TOPIC: How BIG should we go? Honestly...

When I started down the PE road more than a decade ago, I knew I was small. Regardless that most claims show I was average, every girl I had ever been with had likely been with someone bigger- that\'s probably a very true statement. I then did the experiment with the cyberskin extenders and found out with a small number of girls, that YES it fits!, and they love it. PMMA is dangerous mentally as almost all of us will see an enormous Girth caused by swelling and then the eventual shrinkage that leaves us less than the biggest we\'ve been. I remember after my first procedure I was thinking, Holy S***!, this thing is huge and it wasn\'t even at 6\" Girth. After my second procedure I had a girl tell me I was gargantuan and I\'m still smiling from that comment. At close to 6.5\" now I still look at myself and think I\'m not very big even though I\'m def in the top 20% of all men and maybe even more. I guess for me it\'s the fastest gun syndrome. I don\'t ever want a woman to see me and not be the biggest she\'s ever seen. Ego? Perhaps but I think more of a culmination of my sexual experiences in the past and a desire to never go back to those days again. Brothers, I actually steered away from some beautiful women because I didn\'t want to pull out my little shooter when push came to shove. Those days are long gone - too bad I\'m so old now!!! lol

The society we live in gives all of us pressures of some sort!! Women want to be desired, skinnier , bigger tits ( perfect tits), the perfect ass etc. Men , strongest , best build, money , success and then the trump card of a huge Cock!! This is all pushed by tv, movies , Internet !! And most of the time there is really not anyone that fits the bill so the change camera angles, lighting , makeup, cut the un flattering parts, digitally alter you name it! But then we see the altered version of these perfect people and start to think that is what we need to be! I never thought one bad thing about my Cock until I saw bigger on tv or heard someone talking about it. So I know it is more complicated than this but I think it is a big part of it and I think It was brought up once before, 50 yrs ago all this was not an issue, because we were not bombarded with it!! And I personally think porn is bad , not only from a christian side but from men and women getting this stuff, or garbage in their head! And I admire you Sizemic for recognizing that an removing yourself from it! I still want to do it, because the genie is out of the bottle now, but I am being cautious about moving to fast to make sure it makes sense for me! I am on my phone as usual and it is hard to type a lot and or review so I hope this makes sense! And btw good thread!

When I first started Dr Guinta put it in my head that I could have a 7.5\" Girth so I took that and ran with it. I eventually reduced my goal to 6.75 and sat on that till I had my procedure. Once I reached 6.7 with swelling I quickly realized that it was too big. During my lowest measurement I recorded a 6.45\" Girth and was very pleased. Since I have gained even more than post swelling. I have measured 6.8 (current) but my other measurements have increased making it proportionate which has helped with aesthetics. My wife actually loves the new size, and while she admits to being sore she says its perfect. I tend to agree as the sex is more enjoyable for both parties. This isn\'t a one size fits all argument, life is diverse and will only continue getting more so. The size that was once desireable is no longer the max. Because only those patients who viewed it as a last resort werr getting the virtually unknown procedure. More and more patients with larger starting sizes are starting to skew the lines. I included myself in this category. But its those numbers that make new members feel like they have to have the 6\"+.

Perception is reality. Just because one man views another as having a large penis does not mean he perceives his self as being large. We are different. That makes us great!

Hmm yeah the new car thing is cool, I almost look at it like using steroids. (keep in mind I know 3 cycles of steroids wouldn\'t have this effect but its interesting to take the word PMMA and replace it with steroids and replace penis with muscles... it paints a pretty clear picture)...

PMMA is like STEROIDS...

Ie. You are a small dude who uses one cycle of steroids to bulk up a bit. You did it super fast, and without the same effort of someone who did it naturally. Suddenly everyone notices you are above average and fit and confident, most people can\'t tell you did a cycle.

You then get used to the size you are, the strength is the same and suddenly the attention you get from people (though it hasn\'t gone away) you notice doesn\'t excite you as much.

You want to do another cycle... hell if you got such good results from the first cycle, after a second you should be killer! Everyone will notice and you will look like a muscle model!

So you do a second steroid cycle. Suddenly you are BIG and people definitely notice you everywhere you go. You like the atttention. You hear whispers that some people think you are on roids but you don\'t care.. you a strong, muscly beast. You notice the odd girl though won\'t pay attention to you anymore... almost as if she isn\'t interested in you at all... kind of like the way things used to be when you were skinny... people didn\'t even consider you as a potential partner.

Meh fuck them, TONS of other chicks notice you and think your huge muscles are dope. You are pushing the lines where it comes to a natural physique though... one more round and there will be no hiding that you are on steriods... but you are addicted to the size, addicted to the strength and the thought of more muscle really really excites you.

You do another steroid cycle... the result is SUPER HUMAN... I mean out of every 10,000 guys you see there is only 1 of you for sure. I am talking MASSIVE Jay Culter or Ronny Coleman size muscle freak.

It is now rare for a girl to find you attractive... but the ones who do are absolutely amazed by you. Other girls are scared and wont go near though... your potential partners are seriously limited. BUT you are happy... so thats all that matters right?

Who do the girls typically want most? - guy after once cycle of steroids (lets say 5.25\" - 5.75\" Girth).

We just all need to realize that once you pass that 6\" line, you are walking a thin line... one more step and you kind of jump outside of normal reality and into uncharted lands. Do I still want to? Yeah... are we weird or kind of not thinking clearly?.... yeah.

There is a reason 6\" Girth is the common end goal at thundersplace.org (manual PE forums)... because anything over that is so so so rare and pretty much impossible to achieve through manual PE (unless you start close to 6\" Girth already).

I think another thing worth mentioning that soreness from sex isn\'t just due to size, but the type and ferocity of sex performed. I think in a ongoing relationship and less \"showy\" sex, a larger Girth is okay, while with one-night stands and hookups where there\'s less familiarity and perhaps more ferocity, you might get complaints or lack of pure positive feedback. I\'m not saying regular monogamous sex can\'t be ferocious, I just think its more mutually considerate.

Female porn actors have to deal with a lot of rough sex, for long periods of time, in weird positions, its not really natural and they\'re obviously going to not look forward for massive guys.

@jlmb especially if they also escort on the side. One big D will put them out of commission for the day likely.

I have had friends with benefits who told me they are always sore the next morning. Even after 2 or 3 months of being FWB. Mind you FWB sex is still not \"loving sex\"

thehulk wrote:

Eightbysix416 wrote: It definitely is. My thoughts about this particular topic are pretty contradictory. I was also a little out of it when I wrote that post.

Call me skeptical because I would like to see a picture of your unit next to a ruler and wrapped with a measuring tape.

Thanks

Whilst I completely understand your skepticism, I hope you can appreciate that I have some reservations about providing the photos you\'re requesting. I\'m new to this, both to this forum and to discussing publicly something usually kept quite private. I will certainly think about it and more than likely will do as you ask at a later date.

I apologize if my original post was crass or obtuse. I had no intention or want to offend or belittle anyone, I\'m very sorry if I have.

This forum is incredibly informative and I have already learned a great deal in the short time I\'ve been a member. Again, I sincerely apologize if I\'ve offended anyone.

Eightbysix416 wrote: It definitely is. My thoughts about this particular topic are pretty contradictory. I was also a little out of it when I wrote that post.

Call me skeptical because I would like to see a picture of your unit next to a ruler and wrapped with a measuring tape.

Thanks

It definitely is. My thoughts about this particular topic are pretty contradictory. I was also a little out of it when I wrote that post.

Eightbysix416 wrote: My apologies for entering this thread apparently uninformed. I feel I need to intrude because I was under the distinct impression that legitimate medical/surgical options regarding increasing Dick size were either extremely dangerous and prone to failure or were simply myth. Its something I\'ve literally dreamed about for years and to hear that its actually possible is... Amazing. I\'m saving up already... I\'m already 8\" long with a 6\" circumference and realistically should just be happy with what I\'ve got and shut up... Its something I\'ve wanted for years though and if the possibility to get bigger via some procedure/surgery exists, consequences be damned, I\'m in. Can I ask where I might find information about this procedure? I would very much appreciate any suggestions. Just as an aside, I\'m not trolling or bragging. I would just very much like to be able to look at myself and be happy with what I see. Thank you again.

Isn\'t that a bit of a contradiction?

90% of this board is about the procedure and who does it, I\'d keep reading.
But, you got the first part right about it having potential very serious consequences - now or later, keep reading about those too. Still not sure if you are real but I\'d leave really good alone, or make a list of all the potential bad outcomes you read about on here and ask yourself if you are good with having those before you do anything.

My apologies for entering this thread apparently uninformed. I feel I need to intrude because I was under the distinct impression that legitimate medical/surgical options regarding increasing Dick size were either extremely dangerous and prone to failure or were simply myth. Its something I\'ve literally dreamed about for years and to hear that its actually possible is... Amazing. I\'m saving up already...

I\'m already 8\" long with a 6\" circumference and realistically should just be happy with what I\'ve got and shut up... Its something I\'ve wanted for years though and if the possibility to get bigger via some procedure/surgery exists, consequences be damned, I\'m in.

Can I ask where I might find information about this procedure? I would very much appreciate any suggestions.

Just as an aside, I\'m not trolling or bragging. I would just very much like to be able to look at myself and be happy with what I see. Thank you again.

CrazyGreggs wrote: I think you should go as large as you feel compelled to. Hell its a life we only get to live once, and if enlarging your penis makes you happy then do it. I have been in manual penis enlargement for 8 months and gained one Inch in that time. Now looking at surgery as well. I love it!

Yes, except that there are consequences to \"going as large as you feel compelled to.\" If there were no risks with penis enlargement methods, then hell, why wouldn\'t every man pursue a larger unit, even for the hell of it. Fact is, in this \"one life we have to life,\" our penis is incredibly important to us, and attempts at enlarging it have not always had desirable results. In other words, penis enlargement (surgery specifically) isn\'t for everyone, and even manual penis enlargement has had its fair share of victims... and that\'s a sobering truth.

I think you should go as large as you feel compelled to. Hell its a life we only get to live once, and if enlarging your penis makes you happy then do it. I have been in manual penis enlargement for 8 months and gained one Inch in that time. Now looking at surgery as well. I love it!

I would love to go 8+ Girth. But it should be noted my long term wife can easily take my fist no lube or 2X 6-7+ Inch dildos at same time. No bullshit.
She would put the girls on BrutalDildos to shame. But it did take a lot of time and effort to get like this. Yes we like it kinkier than most.
I would think most girls would see 6 inches of Girth and go \"wow holy shit, got any lube\"
I think most child bearing woman would see 6.5-7 Inch Girth and go \"fuck, that is really thick, got any lube\"
Just my thoughts from an old man who\'s been on the dancefloor many times
Hope all my PMMA brothers are well