Does anyone have this problem? It\'s difficult for me to orgasm during sex. Sensation seems dull. It could be meds but I was having trouble finishing before I started taking meds so not sure that\'s the cause. I also had surgery on my junk 2 years ago. I don\'t know if that causes me to lose sensation and makes it much more difficult to finish.
I\'ve got a lot of experience with this. Ladies assume that I\'ve had too much to drink (whiskey Dick) or that I\'ve masturbated recently (which often is true). For me I\'m pretty certain that it\'s a mental and physical issue based upon my behavior and choices.
Masturbating too fast/vigorous is a likely cause for me. To replicate this sensation during sex would be very difficult to accomplish except by the most athletic. I\'ve abstained from \"self molestation\" for 1-2 weeks on occasion and then things naturally go much faster--sometimes significantly faster (like 98% faster). It didn\'t help that I started edging with a cable clamp which greatly desensitized me--but at least I don\'t have to worry about not experiencing a tight vagina. Now I\'m also in the early stages post PMMA which with my even larger Girth will mean I have to finish my business even sooner. At 7 Inch Girth (pre-PMMA) most women gave me about 20-30 minutes penetration before it was hand job or cuddle time. Post PMMA I\'m guessing I\'ll usually get 10-15 minutes max.
I know there has to be a significant mental aspect as well though. First of all, some ladies (more than one) have given 110% effort in penetration, oral, and manual stimulation during the same session and I\'ve had to assure them that it was my fault and that I was indeed enjoying myself. On many more occasions when I\'m alone (just a man and his porn) I know what kinks I like, what mental buttons I have to push to make it quick or let it run long or to even have 2-4 in a marathon. I\'m confident that abstaining from porn would allow me to \"detox\" and to be more excited by more normal/mundane sex acts.
I\'m confident that I could choose to fix my issues related to this by changing how I behave--because I\'ve done it before for women I\'ve cared about. Although, I\'ve always dreamed of finding an ultra kinky, nymphomaniac, sex addict, woman who enjoys kinky marathon sex
The shaft of my penis only has about 30% sensation. I lost the sensation after Dr. Eilst put the implant in back in 2009. I was assured by the doctor that the sensation would come back in a few weeks but ...it never has.
As a result, I find it difficult to climax. I can literally go as long as I want to without cumming and (actually) have to concentrate hard to do so. I try to look at it positively,. I went from a guy who would often cum a little too quickly to a a guy who can go for a marathon sessions. Cialis has made these marathon sessions possible at the ripe age of 44.
It only takes me a few minutes to cum through masturbation.
I mirror MM\'s experience. Surgery has robbed me of sensation and I find it incredibly hard to cum. Sex can be like a hard session at the gym, as to even get close to cumming I need to bang away like a mad man.
This describes my experience as well. Though I don\'t have any specific area of sensation loss, I presume all the work I had done has reduced the responsiveness to stimulation. After the last girl I had intercourse with came, I couldn\'t. I am a little worried about it. Seems it is worse now than when I had the Elist dildo. Anyway I had her give me a real strong hand job. That didn\'t do it either. Course I am getting older (50) so that isn\'t helping.