TOPIC: I have a small penis and erectile dysfunction. I have been feeling suicidal recently. Is there anything I can do to get to average?

I didn\'t mean to insult anyone or be condescending . The fact is my penis is not giving me pleasure and isn\'t satisfying the women I am sleeping with. I try very hard in bed as well. My size is considered very small.

It\'s not like I am sitting here and complaining about things. I am making a change. I have a great personality and an excellent physique, which by the way is extremely difficult to achieve with low testosterone levels. Not only that but I also volunteer and help out in the community.

What I want is a good sex life for myself, and right now I\'m not having it.

I\'m not complaining anymore I am going to do something about this. First I need to get my erectile dysfunction problem solved and then I will use an all day stretcher. Afterwards, I\'ll get PMMA or something for Girth.

AstroD wrote: He said it was for Viagra, which personally I do not care for. I prefer Cialis at 5mg daily, although it can get expensive. I would only start the 5mg on Wednesdays and continue until Friday morning. That would be good for the weekend if I get lucky.

mc, have you tried viewing porn to see if that arouses anything? I don\'t advocate porn whatsoever, but in your case, it may help. Porn ruined me in as much that I couldn\'t get it up for a normal sex activity since it didn\'t stimulate me as porn could. again, try this only for a few days to see if it helps.

Astro I have so many questions for you, do you mind PMing me

First of all 4.5 inches is not average by any stretch of the imagination.

Many girls have rejected me after seeing my size outright. I\'m not trying to be an adonis I just want a healthy sex life.

I have stopped using the pump for good and haven\'t touched my penis. But the lack of erections aren\'t a good thing.

I spoke with my parents about this and they are telling me I should hold off until after I graduate college. They are saying no to trt but I need it.

So basically I\'m on my own. I need to get my own job and deal with this.

I am 21 right now and it\'s hard for me to deal with this ordeal. Most people my age are having sex. People are always wondering why I am so insecure despite my physique and personality.

I really can\'t just put this situation on hold and come back to it. I need to rectify the problem.

At worst I would like to have my old size back.

None of the doctors I\'ve seen so far have helped me. I don\'t want to take pills I have taken the Cialis before and it just gives me a headache.

I want to find a doctor who will help me work through this.

This reminds me of a documentary \"unhung hero\" guy felt his penis was small and he thought girls thought it was small. He went to find the best penis enlargment , but at end of the day he found a chick who likes him for who he is.

1. You should first go to Urologist so they can check Erection quality, and for few weeks stop with the pumps and stretchers so your penis can heal. Also 4.5in is average, but understandable that u might want to increase size, same with the rest of all us who might want to make further improvements

2. Once your penis heals and you went to Urologist, you can try to slowly start extender or go to surgeon to enhance it.. You can try non surgical like prp shots which will heal fast and restore or even enchance even further.

3. Stop over doing the Ed pills especially at young age. I\'m around same age I just use for recreation , and cut pill in half . You should use some supplements for time being

Also not all of this is in my head. Several girls have told me I\'m small and stopped contacting me after seeing my penis.

It\'s not a huge problem but because of my penis I\'m not having sex. So it\'d like to get the problem fixed.

Sympathy isn\'t going to fix it. Getting the proper advice for treatment will

Well I\'m not suicidal but I am disappointed. It is affecting my sex life a lot. The erectile dysfunction is a bigger problem than the size. But I still want a thicker penis.

I\'m not looking for sympathy that\'s not going to change my situations. But I need suggestions on how I can change my size.

Before the size used to be lower end of average but now it is actually small. It\'s like 4.5 inches and very thin from ed. I did change the title.

Sex is a big part of my life and I want to make it fun.

Okay well you say you aren\'t complaining but your thread title & username are sort of implicit complaints... especially given that they are exaggerations (i.e. micro). Your thread title also suggests that you are suicidal, despite having a great physique and personality. Are you saying that your modest stats are having you that down on yourself that you\'ve contemplated suicide? There are guys out there who are truly under average and micro, and many of them don\'t necessarily succumb to suicidal thoughts. I started off with a 3.5\" MSEG pre-PMMA and not once was I suicidal about it... I wasn\'t happy about it and sought to change it, but hell, even I knew I wasn\'t technically micro at the time. Granted, I\'m not in your shoes so I can\'t say for sure how it must be impacting you, but if everything else in your life is hunky dory, I\'m not sure how I\'m supposed to feel bad. And maybe you aren\'t looking for sympathy, but your thread title sure reeks like it.

ONLY look into penis enlargement with a sound, healthy state of mind. If you have depressed thoughts in the process, I\'m not sure enlargement is going to be the cure-all.

And I\'m now asking you to change the thread title to exclude mention of micropenis or I can have it done for you. Thanks.

@Oslo

First of all my penis used to be 5 inches length and 5 inches Girth. Now it is no where near that. I have not measured but with my weak erections I am 4.5 inches at best. Probably 4 inches on average. Also my penis is damaged from the pumping. I can tell something is seriously wrong. I can\'t even hold the weak erections for more than a minute. It\'s like the blood is flowing out of my penis.

I did some more research and it sounds like I have a Venous Leak.

@spankass.

You are definitely right. I used to have a 900 testosterone level at 17 and my penis was much thicker and longer than it is now. I said I am getting surgery at 24. Right now I am 21 and a 400 testosterone is way too low. Especially for someone like me who goes to the gym regularly and used to be an athlete.

I cannot get a full Erection. My weak erections only last a couple of minutes.

Like you said, the range should be between 800-1200. I am aiming for a level of 1200 for my personal goals.

I am starting testosterone replacement therapy but I just need to find the right doctor.

What doctors do testosterone replacement therapy in the Berkeley/San Francisco area?

@smalljay

Yes, I only have realistic goals. I want to be good in bed and have a good sex life. After researching oral techniques and other things, my foreplay skills are up to par. But I also want the penetration to feel be good for them and for me.

I have to wait until I finish college, so that I can pay for the surgery. In the meantime I can do the stretching exercises. However, right now I\'m being held back by the erectile dysfunction problem. So I\'m an a standstill at the moment.

Also I\'ve been reading a bit about PMMA, I\'ve only heard of Dr. Casavantes who is out of the country is there anyone who would do it in the United States?

Let\'s hope that the PMMA works out for me. I don\'t want any complications

@restoration

I\'ll contact him soon. I was down about my size, but the erectile dysfunction is a much worse issue right now.

Thank you for the link.

I guess you are mixing up between micro penis and erectile dysfunction. Micro penis is somewhere around 3.75inch Erect.. So you have average size , unless you are talking about Flaccid size which then you can be either a Grower or a shower, even if you have small Flaccid the Erect size is what matters a lot .

In regards to not satisfying your girlfriend, maby u are doing oral wrong or going to fast, since theirs no full explanation on why your girl is not satisfied, we won\'t know to be able to truly help you.. You should check a sexologist to help with your issue. Try to take supplements to help bring blood flow to your penis , over doing the pump will damage it, so I would stay away from it .

smalljay wrote:

microcock wrote: Honestly a 400 level for a 21 year old is ridiculously low. Especially for someone like me who goes to the gym 5 days a week and does not smoke or drink. My levels were measured at 900 at 17. The levels are supposed to peak at 25 so I just don\'t know what\'s going on here. I already saw 2 doctor\'s they said I am normal

You very likely are normal then. You need to go look at the range/charts for the specific test you had done.

Different doctors offices have completely different scales and standards for testosterone measurement - it isn\'t a universal scale as it should be. As such, different practices will give you completely different numbers, and also different scales of what\'s in the \'normal range\'. I genuinely had low testosterone from one doctors labs just as you did, but upon closer inspection (and a better test, one from an actual endocrinologist\'s office), it was shown to me that I was actually in the high range (very high, actually). My endo told me that general practitioner\'s tests often aren\'t the bests and have contradictory results. It\'s a very confusing, disorganized thing.

If you want to be sure, get your labs done at an endocrinologist\'s office, not a gp. If you are as ripped and muscular as you say you are, I think it\'s a pretty slim possibility that your test levels actually are that low.

This is not true. Docs will tell you its normal because its still fine to have that low of a test count and live. I have a test count of 147 yet I can still get hard and fuck for 20 mins but where lies the problem is that its not consistant and sometimes it will be 5 mins before I cum or 20 mins. Also I can feel I have less energy when I had a higher test count. My erections are not rock hard like they were when I was 20\'s and my test count was over 1k nor they do last as long.

So yes its normal to survive life at age 40 with a test count of 147 just as it would be normal to survive life at age 24 with a test count of 400 BUT those who are 24 with a test count of 800 will have way more energy and a better overall sex drive with harder and longer lasting erections that the lesser.

Test count of 400 on a 24 is not where you want to be for you self confidence and such. I would start injections. Plenty of doctors will do it because they know its not just about whats normal but also about your mental state and energy levels along with your sex drive. Every doctor has to help you and if you insist on injections to boost your levels up than most will do it because it wont harm you but can only help you. Doc has nothing to lose.

You can google test ranges and even then NO chart says a 24 year old should be 400.

I am starting injections because my test has never been this low

Dr. Lue is a top male sexual function uro , and lucky for you - he\'s your area. Many people have to fly to see him.

urology.ucsf.edu/people/tom-lue

It will probably take a few months to get in to see him, but that\'s the best in your area for what you are describing.

Just note that I doubt he\'ll address size issues since his concern is functional, not cosmetic. I doubt any urologist would address size issues with someone 5x5.

Can anyone recommend at good trt doc or Urologist in the Berkeley area?

I need the doppler utlrasound and a full blood panel.

If you guys can give me some good recommendations I\'d really appreciate it.

I\'m getting a retest to confirm the levels.

The big issue here is that I can\'t an Erection.

The second issue is that I have a small penis

I have no qualms about putting in the work for my gains. I am willing to use the ads for a couple of years before I get surgery.

But I just want an average length with big Girth.

Certain medications can interfere with nighttime erections. Other than that, it\'s not going to be possible to say much - you just need an exam & history by a Urologist. Maybe you have circulation issues or venous leakage...there are a lot of things that only a doctor can tell you.

For the rest of the post... yikes, yeah what SkepticalOne said. A micropenis is 1-2\" hard...not what you have.

Maybe the levels are normal but something is seriously wrong. My size has retracted it\'s around 4.5 now and also I can\'t get an Erection that I can hold.

It\'s either the testosterone or the pumping. I hope it\'s not permanent