JohnLe
I am just a regular guy happily married for 20 years. My wife was against me getting the impant and not just because we could barely afford it. But I had alsways had a 6
Inch penis and wanted more. I saw the article in Mens Health about Dr. Elist and could not believe my luck!
Still I searched the internet for reviews and only found ones that seem to come from Google. All said good things about Dr. Elist. I did not find this site before I had procedure though.
My wife and I flew all the way across the country to Dr. Elist. When I got there everything seemed as presented except the drain I had to wear. I found that out just before surgery. Everything went fine with the surgery. I was more sore than told but I was still able to walk after the first day. After I had the drain out I came home with much excitement. AS you know Dr.Elist wants you to follow his post-op directions to the letter which I did. I had absolutely no complications except the nocturnal pain was MUCH worse than described and after 6 weeks waiting period I was most anxious to start back having sex with my wife.
Right from the start I was very aware of the 2
Inch lose in length and the numbness. I also was unable to have a climax with my wife. Of course I tried masturbating but that didn\'t work either. The numbness was preventing me from enjoying my wife or taking care of myself. I talked to Dr. Elist and he assured me not to worry. Both size and numbness would go away. I particularly questioned him about the size since I was going for extra length not less. He said not to worry.
After 4 months with no change my wife started complaining about the sharp edges at the top of my penis. I talked to Dr. Elist and he said not to worry. It was just the implant and he asked me if it went away when I was
Erect. I said mostly but it was very noticeable otherwise. He said he could shave it down if I wanted him to. I put that off since I was on the East coast. My wife wanted me ask him about the stiffness and unreal feel it had to it. He said not to worry in time scare tissue would cover it and it would be normal.
In 2 more months I called Dr. Elist and told him my numbness and length had not changed as he told me it would. He said maybe it needed adjusting and could I come back for him to examine. Since my wife was very unhappy with the whole thing and I had only managed to have 2 orgasm through masturbation I went back.
By the time I got there I had decided to have it removed. It felt like a dildo inside me and a local
Urologist who had never heard about this and didn\'t think it a good idea told me I may never get my feeling back. Dr. Elist didn\'t question me getting it removed. I thought that odd but I wanted it out. He charged me $2500 and I went through the same procedure as before with the drain.
It has been a year since
Removal. Currently I still have no feeling in 75% of my penis and I am 1.5 inches shorter. I also have a nice big scar that was suppose to only be 1
Inch. I have called Dr. Elist every 2 months to tell him of my lack of progress. He assures me not to worry that the length will come back and the numbness as well. I still can\'t have a climax with my wife. I am able with great concentration and an hours work to have one through masturbation. One time I did it in 45 minutes.
The guys in the forum who have been through it are GREAT! They are a great support group and if I had found this first I wouldn\'t be in the shape I am in now. I have not found one thing that was not spot on in the forum.
I only found it after I had it taken out. If I had found it sooner I would have had it removed sooner because I think the longer it is in the worse your chances of getting back to normal are. I only wish I had left well enough alone.
We all have to make our own decisions and I wish you the best of luck.