I got sex every day before we had kids. After my first was born my wife quit wanting to have sex all together. It stayed that way for 3-1/2 years. I realistically had sex once every other month and it was absolutely terrible. I have never been a person that would even consider cheating, but about 6 months ago I reached my breaking point and started to not only entertain the idea, but to look pretty hard. Fortunately my conscious got the best of me and I sat down my wife down for a talk. As I have said before we are brutally honest with each other so I just told her the truth. I said I am only 30 and you have denied me sex for the better part of 4 years. If something doesn\'t change immediately I have every intention of starting to fuck other women. I am not sure what kind of fire that lit under her ass, but I have been getting laid almost every night since. She said she had actually forgotten that she enjoyed sex, because she was in such a \"mommy mode\". She is also making an appointment to have her hormone levels checked to make sure that everything is normal. Either way I am happy to be getting laid again and even get BJ\'s when she able to have sex.