TOPIC: Did any woman denigrate you because of your penis sizes?

chipito wrote:

tom kat wrote:

chipito wrote: Yes, my actual wife said \"you have a little Dick\" a couple of Months ago, since then she apologies but our relationship its not the same, i dont want to have sex anymore but only with here and im kind of desperate looking for a solution

what are your measruements? if you don\'t mind me asking.

Ok, first of all I am really new to this f'rum, and I cant see another sections I dont why... I dont know how to measure but in Erection my Dick its only 10-12 cm about 4-4.5 Inch... does anybody tell me how I can do a correct measure? what is FL, FG, EL, BPEL, EG??? MSEG?

ok first of all I am not tall, my height is about 1.69-1.70 M or 5 feet with 6 Inch or something like that, Im overweight and I know visual we the fat people have a Little Dick so I start exercise , now I can see some results the last month while I start eating healthy I can see my Dick a \"Little big\" maybe because I am burning the fat of my pubis.

thank for your support.. its a nightmare everytime when I need to have sex with my wife, we were having a pleasure sexual life, but all change after and before she complain and scoff about my Dick. now I dont let her to touch me in flacid and I dont take shower with here anymore

you should focus on your health overall, so you can lose some of the weight, you may be able to reveal more of your penis (since part of it can be hidden under the fat). you can also try stretching your penis (but i don\'t know much about that, so you woudl have to reaserch it), but you can gain a lot of Girth with the PMMA procedure.

the reason you can\'t see any of the other forums now, is because the owner has put a temporary \'blackout\' on the main forums in an attempt to encourage more members to donate money so the forum can continue to be a free one for the public. it won\'t be like this forever.

I\'m about 6 x 5 and I\'ve never actually had woman denigrate me directly. But I did get with a girl once who was attracted to me and we ended up having sex. She never said anything but I could tell she was a bit \"disappointed\" that I was not bigger. I made her cum several times but I got the impression she wanted a man who was more hung. She was not a big girl but her vag was quite big, so I think she could handle a lot more.

Contradictory, I\'ve also been with more petite girls who say I\'m big (lol) and complain that it goes too deep.


Here are some interesting/funny comments from woman on penis size in response to the question 'does Dick size matter?'

\"When I think about the good sex I have had and the bad sex I've had, there's no correlation between what size they were. So I'd say no.\"\"No. Prime example: Joe used magnum condoms and Mathias didn't, but Mathias was a better lover.\"\"I think it would be awkward to be with a guy with a small penis. It's the elephant in the room.\"\"I've never had too big, but I've had too small. So yes.\"\"Dick size is wayyyy down the list when it comes to whether a guy is good in bed: confidence, rhythm, making me comfortable, attraction'those are all much more important.\"\"The first guy I was with had what I thought was probably a pretty big Dick but he kept being like \'look at this big Dick I am fucking you with\' so it was bad.\"

\"My favourite lovers were actually of the smaller variety-more than enough to tickle but not enough to hurt. So much of arousal is above the neck (mental) anyway. Viewing the larger ones may be somewhat stimulating, but women overall are not the visual creatures that men are. Remember erotic is a feather, but kinky is the whole chicken.\"Girth is more important than length. Length is good too though, about 7inches is enough, anything longer will hurt in certain positions. Size DOES matter, and that is merely my own personal preference. My ex had a very small penis and it felt more like a chore than making love to have sex with him.\"

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For the majority of \'normal\' women, the size of the man\'s Dick is only part of sexual pleasure, the rest is in the brain. When is comes to relationships, woman are interested in other qualities such as sense of humour, confidence, physical looks, a healthy toned body, sense of empathy, etc.

Absolutely! An 8x7 would be great, and a 9x7 even better. You also have to remember that 7 inches is going to preclude a lot of oral play on your junk. I am only 6.5 at mid shaft and that is about the max the women I have been with can get their mouth around. Deep throats are a thing of the past for me but its a small price in my opinion. And all of them want to try and go down all the way. Must be a challenge for them. Who knows and I am not complaining. I have finally met a girl that I really care for and my ability to please her sexually is only making our relationship better. I wish I could have done this when I was 20 but only the scary doctors were attempting PE procedures back then. Lots of horror stories.

Mustang2020 wrote:

buttercups wrote: I would much rather be EL5 x EG6 than EL8 x EL5.

But, But, if you have an 8\" EL x 5\"EG you can always add Girth but not the other way

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Hoddle, I am not disagreeing with what you said to a point. Absolutely a man can be too large and can take a woman from pleasure to pain. But we aren\'t talking about extremes. We are talking about a Girth that is 6 inches or better and a length that is 8 to 10 inches. Women are not as visual as men but they love to see and hold a large penis. I am living proof. All of the girls I have been with since my enlargement have marveled and talked about the size, routinely want to hold it, and some have even admitted to playing with it while I am sleeping. That never occurred prior to my enlargement and those women included two marriages. Every girl Ive been with since my procedure has told me how big I am and how good it feels while we are having sex. That never occurred prior to my enlargement. Many of these girls discuss previous dates with average guys and talked about how they didn\'t enjoy the sex and laughed about the size, or lack thereof, of their penis. And these are just women. I am certainly not dating size queens as most of them wouldn\'t give me a second look if they met me. I am in good shape but still considered a skinny white boy. I am only 5 foot 10. All of them are shocked at how big I am and routinely laugh about the theory of foot size, length of fingers, etc to determine how big a man is going to be. And not all of the women have been through child birth. Some have been very tight and I had to be careful initially getting all the way inside of them. Where I used to have to work like hell and use a ton of foreplay to get a woman to orgasm, I now just have to get it in and thrust and they orgasm - quickly I might add. I am now learning new techniques to go with the new package and the results are mind blowing. I would still like to be two inches longer but there is only so much that modern medicine can accomplish. This is absolutely my opinion only derived from my experience but I am sure I am not the only little white guy that has had these kind of results with the opposite sex. I am convinced that Girth is the most important and a guy with only 5 inches in length, and a lot of Girth will experience similar reactions from their bed mates.

buttercups wrote: I would much rather be EL5 x EG6 than EL8 x EL5.

But, But, if you have an 8\" EL x 5\"EG you can always add Girth but not the other way

I think size matters to a certain extant like if if you are over 6.5 or longer

I personally don\'t think size matters that much, but to the extent that it does matter, I don\'t think a long skinny penis has a chance in hell against a short thick one.

I would much rather be EL5 x EG6 than EL8 x EL5.

I think size matters to a certain extant like if if you are over 6.5 or longer u will satisfy her better than if you were 5 and under in length. of course not if you are extremely long like 14 Inch length... I think from 6.5 to 8 in length is the best size in length to satisfy a female. but for those that are 5 and under u have to find the right female to satisfy her as females have different size of vaginas also and the more experience they are the bigger in length they will want.

Big John wrote: I am not sure why this debate continues.... There is no debate. The size of your junk matters. Period. A man with more Girth(more important) and more length will bring a woman to orgasm quicker as well as giver her a stronger more powerful orgasm. Its not a debate - its science. You fill them up, you touch more nerve endings (ie you stimulate their g spot more), etc... That being said, women want security. Emotional first, financial (loosely put) second. They want to love and be loved, and be safe, and feel secure. All things being equal, two men that can provide that, one endowed, and one not so lucky, the endowed guy wins. I am not a player and haven\'t been with thousands of women but Ive been with hundreds of women and been tuned in to this very topic for years - so I listen. Size matters - its not the end state but can make a difference. I have had amazing sexual experiences after my enlargement, and had absolute mind and ego wrecking horrible experiences prior. I still wish I could add 2 inches of length to my junk but I will tell you that with just the added Girth, Ive had women flying from across the country to spend a weekend with me. They will routinely drive 100+ miles to spend the night with me. Its amazing and its proof. I also recently posted a very descriptive photo of my junk in tight briefs on an online dating site. The site removed the picture after a day and I got a few complaints from women that thought it was obscene, but I also got 256 hits on the picture in less than a day. The majority of those hits included some very descriptive narratives that detailed exactly what they wanted to do with my package. Unbelievable!

That\'s not true!

Do you really think a 9\" Girth and 14\" long penis would have an woman orgasming? I think you\'ll agree it wont. Obviously those numbers are extreme, but the point is to demonstrate that there does come a point where size negatively effects a woman\'s ability to orgasm. So it isn\'t always a case of the bigger the better. They are looking for the \"right\" size, not the biggest size. I\'m not saying the right size is small and think in most cases it is over average, but it\'s very wrong to say a guy with more Girth and length will make a woman orgasm faster. If the main thing she feels is pain, then it\'s not going to do much for her, so what you\'ve said is very open to debate and certainly not science. Nerve ending don\'t always mean pleasure!

But aside from that, there is so much more to strength of a womans orgasm than the penis. Again I don\'t want to seem rude or dismissive but what you\'ve said is so crazy. In the same way men cum harder when they are more turned on, so do women. And in the very same way that men get turned on by very different things, so do women. If a woman is really turned on she will feel more pleasure from a small penis, than if she isn\'t turned on with a big penis.

I am not sure why this debate continues.... There is no debate. The size of your junk matters. Period. A man with more Girth(more important) and more length will bring a woman to orgasm quicker as well as giver her a stronger more powerful orgasm. Its not a debate - its science. You fill them up, you touch more nerve endings (ie you stimulate their g spot more), etc... That being said, women want security. Emotional first, financial (loosely put) second. They want to love and be loved, and be safe, and feel secure. All things being equal, two men that can provide that, one endowed, and one not so lucky, the endowed guy wins. I am not a player and haven\'t been with thousands of women but Ive been with hundreds of women and been tuned in to this very topic for years - so I listen. Size matters - its not the end state but can make a difference. I have had amazing sexual experiences after my enlargement, and had absolute mind and ego wrecking horrible experiences prior. I still wish I could add 2 inches of length to my junk but I will tell you that with just the added Girth, Ive had women flying from across the country to spend a weekend with me. They will routinely drive 100+ miles to spend the night with me. Its amazing and its proof. I also recently posted a very descriptive photo of my junk in tight briefs on an online dating site. The site removed the picture after a day and I got a few complaints from women that thought it was obscene, but I also got 256 hits on the picture in less than a day. The majority of those hits included some very descriptive narratives that detailed exactly what they wanted to do with my package. Unbelievable!

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This is an interesting issue. I have heard different stories and based on my personal experience, I am a bit confused. Size does matter and it does not at the same time. I know this is a conflicting data and those two opposites can be reconcile eventually. Where size is not sufficient, skill comes forth and vise versa.
I had a girlfriend who used to say that she loves my size and how \"your Dick is so thick\". I had another girlfriend who eventually said that I am a very decent size , not huge but decent plus she said you are sexy... I guess women look at the whole package , not only your Dick size but also posture, shape, the way you dress, the way you speak and maneuver , if you are manly in your ways of expression etc.
I had a girlfriend who said she was never able to come when we would have sex. I got to the point that this obsessed me and started thinking that my size was not sufficient to satisfy her... So, back to your question, I do believe that we - men are more self conscious of our size down there, and if a women sense that you are a bit insecure about this, she might comment or make a remark or who knows what else... then we get caught in this vecious circle of reasoning and start thinking she was not pleased because i am not big enough if I can only add a couple of inches or get more Girth .... I dont want to lie, this is on my mind as well. But on the other hand, I wonder could it be that there is a women for every man , and if sex is not satisfactory for one party, it is not satisfactory for the other party as well. Men do not want to confess \"our tools\" are small and her vagina big or loose, therefore, not a match lets move on and find a better match. We are egocentric and we live in a society where more is better and bigger is better ; therefore, we need bigger penises now. But again it is not a matter of satisfaction rather a matter of comparing with the previous lover or the one who comes next.
I want to be remembered as the one who made her come and dominate her with my Dick... , says part of me...
But I also agree that when you made a women have an orgasm, her whole being changes and she wants to please you and make you happy. On the contrary if you did not do a good job, omg, come and see how nasty they can be... Is there a correlation between those two, I dont know.. I guess it is for you to answer this q?
thanks

waldgaenger2 wrote: Did any woman denigrate you because of your penis size or refised to have sex with you for the same reason?

Not for me and I was only 6\" EL X 5\" EG. BUT, once these women are mad at you and you leave them or they leave you, then you have a small penis and you NEVER satisfied them!

Now They always positively comment on my size.....Size DOES matter to these women!

In Italy there are a lot of very slim girls who have little breasts who pretend to have sex with well hung boys only, some of them denigrate small Dick boys too and many good-looking boys please them thinking that a man must always please a woman, that\'s a bad feminism and men stupidity.
They say that no matter if they have little breasts while pig penises are necessaries in terms of satisfaction during a sexual act which is a nonsense, I don\'t feel a great pleasure during sexual act with a girl with small tits instead of a girl with big boobs.
I don\'t know if does it happen in US too but I have to say that we must STOP pampering all these arrogant girls who ruin many boys and SHOW our willpower getting them out of the way in my Country!

Yes they did, but never refused to have sex with me, and not really since I was 15.