nohidingstyle wrote: Had another squirter a couple weeks ago. You\'ll think I\'m lying but I\'m not: she squirted nearly a quart and it went about eight feet far, maybe three feet up in the air, got all over my bed and floor and some on the wall. Just from fingering. I didn\'t fuck her, I was drunk and she kinda scared me (not from squirting, just in general).
Yes, it is mostly in their heads, apart from the pron women who are trained to do it on demand for the show.
My girl had never squirted before but now she does every time by hand, mouth, and Dick stimulation. but we are a perfect sexual match. If she is into you and she is relaxed and comfortable about squirting (many girls think they are pissing on you, and to a certain extent they are, so they are shy to do it) then some most likely will squirt with you. My girl did so after about 15 times of sexual encounters, she was surprised her self but now she wants it every time.
This is going to sound stupid, but you\'ve got to warm her up as much as possible for this. There are some girls that have trained themselves to squirting all the time, but that\'s a rare exception. One of the best articles I\'ve read on female sexuality said do two things I\'d never considered. When I want my gf to get off easier, I nonchalantly sit on her feet for a little while, or rub them to warm them up. Also, make sure to touch her middle back, gently, without rushing. Apparently the combo releases tension and allows them to relax and get into the idea of sex. It\'s not about more physical stimulation, it\'s about turning her on. There\'s a difference.
Really hard orgasms come from the brain, at least all mine have. They result from someone getting inside my head, figuring out what nasty shit turns me on, and then doing it. Find her kink... whatever it is, that\'s where those squirting orgasms come from.
Your junk is fine man, just get into her head. Also, it\'s not a sprint. Don\'t have goals of specific results, aim to make her feel good. That\'s all that matters. Spoil her because you want.
Interesting stories. No success with this yet unfortunately and I\'ve made this my mission. I\'ve had girls tell me that I\'ve given the best head they have received, but still no squirt. They seem to like licking their clit while both my middle n index finger very aggressively finger her in the come hither fashion. Like putting serious pressure as deep as can against their front wall. They will orgasm from this, but not squirt. I don\'t feel anything inside girls that distinguishes her G-Spot from the rest of her internal pussy. Feel like I\'m aggressively rubbing the internal wall with a lot of pressure and maybe hitting the G-Spot but without knowing I\'m hitting it.
This one girl I\'m banging says she has squirted twice before from sex with another guy, but no matter how hard I try with my fingers or different sex positions (like pillow underneath) still don\'t get her to squirt. Maybe the guy had a bigger Dick then me or had an upward curved penis. Not sure.. Thinking about asking her.
I\'ve had great success with this. Women don\'t just squirt from your size. It certainly helps but you have to be able to have great stamina, use pleasure them with penetration and clitoral stimulation (preferably at the same time), hit the right spots internally with your Dick, fingering correctly (there are actually how-to videos that are very helpful, I think I saw one on vimeo a while back), and most importantly get them really worked up psychologically.
Here\'s my track record:
ex-wife: very small (5\'3\") Japanese woman. Squirted profusely and uncontrollably for the first few years of our dating/marriage, but as things cooled down psychologically she did so less and less frequently.
rebound girl after marriage: did not squirt. pretty tall and very heavy (5\'10\", 300 lbs +). We were only intimate a few times, I think it could have happened at some point but doesn\'t count obviously.
long-term girlfriend: 5\'7\" jamaican girl. Squirted profusely but felt very self-conscious about it so it only either happened when she was drunk or high, and she didn\'t drink often. If we got the proper bed coverings she\'d do it as well but still had a psychological block about it.
hookup1: average sized white girl. squirted the second time out of three times.
hookup2: small white girl (maybe 5\'4\") squirted from oral and fingering, we never had intercourse
short-term gf1: small white girl. did not squirt, we had horrible sexual chemistry which was a big part of our breakup.
hookup3: largish white-girl, (5\'10\", ~170 lb). squirted a little bit.
short-term gf2: larger white girl (5\'8\", maybe ~200 lb) squirted like crazy when drunk and high. said she\'d slept with over 150 men, i think her overall sexual comfort played a role.
current gf: small hispanic girl (5\'5\", maybe ~130 lb) squirts but it takes a long time. again, it seems like she\'s holding it in and needs to be comfortable enough to get there.
6/8 seems to mean something, I\'m not sure what. I may also just be attracted to \"that kind of girl\" but I think it\'s more likely the factors listed above.
I don\'t know how woman can squirt when she has a penis inside her?
I have had two girls who can squirt. One I mentioned in a previous thread and basically she claimed she never had an orgasm, so I used my tongue and fingers and she had an intense orgasm and squirted a bunch of clear fluids on the sheets. May be it was just the fluids in her vagina and the contractions of the orgasm squirted it out which is basically a squirt.
The other lady I have known off and mostly on for a while and she squirt every time with fingers and/or tongue. But she can\'t squirt with my tool inside her because, I believe, the thick penis prevents her contractions from pushing the fluids outside the vagina. Also, when she has a very big orgasm, she squirts clear fluids followed by a bunch of clear pee, I think the vaginal contractions causes her to lose control of her pee hole.
Now, in porn, most of the women you see squirting are experts at controlling their vagina muscles and I believe some times they purposely inject fluids (or drink a lot of fluids and not pee for a long time before their acting scene) to exaggerate the actions. There is no way some of these women can have that much fluid inside them and squirt for such a long time and such long distances without some artificial thing going on...just my theory.
I also believe that a woman has to be sexually very excited and in to you to squirt \"consistently\".
Smallja - Great story, you must miss that girl. I know I would. Best of luck finding another girl like that
Sizemic - You saying 3/4ths of chicks you been with. Maybe it is girls have to be taught to squirt via our hands first either by us or a previous lover before they will be able to penetration squirt. Are you using the upside down rock hand sign with up and down movement to make them squirt?
I\'ve gotten 3 girls to squirt. All pre-op. I don\'t think the size has anything to do with it.
In all cases I talked dirty to the girls before penetration and then finally just pushed hard all the way in and gave it a couple good strokes - then they squirted instantly.