TOPIC: Let's clarify one thing about size...

Hmmmm... Wonder who you\'re referring to...

I agree with the points made. In my case, I\'m married with 3 children and unfortunately... way over 30. I also lived without a functional penis for nearly 15 years. I\'m not out to create a monster however the increase in size has made a HUGE difference in the quality of sexual relations with my wife. I would imagine that a non childbearing woman would find my size very large but not huge. I know several friends with genuine penis length\'s in excess of 9\" and girths of 6\"+ and they\'ve rarely had issues with most girls they\'ve slept with. My ex roommate was a blessed guy with a monster Cock. He always had girls calling him for sex and had many threesomes and foursomes due to his stamina and humongous wang. Most of these guys report that girls typically go wild over their size and can become quite covetous over their new found \"prize\". Opinions will always vary. Perhaps on my side of the continental United States, women prefer larger men.

I DO NOT feel younger men should have a PMMA procedure done. I also do not recommend anyone go through an elective, life altering procedure without fully assessing the risks and long term consequences of their decision. I\'ve only been with around 8-9 women in my life and ALL of them said they like a big penis. Your mileage may vary. Even pre peyronie\'s, I was 8\" in length and 5.5\"+ in Girth and was never told that I was huge. I was told that I was a good size or \"perfect\". Truth be told, most really well endowed men are promiscuous and the girls that have been with them... compare every other man to them. This combined with the warped perspective pictured by the porn industry will drive the average joe insane. It\'s not a fair world. Never has been. Never will be.

I also think \"evil bitches\" have an unfortunate role in influencing some of the decisions made with regards to Phalloplasty. I recall an 8x6 at Thunders who genuinely believed he was small (obviously a serious case of body dysmorphia) because of the comments two women made in his past (one told him she had seen a longer one, and the other told him she had seen a thicker one). It was amazing that, in light of having a huge Cock, he still managed to convince himself that he was inadequate.
We must remember that a lot of times women (or gay men for that matter) take a shot at our \"size\" as a means to take a shot at our ego/pride. First lesson is not to date people of this type of character, and second lesson is to put demeaning remarks in perspective...chances are pretty good that if you are average or bigger, they were just jerking you around.
For the \"under 30\" crowd, I think pornography is becoming a real issue. I mean guys older than 30 obviously have always had access to porn (including internet porn), but it is the younger generations that are growing up with it, and in my humble opinion, is wreaking havoc on psycho-sexual development. If you go to any of these free porn sites, I\'d venture to say half their ads are Web-Cam subscriptions, and the other half are penis enlargement ads. The ads themselves are obviously photoshopped, but the very image of a 12x9 (as obviously unrealistic as it is) can have a negative impact on the male viewer. Furthermore, porn only casts above-average guys, with average cocks becoming less and less popular. What\'s really tragic is that the only market for small cocks is humiliation-based fetishes. The porn culture can and is having a devastating effect on our perceptions of size, sex, and women (in that they are so readily object-ifiable - I know that\'s not a word but so what lol).
I would say this thread is more suited for the Love, Lust, & Vanity sub-forum, but I think it will get more visibility here, and I think it\'s a topic worth discussing at length.

gamecock wrote: This is about researching the best option available and deciding if it\'s worth the risk to try to create a potentially happier sex life and more confidence for ourselves.

I agree. That was and still is the ultimate purpose of this forum/site.

gamecock wrote: I have been with dozens of women in the last couple of years and I have learned that while I\'m sure size does matter to a point, the majority of pleasure comes from how a women feels (what she thinks) about you. She has this idea about you and that is what makes her cum, not you\'re amazing Girth.

I totally agree. And while I may not have half the experience of some of the guys here, I know from my conversations with women as well as what I\'ve learned over the years that quality sex with a woman is as much mental as it is physical (for both parties).
However, in fairness, when it comes to a purely physical point-of-view, a girthy penis can provided added sensation for both parties. Even in light of this, one does not need a magnum Girth to achieve quality sex. At the end of the day, a healthy guy with intelligence, humor, and charm, sporting an average unit can be just as (or sometimes more) gratifying than a John Doe with a monster Cock.

Androgen wrote: Hoddle, I understand what you\'re saying. I think the notion I am trying to convey isn\'t coming across correctly. What I\'m trying to say, is in relation to Gamecock\'s post about women being able to handle this size or that size. I\'m not concerned with that. I\'m not altering my penis to please them, but rather please myself. Regardless of where that insecurity stems from, the affect is self satisfaction rather than satisfying someone else. In short, my desires are far more selfish than \"will it hurt her if its this big?\" I want the size I want, regardless of it\'s function or utility, simply to satisfy my own feelings. I\'m not denying that my insecurities stem from an outside source, we are creatures of influence. Somewhere in my life I was influenced enough to believe what I believe an Alpha Male is. I\'m not doing it for anyone, only for myself. However the \"need\" for that satisfaction was indeed influenced by something. I\'m not doing it because some girl told me I\'m small, or because some guy in a porn has a bigger one. I\'m doing it to satisfy the feeling within myself.

I actually think your reasons I\'ve highlighted are true of everyone here, even those that are more obviously concerned by what women or a particular woman thinks. But ultimately I think it all stems from the same place, as you say it is \"influenced by something.\"
No matter what anyone says or believes of themselves, I don\'t think that if they knew for an absolute fact that no one else would ever see their penis again, that they wouldn\'t have one of these procedures given the risks. Though, given how we\'ve been all been so brainwashed, if there was no risk, even if there was no chance anyone would ever see it again, then I suspect many of us would still do it!

Hey... I chose to have PMMA... not my wife. I don\'t think a huge dong is necessary to please a woman. I\'ve never stated such. It will make a difference to the vast majority (at least that has been my experience) and had a profound impact on my wife\'s enjoyment of penetration.

@SO
Bro... I watched him measure his unit. I didn\'t have to though as it was obviously huge. He was my best friend for three years and knows girls that have had bigger than him. He was over 9 inches long and over 6 inches in circumference. He was also extremely promiscuous and had slept with hundreds of females. Hell, he slept with at least 50 at my house during the duration of his tenancy. I\'m not saying any of this to stir things up. It\'s just how I\'ve experienced life. Everyone\'s experience is different. My uncle on my father\'s side sports an 11 Inch penis. Skinny dipping off his boat in Florida was enough to garner stares and feelings of inadequacy by me, my brother and my father. He\'s enormous. Like it or not, monster dicks DO exist. Not all women care nor are the majority incapable of being satisfied by the average 6x5\'er. Some love a man with a giant penis. These are the women I always end up with. Now I have a giant penis. End of story.

***For what it\'s worth, even if I were single I would have elected to undergo Phalloplasty via penile bioplasty. The PMMA does a great job camouflaging my peyronie\'s graft and actually offers me increased stability. I am middle age and had learned to live without my penis for a decade and a half. I have (other than aesthetics) experienced no negative consequences to date and have no regrets. Again, I do not recommend the procedure to young adults, teens, etc. I also think a psychological evaluation is in order for some individuals (names withheld). If I ended up with some horrific complication 2, 5 or even 20 years down the road and lost use of my penis, I\'d be okay. At present, I\'ve got incredible EQ, a straight functional penis and it\'s hella thick too. I owe a debt of gratitude to my brethren here at PhalloBoards for sharing their experiences and offering their advice. I\'m a happier person today... married or single. Like Jose Jalapeno says, \"I have the stick\".

I absolutely think that most of us here if not all of us did some sort of PE, including this bad arse PMMA is because of social conditioning and because \"bigger is better\" syndrome that exist in our society today.

Like H10 said, if I was on an island with one woman, I do not think she would complain about the size of my Dick nor would I try to \"stick a stick on my Dick\" to make it bigger

I did it to hear the women moan and groan, I did it because my ex bitch told I had a small one (I was at or above average) to hurt my feelings, I did it because my Society shows me in ads, the movies and the commercials that bigger is better.....in every thing we do, cars, houses,buildings...etc. I am not fooling myself. I did it because it boosts my ego and sex DOES feel good, actually great.
I put a freaking Silicone implant in my Dick, how crazy is that? at the time it sounded good! now it would be criminal for me to do it again. I put PMMA three times in my Dick. The girls, most of them, love it. Some of them could not take it all the way in, that boosted my ego even though it was not fun to stop having sex because of a big unit.

Don\'t you guys go out and get a giant penis because of what I am stating here. This is my experience and my thoughts, YMMV! I think I have a bit too much PMMA now at about 7.5\" base Girth, and I am hoping I will lose some Girth to be able to have sex with any young woman with no children.

Read H10 post #9. It says it the best, and that is the way I see it because H10 said so

Miracle7x6 wrote:
@SO
Bro... I watched him measure his unit. I didn\'t have to though as it was obviously huge. He was my best friend for three years and knows girls that have had bigger than him. He was over 9 inches long and over 6 inches in circumference. He was also extremely promiscuous and had slept with hundreds of females. Hell, he slept with at least 50 at my house during the duration of his tenancy. I\'m not saying any of this to stir things up. It\'s just how I\'ve experienced life. Everyone\'s experience is different. My uncle on my father\'s side sports an 11 inch penis. Skinny dipping off his boat in Florida was enough to garner stares and feelings of inadequacy by me, my brother and my father. He\'s enormous. Like it or not, monster dicks DO exist. Not all women care nor are the majority incapable of being satisfied by the average 6x5\'er. Some love a man with a giant penis. These are the women I always end up with. Now I have a giant penis. End of story.

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These are the biggest posted anywhere on the internet. There are indeed some monsters, but they include every big cock ever posted on LPSG, which is an old site with over 450,000 members. When you consider that a large proportion of that site are members because they have large cocks, and yet there are so few over 9\" it shows how truly rare they are. It would seem that a true 9\"er occurs about 1 in 5000 men on a site dedicated to large cocks. So whilst they do exist, that should put into context just how insanely rare they are, yet so many people are convinced they\'ve seen them. Thundersplace has over 100,000 members and I think there is proof of less then 3 genuine 9\"ers. I\'m not in anyway suggesting you are lying or anything like that, but I suspect there was a measuring error in the case of your uncle.
Personally I think it\'s down to the fact we measure in inches, which means there is actually a big difference per increment (2.5cm). Also we ignore volume. If a 6\" guy see\'s someone with a bit bigger dick than theirs they naturally add at least one increment of measurement and assumes it\'s 7\". But if a cock is just 1cm longer and 1 cm thicker, it will look significantly bigger. So it\'s easy to understand why a guy could assume it was at least an inch longer. When we estimate we naturally go up in single units.

So OP how big are you?

imbignow wrote:
What does this all mean? One girl\'s past motivated me to get bigger and another girl\'s comment made me realize that maybe it isn\'t as important as I thought.

It means that men will never be able to understand women\'s comments on the subject of size since I think THEY do not know themselves and their comments change based on their emotions/feelings at that moment!

@sizemic - 23 BAM! I\'m pretty sure all I was doing at that age was having sex.
Amen to freeing your mind.

Originally posted by imbignow...

Who knows, maybe we\'ll have robotic units that can grow, vibrate and turn into a flashlight when you\'re done so your girl can find her clothes.

Love it!

Shit.

I\'m 23.

Guess I took one for the team boys...

The way I look at it is. Say I do have a complication 5, 10, 20 years down the road. I am pretty sure there will be some sort of \"fix\" to it, however invasive it might be. It might be a bitch to fix. But I took the risk and am willing to see how this pans out. That\'s just my opinion. The benifit outweighed the risk for me.

Some of you may think I am a dumb-ass for getting it so young... I am kind of glad I got it young at the same time. I am having the time of my life right now.

ALSO, weigh it in this way:

- 23 years old.
- Spent 5+ years spending 1+ hours a day in the bathroom stretching, pumping, Hanging... obessing about my penis and growing it larger. Thinking all day about PE and what I could do to make it bigger.
- Did some dumb, irrational things to myself.
- Developed a \"deviant\" type mind... I was two faced. There was the Sizemic all my friends and family knew and loved and the Sizemic who fantasized all the time about growing it bigger, worrying about missing out on stretching time etc.

What PMMA did for me:
- Freed me of my desire to PE.
- I don\'t stretch, I have no want or need to, I only pump for pleasure sometimes when im bored.
- I hardly ever think about my penis anymore. I am genuinely happy with that aspect of my life right now.
- I am starting to feel like there is just \"Sizemic\" now. I don\'t have a crazy hobby that burdens my subcouscious.

Did I take it a little far? Yes probably. I have a lot of material in there. I have to pay the price if it turns for the worse. For me the risk was worth it.

imbignow wrote: So, nothing big or anything to brag about, but some how did something that nobody else was able to do. What does this all mean? One girl\'s past motivated me to get bigger and another girl\'s comment made me realize that maybe it isn\'t as important as I thought.

It just goes to show a lot more things are at play, and size can be just one of many aspects of pleasuring a woman.

It\'s really crazy I read this post today because I was just thinking about this.
I\'ve been with probably 70ish girls over my time ( late 20\'s now) and was confident until I found one that I actually cared about. Found out she was with a really big one and something in my head said, \"ahhh you need one now.\" Well, I take many risks in my life so doing something like PMMA wasn\'t that big of a deal. This may be a dumb way of looking at it, but I figure if something goes wrong in 30 years then the advances in the medical industry will be good enough to fix the issue. Who knows, maybe we\'ll have robotic units that can grow, vibrate and turn into a flashlight when you\'re done so your girl can find her clothes.
Another reason I did it is because I\'ve lost interest in sex a bit. I\'ve done it so much with so many different people that it just seems like routine now. Having a new penis makes it feel different mentally and physically. I\'m hoping it feels better after round two since I feel like I have extra skin.
Those are the thoughts and reasoning beyond my motives. The reason why I was thinking about these thoughts again before round 2 is because a new girl I\'m seeing told me that she never got off on bottom before until she met me. I have no idea what her past dudes were like, but after round 1 I\'m between 5 and 5.1 mseg. So, nothing big or anything to brag about, but some how did something that nobody else was able to do. What does this all mean? One girl\'s past motivated me to get bigger and another girl\'s comment made me realize that maybe it isn\'t as important as I thought.

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