interesting thread! I have 2 things to add that are somewhat related.

As far as size estimating... my current girl told me the other day that she was bragging to her friends about my Cock. Of course all of her friend\'s boyfriends were 8\"+ or more... one was even 10\" ... <- Girls will even say their average boyfriends have big dicks... it\'s not till the break up that they suddenly have tiny ones...

She then said to me, \"Yours is 9 inches right? I said it was 9 inches and about as thick as my wrist!\" (she has tiny wrists).

My response was: \"Honey... no it\'s about 8 inches (white lie but BPEL I\'m almost there) and your wrist is only like 5.5 inches thick... I\'m 7 inches thick.\"

She then said \"Oh, whoops\".

She overestimated the length then severely UNDER estimated the Girth. I have no clue how in the hell she could have thought I was only as thick as her wrist... I\'m thicker than the thickest part of her forearm even...

Then I found this cardboard tube that a painting (print) was delivered to my house in. It had to be about 6.5\" thick and 6.25\" inner diameter.
I grabbed it and said: \"How much do you want to bet that my Dick will not fit inside that tube?\"

Her: \"Are you kidding... a baseball bat could fit inside that thing!\"

I grab the tube and whip out my Flaccid Dick and sure enough it won\'t fit even halfway in.

Her: \"OMG... and that fits inside me? You must be making me so loose now!\"

I could tell that it actually legitimately upset her that something that big could fit inside her. I had to spend the next hour explaining to her that I am NOT permanently stretching her out and that she is just as tight as the day we met etc... I honestly am starting to worry that she will end things BECAUSE she thinks that I will stretch her out and she will somehow become undesirable because of it.

Moral of all this... women have a fucked up perception of things. One minute they are bragging to their friends about it... comparing it to objects that come nowhere near the same size... then the next minute they are getting upset because they realize you are actually really big. Women and men just have different brains.

DWD
So if I got this right, ypur girlfriend can\'t feel a 7 Inch Girth? Well, if that\'s the case, the issue is with her and not with you...And statistically speaking, there is basically no man (with a natural Girth) that would be able to satisfy her (Girth-wise) at least. And length-wise, you are significantly above average.

It does bother me that we live in a society in which the man is basically solely responsible for this aspect of sex ( vagina/penis match)...when often times it is not the case of the penis being big enough, but rather the vagina being small enough.

I could never imagine a situation whereby the man makes little snide comments about the size of his girlfirend\'s vagina (being too big) when it is obvious that the size issue rests with her. But it seems we live in a society which says it\'s ok to allude to, belittle, or attack a man\'s (lack of) penis size. We see it all the time in tv shows, movies, music commercials...I don\'t think we\'ll ever see a commercial that makes references to a woman having a loose vagina (and therefore not attractive)...Or one that has a woman with a super tight vagina (and therefore,much more sexually appealing). And if there ever was such a commerical, women groups would be up in arms...

I also personally believe that often women will do this to keep their boyfriend in check...It\'s their way of keeping an upper hand.
Anyway, just my 2 cents.
Messageman

Dance With Dragons wrote: I\'ve been seeing this woman for about 2.5 months, and I\'m the first guy that\'s ever given her an orgasm. Always have to use oral + fingers or a vibe while doing her. I\'m the 10th guy she\'s been with. She can\'t come from penetration, although she gets close from grinding her pubic area on mine while fully penetrated. The issue there is she ends up getting so wet that I\'m pretty sure she\'s experiencing the \"I can\'t feel it anymore because it\'s too wet\" syndrome. It\'s not a major issue, but I\'d love to figure out how to get her there without extra stimulation. I\'m just sort of venting because she has never really made any indication that she thinks my Dick is all that big, in fact, she has made passing comments that let me know she\'s probably had bigger, quite a bit longer at the very least, although I know she doesn\'t like length as she has a very short vagina and my length often hurts her. There\'s something about when a woman says she can\'t feel me, or eludes to that, that drives me nuts. Something about the whole \"there\'s no such thing as too wet, that just means your Dick isn\'t big enough\" thing that gnaws at my self esteem. This woman is awesome and we have great sex. She\'s not cunty at all, I just really don\'t understand what she\'s communicating if anything. I actually used a Cock sleeve with her one day that upped my Girth over 7 inches and she said she couldn\'t feel anything, but she can orgasm from one finger inside her. What exactly is going on? I know there is almost no point to this, but it\'s bugging me a little, and there is no way I\'m talking to her about it. Lastly, and this is weird, I\'ve never told her or even hinted about my procedure, but yesterday she sent me a link to the silicone injecting guy from Germany that just made the news, and she said \"for some reason this made me think of you.\" Is this chick on to me? If so, what does that mean? I will never ever tell her, I would absolutely shut that conversation down; after my last relationship, I don\'t ever want to talk about Cock size or especially my procedure or insecurities with a woman ever again. Ever. Thanks for the space to vent.

Sounds like she has a retracted G-spot, which means her G-spot (the reverse side of her clitoris) is hidden back behind the vaginal opening muscle. Does she have a prominate clitoris, or a small- difficult to locate clitoris?

There are procedures to increase the size of the G-spot so that it moves to a place of contact in the vagina.

Dance With Dragons wrote: Update:

What they say about women not being able to estimate size is totally true. Gf made popcorn the other day, and we usually use half a stick of butter to make it. Well, we got this new butter that comes in half size sticks, so she uses the half stick. As we\'re eating it, we\'re both like, holy shit this is really buttery. I go to make it again the next night and she shows me the \"half\" stick of butter she\'s using. It is actually a full stick that\'s twice as thick but half as long. It was completely obvious to me but she had no clue until I pointed it out and compared the two sticks.

If you can\'t tell when something is twice as thick as something else, how the fuck could you ever estimate Cock size? Throw in the fog of memory, and you could have the biggest Cock your gf has ever seen and she wouldn\'t even know it unless you and all the other guys were all lined up.

I\'d read many times that women are bad at size estimation but I\'ve never seen evidence in person and man is it ever true.

About 7 years ago me and my wife were laying in bed, mind you i have 31 Inch thighs from always working out..... I ask her how much she thinks one of my legs weighs, she said 15lbs... lmao I couldn\'t believe that guess.

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Dance With Dragons wrote: I had not thought of that Hulk. I had not thought of that.

Well in my head I am thinking your Cock is the thickest she\'s ever had, as us 7 inches (length) are decently long we cannot reasonably think we will be the longest Cock a women has ever had.... unlike with Girth, if we attain over 6\" of Girth we can reasonably assume we will be the thickest Cock a women has ever had.

Now with toys in the convo... We\'ll never compare because well... unlike PMMA and manual pe, a 10 Inch monster can be bought for 20$ in less then 10 minutes. Lol

We must compare ourselves to other men, not toys or fists.

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Also, after reading the article about the guy with a big silicone penis it had me thinking that she just sent that to you because she thinks your penis is large.

Well if you put a sleeve on and it was a non factor I\'d say it\'s not a big deal to her. Don\'t read into it too much.

I\'ve been with a few different women because my wife and I are swingers and while I have gotten some decent feedback, nothing has been super great. Although one lady said I had the fattest Dick she\'s ever seen, but besides from her.....nothing.

Point is, you and I both know your exceed average by far, what else can you do?

Dance With Dragons wrote: I\'ve been seeing this woman for about 2.5 months, and I\'m the first guy that\'s ever given her an orgasm. Always have to use oral + fingers or a vibe while doing her. I\'m the 10th guy she\'s been with. She can\'t come from penetration, although she gets close from grinding her pubic area on mine while fully penetrated. The issue there is she ends up getting so wet that I\'m pretty sure she\'s experiencing the \"I can\'t feel it anymore because it\'s too wet\" syndrome. It\'s not a major issue, but I\'d love to figure out how to get her there without extra stimulation.

I\'m just sort of venting because she has never really made any indication that she thinks my Dick is all that big, in fact, she has made passing comments that let me know she\'s probably had bigger, quite a bit longer at the very least, although I know she doesn\'t like length as she has a very short vagina and my length often hurts her. There\'s something about when a woman says she can\'t feel me, or eludes to that, that drives me nuts. Something about the whole \"there\'s no such thing as too wet, that just means your Dick isn\'t big enough\" thing that gnaws at my self esteem.

This woman is awesome and we have great sex. She\'s not cunty at all, I just really don\'t understand what she\'s communicating if anything. I actually used a Cock sleeve with her one day that upped my Girth over 7 inches and she said she couldn\'t feel anything, but she can orgasm from one finger inside her. What exactly is going on?

I know there is almost no point to this, but it\'s bugging me a little, and there is no way I\'m talking to her about it.

Lastly, and this is weird, I\'ve never told her or even hinted about my procedure, but yesterday she sent me a link to the silicone injecting guy from Germany that just made the news, and she said \"for some reason this made me think of you.\"

Is this chick on to me? If so, what does that mean? I will never ever tell her, I would absolutely shut that conversation down; after my last relationship, I don\'t ever want to talk about Cock size or especially my procedure or insecurities with a woman ever again. Ever.

Thanks for the space to vent.

Wtf? For some reason this make me think of you? Shit that\'s an unusual thing to say at random. Maybe she\'s sneaky and went through your things?