Wife/GF/SO Girth thread Continuation 12 years 7 months ago #1271322607
I quote my wife: \"There\'s not much distance from the outer vagina to the G-spot, and having a longer than average penis can hurt more than being pleasurable. It\'s more important to feel a filling sensation with the Girth. Average length and big Girth is much better than longer.\" Of course, she might be a little biased. My stats: 5.5\" EL, 6.25\" EG.
Bone pressed I\'m over 7\" and there have been many girls who got poked a little too far. They don\'t like it. When they\'re on top they usually don\'t go all the way down. You\'d think if they wanted longer they\'d go down as far as possible. Girth is definitely more important.
Justabitmore wrote: Friend of ours is single and very open about her dildo use so I asked for her favorite size for the purpose of this thread. her fave toy is 7x 5.25! I then ask how much she uses and she says Oh I never put it all the way in!
Yea makes sense... If she\'s an avid user, her toy is 7\", and she doesn\'t insert all of it... I think it would be safe to assume that at least 1-2\" of the dildo is handheld...thus an insertion of 5\"-6\" of actual dildo.
Thanks for that info JABM!
Friend of ours is single and very open about her dildo use so I asked for her favorite size for the purpose of this thread. her fave toy is 7x 5.25! I then ask how much she uses and she says Oh I never put it all the way in!
HunkChunk wrote: @eqstudent
How many really can accomodate 8\" length?
Do they insert them all the way, or was some length preference used to account for hand placement?
I strongly suspect (especially since the bulk of these women probably have not seen a real 8-incher, or at best, seen them very infrequently) long dildos/vibrators are made to be long to allow for the palm of the woman to be taken into account. And even in most pornography I decided to review (a horrible resource indeed), many of the non-freakish type women typically inserted 5-6 inches of the actual toy into them. There is a chance the women themselves in these studies were entirely oblivious that an 8-Inch toy was designed as such for the purpose of providing hand-held space. The same women who probably couldn\'t eyeball a size or accurately gauge their past lovers dimensions.
Furthermore, if 5-6\" is sufficient, that is explains why dildos & vibrators are not just as long...because once a woman gets her hand around a 6\" dildo, she only has 3\" (+/-) of insertable toy.
At novelty sex stores, I\'ve come to notice dildos that were 6\" or so were usually the mountable kind... the one\'s meant to stay stationery (by means of suction cup or whatever) so that the woman would not be using her hand and she would be using the toy in free form. Otherwise, all hand-insertables were almost always longer than 5-6\".
This may be of some comfort to us \"shorter\" guys. I\'ve also concluded before that 5.5\"-6.5\" may be the ideal length if the same individual had a massive Girth. This is because with that length, one could fuck Balls deep (thus allowing the base of the penis to maximize entry & clitoral stimulation) without necessarily pounding the cervix. So in other words, a 6x6 might actually be more ideal than the fabled 8x6. At least in my judgment, which is only so good since I\'m not a woman lol.
That is some interesting info with the sweetspot being between 4.5\" and 5.5\" in Girth. I find that comforting to most of us, although I\'m sure that the fellow who got the world\'s record PMMA enhancement would question their choice of a proportioned dildo when their fridge is filled with coke cans?
How many really can accomodate 8\" length? I\'ve seen lots of porn scenes in which the girl looked like she couldn\'t take that much in and actually suffered when a longish guy got tired of the dry Dick syndrome and tried to penetrate them further... Did you ask them about other length preferences?
A few other things coms to mind. Did they try them out or just react to their feel and appearance? Do they insert them all the way, or was some length preference used to account for hand placement? Also, were they each alone to cast a private vote or did they choose in front of each other? I wonder about peer pressure and also the reliability of a size preference for an artificial item which probably would fail to dilate them upon penetration as much as the turn on of a HOT guy straight out of the PhalloBoard forum.
PMMA someday soon wrote: Is it a possiblity that women are avoiding the very large dildoes not because they are sub-optimal but to avoid adjusting to a size they are less likely to find in real life?
Impossible to say, but I doubt it. We can only guess here so my conjecture would be that they are indeed going for optimal size (they are buying something to provide pleasure - why cut themselves short?). Also note that vibrators in particular remain permanently Erect whereas a real penis can fluctuate in Erection quality. Its rigidity may mean that a vibrator requires less sheer Girth (just a theory).
The 5\" - 5.5\" Erect Girth range can accommodate a Magnum condom, so I\'d imagine they should suffice for most normal, healthy women.
A part of me wonders if we should have a Resident-Female board member here who can be verified and who can be entrusted with providing valuable insight and who isn\'t a dreaded size queen. It would almost certainly have to be someone\'s wife, and I can\'t imagine how comfortable any of the guys would be with entertaining this idea. We do have 2 female members as far as I know, one who has posted but hasn\'t posted for a while. A part of me wants to keep this place strictly male, but then apart of me realizes that we sometimes discuss things (like this topic) with no real certainty of the answers unless female input is provided (which eqstudent has so graciously provided).
Anyways, I hope to break 5\" EG across the entire shaft after Round 3.