I see a lot of us asking what is the ideal size and there are quite a number post on this.
Before I start ,I would like to share Mustang\'s words from another post, these are golden words.
\"The best size is : good technique, tongue, mouth, fingers, good smell, well dressed and last but not least; a hard penis that is long enough to go in past a couple of inches in the vagina.\"
Without these , single males will not see a lot of action even if they have 7 Inch penis.As a man our penis is seen/experienced at a stage when sex is imminent to happen so the other attraction triggers have to work correctly before you can even show your penis.
For single heterosexual males where the goal is to have a penis that allows great sex with as many possible partners, here is a proposal.
A more accurate question will be to find out ideal penis size by correlating the mans body dimensions(height and weight) mostly, ideally body fat percentage too. Would love to hear what experienced members think on this approach.
On penis length and body dimensions:
The most obvious point we tend to miss is the dimensions of female we intend to have sex with.If the man is 5ft 4 and he will most probably have a female partner who is around 5feet, having a 7 Inch penis will be counterproductive. She might not want to have regular sex with that penis. On the other hand if the man is 6ft 2 and has partners 5 ft 10, its a different story altogether. So ideal \"penis size\' is not relevant unless we have a frame of reference on whose body it belongs to. A females vaginal canal length will be proportional to her body dimensions, generally speaking.
On penis Girth and body dimensions:
Here it gets interesting because human females are designed to give birth to babies, with head diameter around 9 inches. Having said that no female wants sex to as painful as childbirth.Still I would say a 5-6 Inch Girth is safe assumption, for all females. I am sure there is a small percentage who want 7 Inch or more Girth, but thats statistically not significant.
The other aspect is body fat. As I have lost fat and developed muscles over last few years, I noticed my penis looks much better. With the abdominal fat and pubic fat gone and muscular lean legs, a man will definitely appear to have bigger penis that another man who has bulging fat pads all around with same penis size.
Most if not ALL Western women will decide if they are going to sleep with you or NOT in the first 5 seconds. Most of the time, they stick to their instinct. Very few may change their minds. This is NOT the case with Asian women who live in Asia, not in the West.
Having said that, I think self confidence, which I forgot to add to my statement that you shared here and thank you, is paramount in the road to success in having a romantic relationship...
Just to make sure we are on the same page: I think this thread is about men who want to meet regular western women, not pay for play women.
The worst thing ANY guy even the most handsome of them can do is look desperate with hungry eyes looking at the women body instead of her eyes.
Most men will get caught looking at a woman breasts, legs, ass and body and that is a very bad thing to do. They already lost a lot of credit!
I can write pages, but I hope members will chime in and we can all learn from each other...
Again, Dick size is the last thing women thing about when dating a guy, sadly it is the first thing that most men \"think\" size is important to women..
Someone who started dating at his 40 being non western, in a western country, I agree to your points. Working out, cocky humour, building a good physique, well fitting clothes, grooming, hygiene and mental strength development is key to that confidence.
However I would also like to state that when someone has that cocky masculine smile and swag(think Tyler Durden or James Bond) that comes with knowing you can rock her world in bed(average penis or large)...its extremely attractive.
This one aspect is where men with larger than average have an advantage..provided they have the other points checked. So for this aspect having PE done..works.