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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1286273427

What I am advocating is that if I fill the same room with convicts, \"George the Arab Prince and Mr. Trump\" will be the ones with the head down, remaining in the corner hopelessly with no chance to ever fuck Caprice. In the contrary Caprice instead of choosing who will become her best mate, will now be crying knowing what is coming next. Edit: \"I case there is no Caprice in the room the three beta fools will become the convicts\' bitches.\"

You see man, the mindset of today\'s modern man is that in order to get pussy you need to offer something. It begins with the whole idea of giving a diamond ring in exchange for marriage, then a house. a car and everything else including injecting silicone hoping for the biggest Dick just to please her. This mindset of today\'s man need to \"evolve\" because when he acts this way all he is doing is empowering women and putting the pussy in the pedestal.

The solution is simple yet very difficult to achieve if you don\'t change your mindset. The majority of the guys I talk to go out with women who are not fit for a relationship and when it comes to sex they are not even close or near knowledgeable as to what women want. In my mindset, I always say to myself: \"Women own me sex, all of them\" and believe it or not they most become my sex slave when I am get the chance to know them.


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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1286265319

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA-MALE WITH A LITTLE Dick

I am going to write a little story that will be part of my upcoming book. Read this story


I am Doc Love, I am in a room with George Clooney, an Arab Prince, Donald Trump and You. Then I enter the room with Caprice, she has beautiful red hair, she is a mix between Marilyn Monroe and Brooke Shields with red hair. Caprice is also a virgin looking for a relationship with the perfect man, she will make a decision 6 months from today. Please meet Caprice.....

In a minute George takes the initiative to meet Caprice, he says to her: \"Caprice come with me, you will be famous, I will get you introduced to Hollywood actors, a possible role in a movie and more. Just date me..\"

Then the Arab Prince jumps in, he says the following: \"Forget this man, come with me. You will have a palace just for you, gold and many servants, you will be my favorite wife, your son will be King of my land.\"

Then Donald Trump responds and says the following: \"I promise you I will personally make sure you will be crowned Miss Universe, under my umbrella you will have all the power you need to do whatever you want, you will travel the entire world with me, choose me.\"

You look at these three men and you have nothing to give her, for the powerful men you are just a beta man with low self-esteem. However deep inside, You want this girl so bad you just don\'t have the tools to conquer her. For the remaining of your opportunity, you remain quiet. Your put your head down, depressed in a corner of the room thinking hopelessly you have no chance with Caprice, you have no chance but....

What I am about to tell you is that you as a man have a great power hidden in you ready to be explored to its limits. Let me explain, in you there is an energy called SEXUAL ENERGY that is powerful, amazingly powerful if you understand it and learn how to use it. All you need to do is close your eyes to feel it. If you are able to transmute this energy into physical reality you can do amazing things!!! But you have to believe. When you transmute sexual energy into whatever goals you set in your life, You can write in different languages (I was born in Cuba) you can learn to overcome challenges, you can fight, you can get in shape you can train to look better, you can transform yourself from beta into an alpha-male. All you need is a little bit of determination and fuel which is derived by something you really want or wish for, in this case you want Caprice!!! Remember out of the three fools above, You, and only You want Caprice the most, You really like her. You want to be the chosen one! Remember she is a virgin, she has never been with a man!, and you are given a chance!!

If you truly want Caprice (in your post if you want to become an Alpha-Male) all you need to do is transmute your sexual energy into physical energy to convert your body and mind into the Alpha-man. The first thing you need to do is not jerk off, masturbate. Contain yourself, the longer you retain your own life force (((SEMEN))) in you the better results you\'ll get. For the remainder 6 months ahead you get up everyday and train really hard, do 500 push ups a day, interval sprints, squats biceps and dead lifts. For the next 6 months you eat healthy, lots of protein, you don\'t drink alcohol, you completely change your looks, you fix your teeth, and find your best hair style, you get a tan, find a way to awake the inner-self powerful man that lives inside you. You do all of this for a chance to Caprice to notice the hidden ALPHA-MALE BEAST that is you. You even let your beard grow make sure she notice your big chest and sexy abs so she can see the hell of the macho man you are. You transform yourself into a hot male looking model.

6 months away from today you walk into the room to meet Caprice again and you are a very different man. For 6 months in a row you didn\'t ejaculate not even once. Think of this and ask yourself if you will allow any of the three fools (George, The Prince and Trump) inside the room to take Caprice from you. I bet it will be a very different story Pal. These guys will get their ass whopped just by looking at you and Caprice.. She will be very happy choosing you. You wanna know why?? That\'s because \"Deep inside Women, All Women want a strong man to submit to\", attraction and male strength means the world to any woman! They are possibly the best physical male qualities we men have, so don\'t worry much about your penis size man is not big deal for most women really.

I hope you understand my Story. Good Luck Pal

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284971492

ilovetofu wrote: New1inch if a woman laughs at your manhood, chop her up into pieces and put her in cold storage ' she's obviously not fit to be living. Just don't get caught LOL.

So you want to be more Alpha male.

What if I said you could have it all? What if you could turn yourself into a James Bond-esque man and have the life you've always wanted - a life where you always get what you want; you ooze confidence and leadership; you have an air of subtle dominance that in turn, makes other people feel like they are lucky to be graced by your presence; your peers admire you; women BEG for your attention, even if it's just a fleeting glance; men sink into an internal jealous angst when they see you walk down the street with babes in tow, knowing you are the consummate chick magnet; you pull hot babes out of your league as effortlessly as you pull up your socks. And what if you could have all this without necessarily being buff, aggressive or obnoxious?

Sound too good to be true? Not at all, there are plenty of people who'll tell you that this is possible for any man. And for a small fee they'll reveal the 'secrets' that will unlock your potential and revolutionise your life. And should you fail then the problem lies with you, you didn't apply the secret knowledge properly; the secret advice given really works!

Okay, so maybe it's a scam and I am dreaming an unattainable dream. But surely if I just adopt the traits of these kinds of people and apply them on a daily basis'

Think of that commercial for after-shave lotion, where the actor playing an exaggerated alpha male says, 'Look at your man'now look at me. Sadly, he's not me, but he can smell like he's me!'

Search the Net and you'll find a few million references to alpha male and confidence. You can read endless advice about what you need to do to become an alpha male, including things like confidence, body language, courage, boldness, use of humour, developing your physique and fitness, being indifferent, having poise, being a mystery. Some of it is sensible practical advice and the rest is bollocks.

Some will say these traits can be developed and others will say that you're either born with it or you're not. And perhaps both are right to some degree. Look at very young kids ' some are naturally Alpha while others cower in the shadows, filled with all manner of insecurities and timidity. So yes, some are born this way, but there is also evidence that people can overcome inhibiting traits and change.

But also, of course it's important to remember that one doesn't have to be Alpha or an extrovert to be successful or happy in life. Eleanor Roosevelt, who said 'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent,' certainly was not Alpha in any sense of the word. Instead, she was an introvert who used her innate traits to make change in the world.

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New1inch: 'I just don\'t have the Balls to do anything about it because of my lack of size and the fear of showing my Dick. But this spills over into my personal life also, not just romantically. It\'s hard to explain but even in business I feel my Dick size is holding me back from being the alpha and concoring what I want. I really want to get into shape but I always think, what\'s the point? It\'s not like I\'ll be having sex anyway because I can\'t please a woman or she\'ll laugh once she sees the ugly looking small secret I have in my pants.'

I read this paragraph of yours a few times to really let it sink in.

One of THE most practical and powerful things you can do is to stop, observe, and then change your thinking patterns. Because you'll find that you have negative thoughts that are reinforcing themselves, much like a smoker reinforces the addiction with each cigarette smoked. And remember women, as we all know, are intuitive creatures - they can spot fear and insecurity at a thousand paces. Damn!

This cannot be overstated. If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. But let's not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perceptive people will see through the hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male.

New1inch, your thinking is not wrong, it has nothing to do with morality; it's just not doing you any good. IMO it's damaging, it's pulling you down and its stopping you from having what you want. It's a road block to your happiness and success. And you need to change that.

There are women out there in this world that will bang the shit out of you, women who will love you, regardless of the perceptions you have about the quality or size of your manhood. But you won't meet these women with a favourable result while ever you keep and cherish these negative, all-consuming thoughts about one particular part of your body, albeit the most private and sensitive part. Perception IS your reality. Perception is what matters. And it's your perception and the beliefs you have that are holding you back, not some absolute reality about your body.

STOP these thoughts each time you become aware that you're thinking them and replace them with something more positive, even if you don't believe it. Every day take 5 minutes to visualise yourself in the opposite situation. See yourself, like a movie in your mind, meeting a woman, engaging in conversation. See the woman laugh and be attracted to you.

And if you do this, slowly but SURELY things will change. Your mind will change, your body will change and your life will change. Let your mind and body do the talking. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes to those around you, without you even making a sound. Your posture, your hand gestures, your stance, and the way you walk'all of it sends signals to those around you about your place in the world. You want those signals to be strong and confident, not protective and small.

You CAN do it New1inch, PLEASE don't try, just do it and don't look back.


This Post really helps a lot and so in depth. Thanks a lot.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284971419

dcpimpin12 wrote: to be the true alpha male to be a true mandingo warrior u must have the whole package, attitude, muscles, and big penis. atleast 7 inches or bigger I would say would give u that respect.


Haha.... your cute :-) Don\'t know if your kidding, or if your serious...(whistling while doing this).. lol

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284971223

ilovetofu wrote:
This cannot be overstated. If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. But let's not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perceptive people will see through the hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male.


Perception IS your reality. Perception is what matters. And it's your perception and the beliefs you have that are holding you back, not some absolute reality about your body.


Very true about perception.... I think we all live in our own perception...Think of the Matrix. Very scary if true!

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284968939

This comment is to New1inch specifically, I think your curiosity on the subject of the alpha \"label\" is unique because if we look at the biological world, specifically the animal kingdom, certain species learn to compensate especially when an alpha male is present in the environment. I\'m an aquatics guy and there are two species that i consider important to this topic. Species 1 is the Xiphophorus montezumae (monty sword for short), when you house a juvenile colony of monties together eventually a mature male will sex out from the group and his impressive sword will develop. As soon as the mature male develops his sword first, he automatically displays behavior of being the aggressive \"alpha\" in the colony, the other potential males in the colony are initially stunted, it takes them much longer to develop their sword, often their sword doesn\'t grow to full potential. The monty with the biggest sword tends to pass on his genes to the females in the group (out of his aggressive behavior).


Species 2 is Poecilia petenensis, it\'s a molly species located in lake petenensis. What\'s remarkable about this sailfin molly, different from other species of mollies, is that often the small young males tend to impregnate the females in the group. This occurs because the \"alpha\" males who have their impressive sail fins are fighting each other like bulls, showing off their fins like peacocks. The alpha males spend so much time showing off their large impressive fins, that they leave the females in the area unattended. The smart, inferior males take advantage of this opportunity to mate with the females, spending their energy on sex, instead of alpha male fin display. Nature looks for ways to compensate, the self sufficient adapt to their situation, it\'s not always survival of the fittest, its survival of the self sufficient. If you try to stretch, grow, or surgical enhance an impressive Cock...it\'s very unlikely that will ever happen, you will be an outlier if it did happen. The world we live in as humans is a combination of the similar challenges that the males in species 1 & 2 occupy. But unlike species 1, you can learn from the behavior of the small young males in species 2. New1inch everybody has a certain value to them, for some people its their physical looks, their intelligence, their athletic skill, their ability to communicate, or their ability to listen. Next time you have 10 free minutes, grab a pen and tablet and write down you talents and skills, then circle the 1 that polarizes who you are. Use that circled talent to help you, let it be the that circled talent that negotiates all your next moves and decisions for the coming months. The petenensis molly learned how to take advantage of a situation without having the biggest fins in the environment, learn how to be a strong/unique man without having the biggest penis. Occupy your thoughts with a solution outside penis enlargement, trust this suggestion.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284968273

You know the more and more I think about it, I tend to think the whole alpha/beta thing is as important (or even real) as we make it out to be. Solve your insecurities, embrace good health, and have an outlook. Chances are that\'ll make you feel pretty \"alpha\" without having to force it.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284965118

ilovetofu wrote: New1inch if a woman laughs at your manhood, chop her up into pieces and put her in cold storage ' she's obviously not fit to be living. Just don't get caught LOL.

So you want to be more Alpha male.

What if I said you could have it all? What if you could turn yourself into a James Bond-esque man and have the life you've always wanted - a life where you always get what you want; you ooze confidence and leadership; you have an air of subtle dominance that in turn, makes other people feel like they are lucky to be graced by your presence; your peers admire you; women BEG for your attention, even if it's just a fleeting glance; men sink into an internal jealous angst when they see you walk down the street with babes in tow, knowing you are the consummate chick magnet; you pull hot babes out of your league as effortlessly as you pull up your socks. And what if you could have all this without necessarily being buff, aggressive or obnoxious?

Sound too good to be true? Not at all, there are plenty of people who'll tell you that this is possible for any man. And for a small fee they'll reveal the 'secrets' that will unlock your potential and revolutionise your life. And should you fail then the problem lies with you, you didn't apply the secret knowledge properly; the secret advice given really works!

Okay, so maybe it's a scam and I am dreaming an unattainable dream. But surely if I just adopt the traits of these kinds of people and apply them on a daily basis'

Think of that commercial for after-shave lotion, where the actor playing an exaggerated alpha male says, 'Look at your man'now look at me. Sadly, he's not me, but he can smell like he's me!'

Search the Net and you'll find a few million references to alpha male and confidence. You can read endless advice about what you need to do to become an alpha male, including things like confidence, body language, courage, boldness, use of humour, developing your physique and fitness, being indifferent, having poise, being a mystery. Some of it is sensible practical advice and the rest is bollocks.

Some will say these traits can be developed and others will say that you're either born with it or you're not. And perhaps both are right to some degree. Look at very young kids ' some are naturally Alpha while others cower in the shadows, filled with all manner of insecurities and timidity. So yes, some are born this way, but there is also evidence that people can overcome inhibiting traits and change.

But also, of course it's important to remember that one doesn't have to be Alpha or an extrovert to be successful or happy in life. Eleanor Roosevelt, who said 'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent,' certainly was not Alpha in any sense of the word. Instead, she was an introvert who used her innate traits to make change in the world.

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New1inch: 'I just don\'t have the Balls to do anything about it because of my lack of size and the fear of showing my Dick. But this spills over into my personal life also, not just romantically. It\'s hard to explain but even in business I feel my Dick size is holding me back from being the alpha and concoring what I want. I really want to get into shape but I always think, what\'s the point? It\'s not like I\'ll be having sex anyway because I can\'t please a woman or she\'ll laugh once she sees the ugly looking small secret I have in my pants.'

I read this paragraph of yours a few times to really let it sink in.

One of THE most practical and powerful things you can do is to stop, observe, and then change your thinking patterns. Because you'll find that you have negative thoughts that are reinforcing themselves, much like a smoker reinforces the addiction with each cigarette smoked. And remember women, as we all know, are intuitive creatures - they can spot fear and insecurity at a thousand paces. Damn!

This cannot be overstated. If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. But let's not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perceptive people will see through the hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male.

New1inch, your thinking is not wrong, it has nothing to do with morality; it's just not doing you any good. IMO it's damaging, it's pulling you down and its stopping you from having what you want. It's a road block to your happiness and success. And you need to change that.

There are women out there in this world that will bang the shit out of you, women who will love you, regardless of the perceptions you have about the quality or size of your manhood. But you won't meet these women with a favourable result while ever you keep and cherish these negative, all-consuming thoughts about one particular part of your body, albeit the most private and sensitive part. Perception IS your reality. Perception is what matters. And it's your perception and the beliefs you have that are holding you back, not some absolute reality about your body.

STOP these thoughts each time you become aware that you're thinking them and replace them with something more positive, even if you don't believe it. Every day take 5 minutes to visualise yourself in the opposite situation. See yourself, like a movie in your mind, meeting a woman, engaging in conversation. See the woman laugh and be attracted to you.

And if you do this, slowly but SURELY things will change. Your mind will change, your body will change and your life will change. Let your mind and body do the talking. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes to those around you, without you even making a sound. Your posture, your hand gestures, your stance, and the way you walk'all of it sends signals to those around you about your place in the world. You want those signals to be strong and confident, not protective and small.

You CAN do it New1inch, PLEASE don't try, just do it and don't look back.


That was a really good post.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284964916

If I had to guess, I\'d say Cain Valasquez\'s penis was about 5\". I\'d be shocked if it were over 6\". You don\'t get much more Alpha than him.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284963721

I dislike the concept of alpha males / beta males. Maybe because the definitions of alpha males and beta males aren\'t strictly the same for everyone.

To me, the alpha male/beta male debate hinges on attitude. Alpha males are assertive, possibly even aggressive and can completely handle confrontation. They don\'t necessarily have to be good-looking but they do need to be confident in themselves, that\'s probably why most people thinking alpha males are all attractive, tall and muscular, they\'re not, but many of these type of men are confident which some people think is being an alpha male.

People who aspire to be alpha males tend to be men with the wrong priorities. Why not just aim to be a confident, happy and assertive man who is comfortable in his skin rather than an \'alpha male\' which implies not a confidence, but an arrogance, a superiority over other men and women in general - also known as being a self-righteous ****.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284942835

to be the true alpha male to be a true mandingo warrior u must have the whole package, attitude, muscles, and big penis. atleast 7 inches or bigger I would say would give u that respect.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284942605

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284939989

New1inch if a woman laughs at your manhood, chop her up into pieces and put her in cold storage ' she's obviously not fit to be living. Just don't get caught LOL.

So you want to be more Alpha male.

What if I said you could have it all? What if you could turn yourself into a James Bond-esque man and have the life you've always wanted - a life where you always get what you want; you ooze confidence and leadership; you have an air of subtle dominance that in turn, makes other people feel like they are lucky to be graced by your presence; your peers admire you; women BEG for your attention, even if it's just a fleeting glance; men sink into an internal jealous angst when they see you walk down the street with babes in tow, knowing you are the consummate chick magnet; you pull hot babes out of your league as effortlessly as you pull up your socks. And what if you could have all this without necessarily being buff, aggressive or obnoxious?

Sound too good to be true? Not at all, there are plenty of people who'll tell you that this is possible for any man. And for a small fee they'll reveal the 'secrets' that will unlock your potential and revolutionise your life. And should you fail then the problem lies with you, you didn't apply the secret knowledge properly; the secret advice given really works!

Okay, so maybe it's a scam and I am dreaming an unattainable dream. But surely if I just adopt the traits of these kinds of people and apply them on a daily basis'

Think of that commercial for after-shave lotion, where the actor playing an exaggerated alpha male says, 'Look at your man'now look at me. Sadly, he's not me, but he can smell like he's me!'

Search the Net and you'll find a few million references to alpha male and confidence. You can read endless advice about what you need to do to become an alpha male, including things like confidence, body language, courage, boldness, use of humour, developing your physique and fitness, being indifferent, having poise, being a mystery. Some of it is sensible practical advice and the rest is bollocks.

Some will say these traits can be developed and others will say that you're either born with it or you're not. And perhaps both are right to some degree. Look at very young kids ' some are naturally Alpha while others cower in the shadows, filled with all manner of insecurities and timidity. So yes, some are born this way, but there is also evidence that people can overcome inhibiting traits and change.

But also, of course it's important to remember that one doesn't have to be Alpha or an extrovert to be successful or happy in life. Eleanor Roosevelt, who said 'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent,' certainly was not Alpha in any sense of the word. Instead, she was an introvert who used her innate traits to make change in the world.

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New1inch: 'I just don\'t have the Balls to do anything about it because of my lack of size and the fear of showing my Dick. But this spills over into my personal life also, not just romantically. It\'s hard to explain but even in business I feel my Dick size is holding me back from being the alpha and concoring what I want. I really want to get into shape but I always think, what\'s the point? It\'s not like I\'ll be having sex anyway because I can\'t please a woman or she\'ll laugh once she sees the ugly looking small secret I have in my pants.'

I read this paragraph of yours a few times to really let it sink in.

One of THE most practical and powerful things you can do is to stop, observe, and then change your thinking patterns. Because you'll find that you have negative thoughts that are reinforcing themselves, much like a smoker reinforces the addiction with each cigarette smoked. And remember women, as we all know, are intuitive creatures - they can spot fear and insecurity at a thousand paces. Damn!

This cannot be overstated. If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. But let's not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perceptive people will see through the hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male.

New1inch, your thinking is not wrong, it has nothing to do with morality; it's just not doing you any good. IMO it's damaging, it's pulling you down and its stopping you from having what you want. It's a road block to your happiness and success. And you need to change that.

There are women out there in this world that will bang the shit out of you, women who will love you, regardless of the perceptions you have about the quality or size of your manhood. But you won't meet these women with a favourable result while ever you keep and cherish these negative, all-consuming thoughts about one particular part of your body, albeit the most private and sensitive part. Perception IS your reality. Perception is what matters. And it's your perception and the beliefs you have that are holding you back, not some absolute reality about your body.

STOP these thoughts each time you become aware that you're thinking them and replace them with something more positive, even if you don't believe it. Every day take 5 minutes to visualise yourself in the opposite situation. See yourself, like a movie in your mind, meeting a woman, engaging in conversation. See the woman laugh and be attracted to you.

And if you do this, slowly but SURELY things will change. Your mind will change, your body will change and your life will change. Let your mind and body do the talking. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes to those around you, without you even making a sound. Your posture, your hand gestures, your stance, and the way you walk'all of it sends signals to those around you about your place in the world. You want those signals to be strong and confident, not protective and small.

You CAN do it New1inch, PLEASE don't try, just do it and don't look back.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284926011

Thanks Scepticalone... Very informative. I have to disagree with the part of it being something your born with. People learn from the people around them. Like if a guy had a strong alpha type father in the household he\'s more likely to become that way and vice versa. I believe at 1 point in my life I considered myself alpha. I was confidant as hell. As I get older you find more women that\'s more experienced it kinda hinders you because they know they could find better it dwindles your confidence. Another example of a beta to alpha a guy I went to school with was kinda a wimp, never saw him with a girlfriend and was kind of a loner. I saw him a year back and this guy has done a whole 180. We hung out and he was a chick magnant. He saw the girl he wanted, went for it, and I could see that she immediately had a respect for him just from his body language and behavior. His facebook photos he\'s always surrounded by hot women and tons of friends. I don\'t know if this just a front or not but its hope that any guy could be that alph if he wanted to be.

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How to be dominant/ Alpha with a small Penis 9 years 7 months ago #1284922254

New1inch wrote: Title pretty much says it all. It\'s kinda hard for me because I kkow I\'m not swinging like a horse so it make it hard for me to be a alpha male or dominant in my relationships which I think makes it hard for me to keep my relationships or even get in one. I\'ve been single for a year now almost with no sex at all and it\'s not by choice. I just don\'t have the Balls to do anything about it because of my lack of size and the fear of showing my Dick. But this spills over into my personal life also, not just romantically. It\'s hard to explain but even in business I feel my Dick size is holding me back from being the alpha and concoring what I want. I really want to get into shape but I always think, what\'s the point? It\'s not like I\'ll be having sex anyway because I can\'t please a woman or she\'ll laugh once she sees the ugly looking small secret I have in my pants. This just consumes my life and wanted to know for any guys who\'s been living longer than me how can I still be the alpha and confidant guy I want to be with this cloud I can\'t/ impossible to fix over my head. I know no one here is shrinks, but I don\'t have the Doe (money) for that.. Lol. I\'m hoping to maybe learn from someone past experience. Thanks.


Either you are dominant by nature or you aren\'t. I suppose you can aspire to be more \"dominant\" per-se, but I think it has more to do with attitude & confidence than it does sheer penis size. I know of a few guys who possess Alpha-minded mentalities in real life, but none of them are classically \"hung,\" (I hang out with guys who are pretty open about their junks).

It\'s easy to associate confidence & penis size, especially on a forum like this, but it really should play a smaller role than we give it credit for. If there are limitations to what you can do with size, move on to attributes that have less limitations, like physical fitness, career, etc. These may do as much, if not more, for your confidence, and in turn may allow you to feel more alpha / dominant in your social & personal life.

Some also subscribe to the notion of \"being a Dick or asshole\" in a relationship to assert dominance, and I\'m not sure how legit this is. I\'m not a fan of acting such a way, but some girls (not all) are attracted to it.

But to be honest, I\'m no expert on this topic but not being an alpha in the traditional sense doesn\'t make you any less of a man. But if you are hellbent on being more \"alpha\" per-se, I think your strongest card is to resist showing any weakness. Don\'t wear your insecurities on your sleeve, act as if your partner is replaceable (because she really is), and be firm in your decisions on any & all matters. As Mustang so eloquently put in some other post, her job is to please you first, not the other way around. I don\'t normally advocate an asshole-approach but if you are aiming to be something that you aren\'t naturally, you are going to need a big change in attitude.

I\'m sure others with genuine alpha dominant mentalities can chime in.

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