How many of us here actually give the rest of our bodies the attention we give our dicks? It seems like we\'re so fascinated and determined to have bigger units that we seem to neglect the other important things. Grooming, fitness, etc. For me, the fitness/physique area was always my number one focus, it wasn\'t untill recently (about a year) that I began feeling the need to enhance my package. I think if we truly want to be happy with ourselves, we need to focus on offering the \"entire package\", instead of just a big Dick. Let\'s face it, looks are just as important as anything else in life. Granted a true meaningful relationship should never be based on physical aspects alone, it doesn\'t hurt to know your partner is physically attracted to you throughout the relationship. After all, 9 times out of 10 you approach a woman because of how she looks/dresses/acts. You generally don\'t experience her personality first. What are your thoughts?
For me, I truly believe that once I can move on from my PE pursuits, other aspects of self-image will take on similar priority (albeit maybe not as intense). I really want to be as marketable as possible, and if it weren\'t for my size hang-ups, I\'d have already been more conscious of other image \"flaws.\"
I will say, however, that I have made strides in physical fitness and appearance (style, attire, etc) since I\'ve come to realize killing two birds with one stone is far more efficient in achieving my long-term goals, even in light of the fact that PE is at the steering wheel. I\'d also consider myself a decent-looking dude with good sociability and a large network of friends & family, all of which keep me on my toes when it comes to overall (healthy) self-image.
Skeptical, It\'s understandable that PE takes the front seat so to speak, as the intimate nature of the area, and the emotional damage that can be done from comments regarding it are a bit more severe. Think about if a girl says you\'re ugly, it hurts far less than if she says you have a small Dick. It\'s nice to see that you acknowledge the importance of other aspects of personal appearance and enhancement. I see far to many men thinking \"all I need is a big Dick and I\'ll be set.\" I think it\'s also important to note that if we truly want a real relationship, we also need to focus on our mental game as well. Perhaps learning another language, increasing and broadening our vocabulary, learning how to cook etc.
I think I give the rest of my body a fair amount of attention. One of the primary reasons I started looking into PE was to bring it into line with the rest of my build- I felt (and still feel) that it\'s one of my weaker points, and I very much want to be \'the complete package\'
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Good point. In my case, my PE focus grew after I had paid attention first to my body and mind. I just couldnt believe there was \'nothing\' one could do to improve ourselves down there while there were many things one could do for the rest, naturally or comestically.
@ Mexmuscle My original focus was my physique as well, and while this still takes a majority of my focus, I\'ve learned that in order to truly offer all I can in a relationship I need to grow as an individual both physically and mentally. Glad there are others who feel the same