Skeptical One, thank you for the input. I\'ve really enjoyed reading your advice to others on this forum. I said average because from my experience with roughly 50 women, their comments, reactions, and asking even asking a few. My size has never been an issue before PE or after my modest gains. I\'ve never hurt anyone, at least to my knowledge. Also, I meant it from the perspective that I fall within average tolerances. I\'ve never had a girl say I was small, but got the feeling from a few that I was less than they desired. I don\'t disagree that my insecurity is a form of dysmorphia, however I\'ve done tons of research read volumes of info on the subject and base my opinion on everythig as a whole. I\'d love to talk to you or any other member via phone or in person and really have a dialogue on this subject. I know it\'s a big decision and it carries a lot of risks. By the way, I live in the DFW area.
I have spoken to my SO at times and she says I\'m fine. She knows I have feared being inadequate with her due to our conversations. She does do kegels, so I\'d say she does her part. She\'s said
Girth is more important than length and has had much bigger but says its not the only thing. Skill trumps size was what she said to me the last time we talked about it. I think talking about my concerns with her has been good but it\'s also a very fine line not to go overboard. Too much and you run the risk of making her feel bad about being open with you.
Another thing I\'d like to share from my experience and reading other peoples stories considering enlargement is this. Regardless of your size, whether bigger or smaller than \"average\" we all have different perceptions and experiences when it comes to sex. For the record, only 2 girls have ever said I was big. Does that mean anything? I\'m not sure. I\'ve heard of guys considersbly smaller than me get comments on being big.
My main goal with enlargement is to feel better about myself. Like many others here I\'m sure at one point or another has let this absolutely dominate their life. I\'m tired of feeling this way and letting this lack of confidence in myself dominate my life.
Anyone interested in chatting, shoot me a PM.