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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707166

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Was thinking a bit about telling female friend or/and fuckbuddy about it.
But then decided not to. Because what shall they say, of course \'don\'t do it\'.
Did not think about telling a friend about it. Perhaps because i don\'t have a friend. Omg, this just occured to me.

In the beginning i told a former fuckbuddy and now female friend, but i just told about the possibility and i didn\'t know much then. She said \'oh no, imagine if something goes wrong with the nerves and it doesn\'t work anymore\'. I didn\'t know that this risk is just not there with pmma.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295710829

Didn\'t tell anyone.
Will see gf for first time after procedure next week.
I\'m nervous. There is quite a change, kind of hope she doesn\'t notice. There will be tears from her if she does. Doesn\'t want me doing anything to my body. When she found out I was using steroids she ended up in a hell of a state. Caring girl. Hope this doesn\'t mess things up.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295709622

brock wrote: I\'ll listen to counsel chester! What\'s the deal? I\'ll go search your posts if you\'ve already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem.

The deal is let your Dick heal and recuperate. Let the swelling come down completely before any kind of sexual activity.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295709304

my wife assisted, 1 week ago

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295708387

I told my girl. She is going with me.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295708379

I told one friend/FB before and no one else after. Friend was supportive but no surprise there as they are a sizeking In fairness they told me a year before of surgery they were going to get done so felt this would be a good person too talk to about it plus they are very openminded and would not judge.

Obviously if you have a partner say it but it would not be the first thing to to say to a new partner..... It does not sound the most Alpha thing and they also might think you are insecure.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707650

Unless it\'s completely unavoidable, don\'t tell anyone ever.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707436

brock wrote: I\'ll listen to counsel chester! What\'s the deal? I\'ll go search your posts if you\'ve already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem. My excuses will just have to be more elaborate. Maybe I\'ll \"tear my groin\" at the gym.
And yeah- 3 weeks till PMMA and Doc C.


Definetly just keep it a secret and see what she says.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707414

Don\'t tell any one. Just tell us here...LOL...

Let your lady tell you how she feels but deny deny deny, tell her : you just turn me on so much I am the biggest I have ever been!

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707332

I have told a few people and my sister but I don\'t remember if I told anybody before I had it the first time. Your best bet is saying you\'re having work - unrelated to PMMA - on your Dick - as it will be swollen and bruised for a while.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707330

I\'ll listen to counsel chester! What\'s the deal? I\'ll go search your posts if you\'ve already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem. My excuses will just have to be more elaborate. Maybe I\'ll \"tear my groin\" at the gym.
And yeah- 3 weeks till PMMA and Doc C.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707287

Brock, if you\'re getting pmma, i\'d counsel you to wait at least a month before intercourse. Perhaps longer.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295707189

I was thinking the same thing. 3 weeks to go till surgery for me. I have a weekend thing / girlfriend.. I get the surgery on Tues, wont see her till Sat. I could pull an I\'m tired/sick hold her off till Monday when she leaves then I have until the next Friday night to heal up.
I am not going to tell her, because I want to see if she notices WITHOUT me telling her. I think that an \"umm are you bigger?\" would be worth the money right there.

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Did you tell anyone before the operation? 5 years 2 months ago #1295712394

my wife was impressed, edema and swelling have gone away, lost some size but on the whole gained a half Inch or so, going back in this weekend for another 10ml\'s!
BSEG

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