TOPIC: Expectations based on race.

Any of you who have been to asian countries. (Or who spends plenty of time in company of asian friends/classmates/co-workers/neighbours.....).

(Just for clarification its the well developed asian countries I mainly have in mind, such as Japan and Singapore which are first world countries where everyone has access to internet etc...)



Do you feel under more pressure to have a big penis there because of the stereotype (albeit one with some element of truth) that caucasian guys are more well endowed than asian men?

(kind of like the way black guys who aren\'t well endowed probably feel under more pressure to be well endowed because of the expectation from some people/women in society that because he is black he\'s probably more hung than others.)

I think Asian women who choose to date a foreigner in their home countries, choose that particular person for a host of reasons.
I will say though that, generally speaking, they do buy into the \"white and black penises are bigger than Asian penises theory\".
The Japanese are big on stereotyping everything....British men are gentlemen, Germans are great engineers, Americans are big and confident, etc.
I find that there is a small percentage of woman over here that will predominantly date white guys, and even a smaller percentage will predominantly date black guys.
The women who date black guys buy into the fantasy aspect. I have a black friend,, who has a great job over here at a securities company. He has told me numerous times how Japanese women are looking for black men who really \"black it up\" with the gangsta look and the hip hop dancing.
One time at a party, I remember asking an educated Japanese woman about whether she would ever consider dating a white or black man. She said that she would consider dating a white man but not a black man. When I asked why she wouldn\'t date a black man, her answer was surprising....She said that if she were to have sex with a black man, his penis would be so big and the sex would be so fantastic , she might lose control and embarrass herself.
I am not making this up.
Anyway, just anecdotes from the a Land Of The Rising Sun

Hah, that is funny. She doesn\'t want the sex to be too good in case she loses control of herself!

The reason I asked the question is because when I was in singapore the whole penis size and race thing was in my mind when I thought of sex. Not something I\'d ever think of much back home since there aren\'t really many asians around.

Its silly really, but I was like \'If I get with one of these women are they going to be expecting me to be larger than the locals because i\'m white/european....\'

I was lucky enough to get with one woman when I was in asia, and she commented on how long it was Erect at six inches. Not something that\'s ever happened to me before. (:It still wasn\'t thick enough to give her much friction, but we got on well and had a good time together all the same.


Its like, you\'d think you\'d feel less self conscious about that sort of thing in asia where the people are smaller in general but its the opposite because you feel like there\'s an expectation that you have to live up to the stereotypes.