TOPIC: Does A Bigger Dick Change Things?

I was Dance Withdrawing, I changed my username to what it was orignally supposed to be, Dance With Dragons (an awesome book from George R R Martin of Game of Thrones).

So what is different for me during foreplay (oral, fingering, etc) is that I know I can make a woman cum her brains out doing those things. I don\'t get the same reactions when I\'m using my Dick, and it frustrates me. My SO will say she just wants me to fuck her, that she doesn\'t want foreplay, but I just feel so inadequate it prevents me from enjoying it. I feel like if I was bigger, truly in the average to above average range, it would make me feel like she wasn\'t faking, like I actually am giving her pleasure.

Has anyone else experienced this? Did getting bigger help it?






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Hey DanceWithdrawing....Thanks for your posts. Yes we are men, and YES, we are supposed to talk about anything we need to discuss on this wonderful forum!
Thanks again....Keep us posted on your exciting adventure....Best to you.

Dance withdrawing wrote: I ask this because I have been plagued for years of a sense that, unless I am performing oral and fingering or something, I\'m just boring the woman I\'m with and she\'s really just humoring me.

I guess you first have to say what is different for you between oral/fingering and penetration before answering if a bigger Dick will have the same effect.

Dr Casavantes told me he does not do length though. only width... He refered me to Dr Camacho for length. i thought u was interested in length too...

I was, but I\'ve been convinced that Hanging for length without surgery is the way to go.

Mine is still bitching about it being too big.........really starting to piss me off!!!! Is nothing ever good enough with women? If they didn\'t have pussy there would be bounties on their heads!!!

Usual eqstudent\'s attitude, no problem, we are used to it. All is good guys.

When I talked about ruthless bitches I clearly emphasized that it was within my experience and personal understanding. I did not claim I was announcing a physical law of the universe. At any rate, I happily leave all the Sarah Jessica Parkers of the US to eqstudent and his dad; the kind of woman clearly all men want to see when they go back home after work.

It is all right to disagree and express different viewpoints (as eqstudent offered nothing more -how could he? This ain\'t algebraic topology!) but, of course when eqstudent does it, he feels compelled to act and write condescendingly. It is in his nature and there is nothing he can do about it, .

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supa wrote: Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion....

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe...

Dance With Dragons wrote: ...that America has turned into a culture where men are relocated to second class citizens unless they are abnormally blessed in the penis department...

Sorry guys but this is just pathetic nonsense. You are fantasizing about a time and environment that never existed. The media, popular culture, or women have not emasculated some men. Men with no Balls have done it to themselves and are such cowards they are looking for something else to blame.

The same guys who are whining, hiding in the dark, and cringing in fear that some other man might be bigger than them would have been doing the same thing 50, 100, or 1000 years ago. All the other men were going about their business not even giving it a second thought. Heck the ancient Greeks thought that a small penis was ideal. The ancient Romans had public sex and sometimes orgies as common practices.

As far as supposed \"ruthless bitches\", after 2 years on several PE boards I have yet to see a real account of single one. So a woman said that someone in her past was bigger than you. Guess what that is just a matter of fact and has no other real meaning. Get over it and grow a pair as my dad used to say.

\"Fap on it\", dear phalloboards brothers ( www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fap%20on%20it ) and you will without exception experience a priceless epiphany of the true value of women and sex.

I too am disgusted by the ongoing emasculation by culture & media over the years, but I do believe it can be reversed/stalled. I think men need to have an awakening or we\'ll truly succumb to a sort-of second class citizenry.

Quote: \"What I am trying to say is that until you put \"modern\" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock\"

Unfortunately that may never happen in the US. The men have lost there Balls and can\'t get them back. There are so many desperate men who will lower their standards to get \"any\" vagina, and this by itself will give the power to the woman. Add all the media that promotes women and demeans men, most men have no choice left but to add lots of PMMA to their penises and lots of Money to their wallets to be able to get a decent pussy!

A solid post Supa. I hate Sex in the City for the way it demeans men. I honestly believe (and have talked with my fiance about this who agrees) that America has turned into a culture where men are relocated to second class citizens unless they are abnormally blessed in the penis department, and even then are most often treated as giant oafs with no intellectual prowess. Imagine if we as men, on a regular basis, both in private conversation and through mass media, routinely ridiculed women with large vaginas as absolutely worthless human beings, completely unwomanly and people to be cast aside and shunned. Imagine affording a nearly godlike status to those rare women who could barely fit an average penis inside them, placing them on high above all others, singing songs of praise to them and dedicating countless hours of television and other media to the fact that any woman who can accomodate more than 3 inches of Dick is just not worth our time.

Frankly, it would be well deserved, although I as a compassionate human being with depth understand that creating that kind of complex in half of our population might do some real damage to our society, in fact might begin tearing away at social fabric in a way that might be extremely difficult to undo and shit.

* Adding \"and shit\" to any statement instantly gives you more street cred, so always add it when broaching an emotionally charged subject that exposes your own isecurities.

Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion. Mass media are largely responsible for the worship of sex: in this time and age if you don\'t ejaculate onto a woman\'s face, you have not engaged in a threesome with Pamela Anderson looking girls that happily do ass-to-mouth, you are really missing something. They say.

As for women worrying about penis size, we let them! The balance of power tipped decades ago. It was not always like this.

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe say.Obviously, US culture propagates to Europe; on the plus side, Europeans can, say, enjoy reading the masterpieces written by Cormac McCarthy (please, consider reading \"The Road\", if you have not already). However, they also have to put with the underrated consequences of the popularity in Europe of \"Sex and the City\", for instance. How can the Sex&the City woman prototype coexist with the dominant conservative religious views in the US baffles me, but I digress.

What I am trying to say is that until you put \"modern\" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock. We let women believe they are sitting on a gold mine instead of a vagina. In the end, it is just pussy, not the holy grail. We should know better.

why couldn\'t we all men been born with the same size penis that way females wouldnt worry about penis sizes no more but about how we do it?

At least she\'s not complaining that it\'s too small!! I\'d lo\'ve to hear i was too big!!! And suspect I will be hearing that by late February haha!!