TOPIC: Sexting

New1inch wrote: . If she thinks I\'m small why she\'s still trying to be around me? It\'s kinda confusing.

This is a reasonably typical comment for this forum and it\'s the kind of thing that demonstrates just how messed up in the head many of us are regarding the whole penis size issue.

When you read about other people having these kind of thoughts, it really makes one realize just how utterly warped our thinking can be. The idea of being confused as to why someone would want to hang around you when you have a small penis, sounds so shockingly stupid that it\'s hard to believe it\'s true. However, I have found myself having similarly stupid thoughts. I bet lots of us here have and this is a great example of just how mentally damaging having size insecurities is.

If you think about what New1inch has said, it\'s as if he\'s equating having a small penis (which he doesn\'t) with something that is sufficiently abhorrent that a person will no longer want to be in their company. It\'s like saying a girl thinking you have a small penis is like here finding out your a racist activist or have a contagious disease.

When I was at school I gave up all my sports hobbies, which I loved, in order to avoid the showers, as I thought if the guys saw my penis, they\'d no longer want to be mates with me! I did have a small penis, but by allowing my mind to exaggerate the impact this would have on how people view me as a person, it totally ruined my life.

@New1inch, as much as the others are right about her actions in this, you also need to try and focus on how you reacted to it. You need to recognize that being \"confused\" as to why she\'d want hang out with you, is as much as the problem as her being a bitch. You\'ve got to be though on yourself and try and not allow yourself to be controlled by irrational thinking that is driven by insecurity. It\'s easy to come here, tell your story, while subconsciously knowing our members be sympathetic with your situation and tell you she\'s at fault. It\'s true she is, but you\'ve also got to accept that you are also being your own worse enemy here. You have to acknowledge that if you are confused as to why a girl would want to hang around you despite thinking you have a small penis, then there is a problem here beyond the actual size of your penis and with the way you are thinking.

If you were to suddenly get a big penis would you be confused if girls didn\'t want to hang around you?

There are women in this world that are barely even worth stepping over. Sure, some of them may be pretty, but if she\'s the kind of person who will cut you just to take the best thing you have in life (your self esteem), then she might as well be kicking you in the balls every day. We let women get away with so much just because they look good and have a pussy. Well, news flash, there are pretty women out there who don\'t suck as people.

If a woman asks you if she looks fat do you say, \"yeah you\'re fat. My last girlfriend was really skinny, and I could go so much deeper in her when we had sex, it reall felt a lot better than when I fuck you.\"

I have never heard of a guy saying anything like that to a woman. So imagine what an utter asshole you would have to be to say that to someone, and that\'s something she has the ability to control.

Women can be assholes too, you don\'t have to take that. Your dick is fine. Use that swag and get out there and lay some pipe. You\'ve earned it. Stop leading with your chin (dick pics) and start leading with your , even if you\'re just trying to fuck. Girls that don\'t suck and can show vulnerability are waaaaaay better in the sack.

That\'s my two pennies.

New1inch wrote: So I was told I had a small Dick today... After 7 months of PE and an Inch growth I still don\'t make the cut. I actually starting to feel pretty good about my Dick. Can\'t be mad at her for being honest tho. Guess I have a lot more work to do with PE.

You\'re dealing with a total bitch. Women like that obviously have their own issues (maybe an undesirably large vagina?) and mask it by amplifying our own insecurities - fact is you aren\'t small. We can say for certain, at the very least, you are within the realm of average, and this implies for SURE you aren\'t small. Next time remind the stupid bitch where she doesn\'t measure up since I\'m positive she isn\'t perfect. She wasn\'t being honest, she was being offensive.

The good news is that you should come to learn she\'s nothing short of a head case. There is a silver lining to this after all.

Keep up the positive attitude you\'ve been showing this past year, it\'ll pay off in the long run.

That is such bullshit!!

So I was told I had a small Dick today... After 7 months of PE and an Inch growth I still don\'t make the cut. I actually starting to feel pretty good about my Dick. Can\'t be mad at her for being honest tho. Guess I have a lot more work to do with PE.

Mudball wrote: I am still trying to figure out why you are so paranoid about your Dick. It looks fine, I really have not met one woman that wanted sit and stare at a Dick anyways. If you had a big tumor looking thing Hanging off it or it looked like you had a disease that was contagious ! Come on don\'t lead with your Dick, lead with you and the rest will follow!!! It is amazing that so many men are below ave. and can still date, apparently all women are not in search of the loch ness monster ! You will never have a good relationship if it is only about your Dick. My brother is living proof, huge Dick and could not keep a wife (2) so far and could only keep a girl friend for about two months! 90% of them left him!

Thanks mudball. Your absolutely right. But to my defense I do have a somewhat disfigured shaft. I have signs of surgery underneath my shaft. Not from enhancement. I had surgery as a baby because I was born with hypospadius. I just think sometimes it would freak them out or be a turn off. I actually am on the average side when it come to my size at 6 inches. Girth is 5. I still feel undersized. I just wish it was more esthetically pleasing. I do worry too much and need to get past that. Just hard as I thought this way my whole life.

supa wrote: She did not sent a pic of her open pussy though! She sent you tits, you might as well reciprocate with just your nipples, if you aim at maintaining an equilibrium

Before sending a pic of your unit (quite an intimate thing), first ask at least whether she would like to see it. Women are insane, she might otherwise be very well capable to complain that your pic is \"too extreme\" or porn or whatever.

I like that idea. I may try that.

I am still trying to figure out why you are so paranoid about your Dick. It looks fine, I really have not met one woman that wanted sit and stare at a Dick anyways. If you had a big tumor looking thing Hanging off it or it looked like you had a disease that was contagious ! Come on don\'t lead with your Dick, lead with you and the rest will follow!!! It is amazing that so many men are below ave. and can still date, apparently all women are not in search of the loch ness monster ! You will never have a good relationship if it is only about your Dick. My brother is living proof, huge Dick and could not keep a wife (2) so far and could only keep a girl friend for about two months! 90% of them left him!

She did not sent a pic of her open pussy though! She sent you tits, you might as well reciprocate with just your nipples, if you aim at maintaining an equilibrium

Before sending a pic of your unit (quite an intimate thing), first ask at least whether she would like to see it. Women are insane, she might otherwise be very well capable to complain that your pic is \"too extreme\" or porn or whatever.

Girls send neked pics all the time. They don\'t always want one back. Girls are different. They like to be teased a little. Send one in your underwear with no shirt. Hint, but don\'t give it away. I was told this by a female friend.

Daddio19 wrote: if she dont ask for it dont send it lol

But she sent me one..aint its courteous to return the favor? lol.

if she dont ask for it dont send it lol

go ahead and send it bro!

jonthomas wrote: the trick to sending Dick pics is easy bro. theres a couple rules. Dont send a fully flacid pic and never send a fully Erect pic right off the bat. get your piece nice and chubbed. get the blood flowing but make sure its still Hanging so it looks completely flacid.

Thanks for the advice bro. Thing is I don\'t like how small my flacid looks. Even a little chinned up it looks too small. I don\'t want her to think I\'m too tiny.. Lol. I\'m average 6 inches x 5 Girth.... \"For now\".. Lol.. So no to the picture then?

the trick to sending Dick pics is easy bro. theres a couple rules. Dont send a fully flacid pic and never send a fully Erect pic right off the bat. get your piece nice and chubbed. get the blood flowing but make sure its still Hanging so it looks completely flacid.